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  • JBH3
    Marvel's Finest
    • Jan 2007
    • 13506

    #1

    What can YOU do?

    "Baby Justice", for those who aren't aware, was a toddler who was found dead on a playground, buried w/ his leg sticking out of the ground in Albuquerqe, NM; a mother taking her children to the playground found the boy.

    http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/05/21/nm.buried.boy/

    I remember seeing this story on CNN last week, and as a father feeling my heart sink in my chest that yet another child has become a victim of our society's ways - be it an insatiable hunger for sex or instant gratification, etc.

    Linked are two stories:

    One from America's Most Wanted giving a breakdown of what happened. You'll find it rather gripping that the mother started to suffocate him, changed her mind and resuscitated him, and THEN changed her mind a 2nd time and went through with it.

    Watch America's Most Wanted now on FOX One. Full episodes available to stream anytime, anywhere.


    This is a column which I stumbled upon that had a very good message. Some might be turned off by the references of Christianity etc., but I ask you to look to the core of what is being said and digest only that.

    Such As:

    Perhaps, we have looked the other way when we saw a mother abusing her child—physically or verbally. Maybe we have contributed to the problem by being too afraid to speak out for fear of reprisals or not wanting to become involved somebody else’s problems. The Bible teaches us that we are to be “our brother’s (and our sister’s) keeper. Our involvement can change a mother’s desperate situation – whether we offer a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, a loaf of bread, or a ride to a mental health counselor’s office. As Christians, we need to do more than just talk about the Tiffany Toribios and the Susan Smiths that kill their children; but we need to become involved in their lives and learn to recognize the signs that can push women to commit despicable acts.
    As parents, we need to lead by example and not be afraid to chasten our children. Demand that your sons pull up those baggy pants and stop looking like they are ready to jump into bed at a moment’s notice. Absentee fathers, come back home, stop hanging out in the street, and lead your sons with a pure example of fatherhood. Treat your wife with respect, ditch those “other women” and teach your son how to love women, instead of calling them a derogatory name reserved for female dogs. And mothers, demand that your daughters dress like ladies and not whores, and that they cover up their nakedness and stop advertising their “goods” to the world. Teach your sons and your daughters that they are of value and that morality and decency need not be compromised for popularity and pregnancy, even for a government check. Instill within them the same values that our parents and grandparents taught us: that marriage is still honorable and the bed undefiled, but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
    http://www.examiner.com/x-7327-Atlan...bios-out-there


    I'm a new father, my son will be 21 months on 7 June.

    I vow to do my very BEST in raising him to be a functioning and contributing member of society. I want to instill in him a pride in his country and fellow man, and a willingness to help others.

    At his age right now it makes it hard for me to dedicate time to another child in need, and thus far my only contributions to those in need have been monetary ones.

    Once he is of an age to understand and help others then together him and I will volunteer our time to do so.

    This is not a thread to judge those who've comitted atrocities. It's to raise awareness, and hopefully inspire people to help in their communities and be a leader and role model.

    We need to do better. What can YOU do?
    Last edited by JBH3; 05-29-2009, 02:24 PM.
    Originally posted by Edmund Burke
    All that is needed for the triumph of evil, is for good men to do nothing.
  • Jackdog
    Wolverine Soldier
    • Aug 2002
    • 7719

    #2
    Re: What can YOU do?

    I got my son involved with volunteer work at the age of 5. He's now almost 14 and is involved in 8 different community organizations. We moved here 10 months ago. Wife and I are very proud parents.
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    NCAA:Michigan Wolverines.
    F-1: Ferrari.

    It's been a while OS. Hope all are doing well!

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    • JBH3
      Marvel's Finest
      • Jan 2007
      • 13506

      #3
      Re: What can YOU do?

      Mods. Can someone add one of those question mark icons to the thread title. I thought I did so, but apparently not.
      Originally posted by Edmund Burke
      All that is needed for the triumph of evil, is for good men to do nothing.

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      • JBH3
        Marvel's Finest
        • Jan 2007
        • 13506

        #4
        Re: What can YOU do?

        Originally posted by Jackdog
        I got my son involved with volunteer work at the age of 5. He's now almost 14 and is involved in 8 different community organizations. We moved here 10 months ago. Wife and I are very proud parents.
        Jackdog - You're awesome. You've given so much and continue to give. 5 will be the age where I get my son started too...thanks for that little nugget.
        Originally posted by Edmund Burke
        All that is needed for the triumph of evil, is for good men to do nothing.

