What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

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  • Stumbleweed
    Livin' the dream
    • Oct 2006
    • 6279

    #31
    Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

    Personality by a mile... especially since appearances are fleeting (aging, injury, etc.). Yeah it would be hard to be attracted to someone who is god awful-looking but if you want a quality relationship that will last, personality should always be the #1 consideration.

    The main problem is that you don't generally get the chance to see someone's personality if you're so turned off by their looks... But all things being equal, personality all the way.
    Last edited by Stumbleweed; 09-08-2009, 05:39 PM.
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    • mgoblue
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      • Jul 2002
      • 25477

      #32
      Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

      Originally posted by Stumbleweed
      Personality by a mile... especially since appearances are fleeting (aging, injury, etc.). Yeah it would be hard to be attracted to someone who is god awful-looking but if you want a quality relationship that will last, personality should always be the #1 consideration.

      The main problem is that you don't generally get the chance to see someone's personality if you're so turned off by their looks... But all things being equal, personality all the way.
      I agree that personality is very very important in a relationship lasting, but I disagree that you can really manufacture that physical attraction with someone that's not attractive to you. Years ago I tried dating a girl who was pretty huge, but really cool, and it just wasn't gonna work no matter how hard I tried.

      I'm not going to settle for someone I'm not attracted to just because she has a great personality.
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      • Altimus
        Chelsea, Assemble!
        • Nov 2004
        • 27283

        #33
        Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

        Originally posted by mgoblue
        I agree that personality is very very important in a relationship lasting, but I disagree that you can really manufacture that physical attraction with someone that's not attractive to you. Years ago I tried dating a girl who was pretty huge, but really cool, and it just wasn't gonna work no matter how hard I tried.

        I'm not going to settle for someone I'm not attracted to just because she has a great personality.
        Agreed. There has to be some kind of attraction or it just won't work.

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        • Miles_Yuhas
          MVP
          • Mar 2004
          • 2689

          #34
          Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

          Originally posted by bsb13
          I say personality...I can always guzzle down enough booze to make any woman attractive.

          HAHAHA

          But seriously, I really feel like you have to have some of both.

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          • SuperBowlNachos
            All Star
            • Jul 2004
            • 10218

            #35
            Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

            Originally posted by Altimus
            Agreed. There has to be some kind of attraction or it just won't work.
            +2

            They don't have to be a playboy model, but people are lieing if they say looks don't matter.

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            • Po Pimp
              MVP
              • Jan 2005
              • 2249

              #36
              Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

              Originally posted by olliethebum85
              +2

              They don't have to be a playboy model, but people are lieing if they say looks don't matter.
              Exactly my point when I made this thread. True enough you might get with someone who isn't your ideal, but she might look good enough for YOU. Now on the flipside, I've met a ton of cool chicks that I've NEVER had a desire to get with. Now if a woman is fine as hell but I hate everything else about her, I would probably deal with the headaches for a second prior to cutting her loose.

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              • matt8204
                MVP
                • Sep 2008
                • 1164

                #37
                Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                Originally posted by Altimus
                Agreed. There has to be some kind of attraction or it just won't work.
                Exactly. And people can tell when you're not really into someone. It also sticks out when it's time to be, for lack of a better term on a family website, physically intimate, lol. Your partner will be able to tell if you're just going through the motions. I went on a few dates with a girl once and really tried to like her even though I had no desire to do anything physical with her. She finally confronted me and said, "You're really not feeling this, right?" I admitted that I just saw her as a friend and luckily, she was cool with it and we still talk. It's not fair to the other person and it's not fair to you when you feign interest in someone.
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                • TheMatrix31
                  RF
                  • Jul 2002
                  • 52915

                  #38
                  Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                  Looks to draw me in, personality to seal me in.

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                  • stewaat

                    #39
                    Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                    Looks

                    If they have a good personality, that's a bonus. I won't give an average girl a chance even if she has a great personality. Women are trophies and are good for one thing.

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                    • e0820
                      MVP
                      • Jan 2003
                      • 2070

                      #40
                      Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                      I'd say there has to be a balance between looks and personality. Some part of the women has to catch the eye and then sense of humor are good combinations. (at a minimum)

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                      • Whitesox
                        Closet pyromaniac
                        • Mar 2009
                        • 5287

                        #41
                        Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                        Originally posted by Cusefan
                        Looks for a fun night, Personality for a fun year(or many).
                        I completely agree with you.
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                        • Pete1210
                          MVP
                          • Aug 2006
                          • 3277

                          #42
                          Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                          For long term I'd choose personality. I'm reasoning that you spend less time being physical than mentally relating to your partner.

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                          • DickDalewood

                            #43
                            Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                            Personality fades, looks last forever...




                            But seriously, you need both.

                            How often do you approach a girl you don't know thinking "Damn, she looks like she has a great personality"?

                            On the flip side though, how often do you meet a hottie only to realize she's a complete grease fire.

                            She needs to be attractive both physically and mentally, depending on your personal preferences of course.

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                            • techhokies
                              Pro
                              • Apr 2004
                              • 727

                              #44
                              Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                              If I'm reading the question correctly which is that you have a girl whose personality you absolutely hate much is the same way people hate hitler/satan but is stunning to look at. Or a girl who is hideous but you love her personality, and actually wish it to be a long distance relationship but w/o webcams.

                              Sad thing is, I would choose the looks. If I'm gonna hate half of her anyways, might as well have someone good to look at.
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                              • onlybygrace
                                MVP
                                • Jan 2009
                                • 3782

                                #45
                                Re: What's More Important: Looks Vs. Personality?

                                If its just 6 months, I'd say take the one with the looks.

                                First of all, its easier to get over someone hot than it is to get over someone with whom you really connected...

                                so if a break up is inevitable, take the hot one.

                                Plus...every guy likes to be with a hottie at least once, just to know that you have that potential.

                                I'm lucky...my wife is a hottie...so better yet. :wink:

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