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  • fishepa
    I'm Ron F'n Swanson!
    • Feb 2003
    • 18989

    #31
    Re: Wife and I are hurting.

    Very sorry to hear that man. My wife and I had a miscarriage a little under a year ago. Now we just had a beautiful and healthy baby girl almost a month ago. It's really amazing how often this happens, I believe the current statistic is 25%, but it doesn't make it any easier. You and your family will be in my prayers.

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    • Laettner32
      Banned
      • Jul 2002
      • 2873

      #32
      Re: Wife and I are hurting.

      My wife was carrying twins and had a miscarriage. Worst feeling ever. It was like a numbness for weeks. Take care of yourself and your family. It may take a little bit, but you will get back up.

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      • RAZRr1275
        All Star
        • Sep 2007
        • 9918

        #33
        Re: Wife and I are hurting.

        Sorry to hear that.
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        • Pink Mist
          Pro
          • Sep 2008
          • 921

          #34
          Re: Wife and I are hurting.

          Sorry to hear about this.

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          • JBH3
            Marvel's Finest
            • Jan 2007
            • 13506

            #35
            Re: Wife and I are hurting.

            Originally posted by stlstudios189
            Hey guys. I don't know why I'm posting this except I'm hurting and just need to get it out. My wife and I were expecting our 3rd child this year and we were both very excited. We already have 2 wonderful daughters and could not wait to see what God had in store for us this time around.

            Friday she had some problems and we were in the Hospital for 9 hours. She was told it's an infection and to take it easy.

            Saturday I am at work and she is feeling better untill around 5 am.

            Sunday I take our 2 girls to the store and she is trying to take a nap and while I'm gone she losses the baby at 18 weeks pregnant. It is the worst day of my life and I can't stop hurting inside. He was a boy and I lost him before I ever got to know him.

            I don't know what you guys believe in but, I believe my son is in heaven and I will see him when I get there.

            Thanks for letting me get this out guys.
            Our first pregnancy was a miss-carriage. Fully know the hurt you feel. Thankfully my wife gave birth to a son almost 2 yrs ago, and he is the pride and joy of our lives. Time heals all wounds.
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            • stlstudios189
              MVP
              • Jan 2009
              • 2649

              #36
              Re: Wife and I are hurting.

              I am amazed by the sheer numbers of times this happens. I thank you guys so much and just want to say thank you for your prayers and kind words.
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              • roadman
                *ll St*r
                • Aug 2003
                • 26339

                #37
                Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                Take day by day.

                Our first child died late in pregnancy because the placenta severed away.(called an abruption)

                He only lived for 37 minutes once delivered by C-Section.

                My wives doctor gave her the best advice. Wait a year to heal the wounds physically and mentally.

                There are several sunny days awaiting your family, you just need to get through the cloudy/rainy days.

                This happened 18 yrs ago. To this day, we celebrate his birth with a birthday cake with our other three children every year.

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                • nyisles16
                  All Star
                  • Apr 2003
                  • 8317

                  #38
                  Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                  Can't say I've had this experience - no kids myself yet, but do know friends and family that have gone through experiences like this.

                  Very sorry to hear for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your wife.

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                  • Happy29
                    All Star
                    • Jan 2006
                    • 5489

                    #39
                    Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                    Man I'm sorry to hear that my daughter passed away 4 years ago so I know the hurt you are feeling. And like you I take comfort in knowing she is in Heaven and I will see her again one day. Nothing can ever take the pain away but believe me when I say things do get easier in time. I will keep you and you family in my prayers.
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                    • Flightwhite24
                      Hall Of Fame
                      • Jul 2005
                      • 12094

                      #40
                      Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                      Originally posted by stlstudios189
                      Hey guys. I don't know why I'm posting this except I'm hurting and just need to get it out. My wife and I were expecting our 3rd child this year and we were both very excited. We already have 2 wonderful daughters and could not wait to see what God had in store for us this time around.

                      Friday she had some problems and we were in the Hospital for 9 hours. She was told it's an infection and to take it easy.

                      Saturday I am at work and she is feeling better untill around 5 am.

                      Sunday I take our 2 girls to the store and she is trying to take a nap and while I'm gone she losses the baby at 18 weeks pregnant. It is the worst day of my life and I can't stop hurting inside. He was a boy and I lost him before I ever got to know him.

                      I don't know what you guys believe in but, I believe my son is in heaven and I will see him when I get there.

                      Thanks for letting me get this out guys.
                      My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep believing in your faith and things will start to get better. Take care
                      The poster formerly know as "FLIGHTWHITE"

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                      • gopadres
                        OS Member #242
                        • Jul 2002
                        • 931

                        #41
                        Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                        stlstudios: I was very moved by your post and you have my thoughts and condolences.
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                        • Gibbz
                          All Star
                          • Aug 2005
                          • 8240

                          #42
                          Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                          Damn, that's rough STL. Only time will help ease the pain. I can't imagine how you must feel.

                          Stay strong for your lady.

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                          • slickdtc
                            Grayscale
                            • Aug 2004
                            • 17125

                            #43
                            Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                            Wow, I didn't know the miscarriage rate was at 25%. That's an incredible statistic.
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                            • roadman
                              *ll St*r
                              • Aug 2003
                              • 26339

                              #44
                              Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                              Originally posted by slickdtc
                              Wow, I didn't know the miscarriage rate was at 25%. That's an incredible statistic.
                              Those stats are probably all reported rates. I wonder how much the unreported rate is.

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                              • lgkeeper
                                *ld sch**l.
                                • Apr 2003
                                • 437

                                #45
                                Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                                My thoughts are with you and your family...

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