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        • CWSapp757
          SimWorld Draft Class Guru
          • Aug 2008
          • 4651

          #5
          Re: What can YOU do?

          What up JBH. Congratulations on the baby even if I am a year and some change late. It's really terrible to hear these types of stories on such a frequent basis. Personally, I do not have children, but being an In-Home counselor with a mental health agency I try to do all I can everyday. Actually going in the homes of some of these families and hearing their issues first hand is really hard sometimes. These three years have forced me to look at life completely different now and even reevaluate myself. I'm gonna continue to try to help these families as much as I can though and continue to pray for a positive change.
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          • Trevytrev11
            MVP
            • Nov 2006
            • 3259

            #6
            Re: What can YOU do?

            Originally posted by Jackdog
            I got my son involved with volunteer work at the age of 5. He's now almost 14 and is involved in 8 different community organizations. We moved here 10 months ago. Wife and I are very proud parents.
            Where/how did you start your son? My wife and I have discussed doing something simililar, but would appreciate any advice you have.

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            • JBH3
              Marvel's Finest
              • Jan 2007
              • 13506

              #7
              Re: What can YOU do?

              Originally posted by CWSapp757
              What up JBH. Congratulations on the baby even if I am a year and some change late. It's really terrible to hear these types of stories on such a frequent basis. Personally, I do not have children, but being an In-Home counselor with a mental health agency I try to do all I can everyday. Actually going in the homes of some of these families and hearing their issues first hand is really hard sometimes. These three years have forced me to look at life completely different now and even reevaluate myself. I'm gonna continue to try to help these families as much as I can though and continue to pray for a positive change.
              Thanks for your service. I see you're from Newport News. I was born and raised in Chesapeake, my parents, bro, and sis still live there. Thanks again for helping those in need.

              I've learned a lot from people like yourself to help my own family, and do strongly advise anyone in need of marriage counseling to seek it - even as others here have laughed at me for advising that.

              I know it can be hard going in homes and trying to rationalize and help people who don't necessarily care nor want help, but who's children NEED help...my mom has been a social services worker for the City of Chesapeake for 20+ years.
              Originally posted by Edmund Burke
              All that is needed for the triumph of evil, is for good men to do nothing.

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              • Jackdog
                Wolverine Soldier
                • Aug 2002
                • 7719

                #8
                Re: What can YOU do?

                Originally posted by Trevytrev11
                Where/how did you start your son? My wife and I have discussed doing something simililar, but would appreciate any advice you have.
                VA hospital in Johnson City TN. Usually they require kids to be at least 13-14 but I had a little pull with some folks there and got him in. He helped hand out meals and books and magazines to the indigent vets that live there. The best bet at that age is to volunteer yourself and bring your child along with you to help out. If your comfortable,PM me your city and I'll see what I can find in your area.
                NFL:Packers
                MLB:Reds/Tigers
                NHL:Red Wings
                NCAA:Michigan Wolverines.
                F-1: Ferrari.

                It's been a while OS. Hope all are doing well!

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                • Jackdog
                  Wolverine Soldier
                  • Aug 2002
                  • 7719

                  #9
                  Re: What can YOU do?

                  Originally posted by JBH3
                  Jackdog - You're awesome. You've given so much and continue to give. 5 will be the age where I get my son started too...thanks for that little nugget.

                  No problem. Your son is lucky to have great parents. Congrats brother!!!
                  NFL:Packers
                  MLB:Reds/Tigers
                  NHL:Red Wings
                  NCAA:Michigan Wolverines.
                  F-1: Ferrari.

                  It's been a while OS. Hope all are doing well!

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                  • CWSapp757
                    SimWorld Draft Class Guru
                    • Aug 2008
                    • 4651

                    #10
                    Re: What can YOU do?

                    Wow, really? Our agency just got a second office in Chesapeake. Your family may have heard of us, or maybe even you. We are called Family Redirection Institute. And your mom really deserves a big up. My 3 years have been tough so 20 plus years is amazing. Your mother is a true warrior in regards to this field of work.
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                    • JBH3
                      Marvel's Finest
                      • Jan 2007
                      • 13506

                      #11
                      Re: What can YOU do?

                      Originally posted by CWSapp757
                      Wow, really? Our agency just got a second office in Chesapeake. Your family may have heard of us, or maybe even you. We are called Family Redirection Institute. And your mom really deserves a big up. My 3 years have been tough so 20 plus years is amazing. Your mother is a true warrior in regards to this field of work.
                      Well can't say that I've heard of you since I've been a supplant here in the DC area since 2002 (last Marine Corps duty station was Quantico). I'll be in town this weekend as my brother is competing in a triatholon on Norfolk Naval Base. I'll ask my mom if she has heard of your agency, and I'll also let her know of your comments...she'll appreciate that.
                      Originally posted by Edmund Burke
                      All that is needed for the triumph of evil, is for good men to do nothing.

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                      • fistofrage
                        Hall Of Fame
                        • Aug 2002
                        • 13682

                        #12
                        Re: What can YOU do?

                        About 40% of the children in the U.S. live in single parent households. If you fix that issue you are well on the way to fixing many problems.

                        Anyone with a child knows how much time and money it takes to raise a child the way you want to. A single parent just gets spread too thin. And yes there are exceptions to this, but by and large if each household had 2 caring parents, I guarantee we'd see change for the better.
                        Chalepa Ta Kala.....

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                        • JBH3
                          Marvel's Finest
                          • Jan 2007
                          • 13506

                          #13
                          Re: What can YOU do?

                          Originally posted by fistofrage
                          About 40% of the children in the U.S. live in single parent households. If you fix that issue you are well on the way to fixing many problems.

                          Anyone with a child knows how much time and money it takes to raise a child the way you want to. A single parent just gets spread too thin. And yes there are exceptions to this, but by and large if each household had 2 caring parents, I guarantee we'd see change for the better.
                          Which is where that 2nd link for a "call to action" comes in.

                          From it:

                          As parents, we need to lead by example and not be afraid to chasten our children. Demand that your sons pull up those baggy pants and stop looking like they are ready to jump into bed at a moment’s notice. Absentee fathers, come back home, stop hanging out in the street, and lead your sons with a pure example of fatherhood. Treat your wife with respect, ditch those “other women” and teach your son how to love women, instead of calling them a derogatory name reserved for female dogs. And mothers, demand that your daughters dress like ladies and not whores, and that they cover up their nakedness and stop advertising their “goods” to the world. Teach your sons and your daughters that they are of value and that morality and decency need not be compromised for popularity and pregnancy, even for a government check. Instill within them the same values that our parents and grandparents taught us: that marriage is still honorable and the bed undefiled, but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
                          Originally posted by Edmund Burke
                          All that is needed for the triumph of evil, is for good men to do nothing.

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                          • fistofrage
                            Hall Of Fame
                            • Aug 2002
                            • 13682

                            #14
                            Re: What can YOU do?

                            Originally posted by JBH3
                            Which is where that 2nd link for a "call to action" comes in.

                            From it:
                            Yep, its necessary. Even if you have a heart of gold, I don't see how a single parent can find enough time in the day to do what they feel is necessary to raise a child properly, let alone volunteer their own time to do good.

                            I think that children aren't given enough attention which leads to a lower sense of self worth which leads to bad choices. Get enough people caring about the kids and you'll see the difference. And it all goes back to not having two adults in the household that put the children first and give them avenues to succeed.
                            Chalepa Ta Kala.....

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                            • Jackdog
                              Wolverine Soldier
                              • Aug 2002
                              • 7719

                              #15
                              Re: What can YOU do?

                              Originally posted by fistofrage
                              Yep, its necessary. Even if you have a heart of gold, I don't see how a single parent can find enough time in the day to do what they feel is necessary to raise a child properly, let alone volunteer their own time to do good.

                              I think that children aren't given enough attention which leads to a lower sense of self worth which leads to bad choices. Get enough people caring about the kids and you'll see the difference. And it all goes back to not having two adults in the household that put the children first and give them avenues to succeed.
                              No doubt. Good post.
                              NFL:Packers
                              MLB:Reds/Tigers
                              NHL:Red Wings
                              NCAA:Michigan Wolverines.
                              F-1: Ferrari.

                              It's been a while OS. Hope all are doing well!

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