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  • J.R. Locke
    Banned
    • Nov 2004
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    #16
    Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

    Uncomfortable thread of the year?

    1. ? Not something I am familiar with. I didn't come from a family who did this.
    2. Showers are showers. Get them used to locker rooms.

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    • trobinson97
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      • Oct 2004
      • 16366

      #17
      Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

      LOL, I have two boys and no I don't kiss them on the lips. Hell no. I haven't kissed them at all I think since they were toddlers and even then were few and far between forehead taps. I'll give em' some dap or a little shake of the head, a hug or something. Kissing? Nah.

      Hell no I don't shower with my sons, and I wouldn't do it with my daughter either. To each his own, but that's just some weird stuff to me. Once when my oldest was like 6 months old I was in the tub and my wife asked if I would give him a quick bath while I was in there. I wasn't uncomfortable or anything because he was a baby but at the same time I wasn't looking for him everytime I went to take a bath. Do what you do though.
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      • DC
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        • Oct 2002
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        #18
        Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

        Originally posted by Scottdau
        There your kids you love them. Yeah do you have kids?
        It doesn't really matter if I have kids or not. I don't put my personal business out on these boards.

        LOL Of course I love them. Why is my love being questioned because I don't kiss them on their lips? Especially a father kissing his son on the lips. I really don't see the need or the point.

        And showering? Come on now. I don't think it is remotely amusing hat a child is speaking about the size of his fathers privates. I wouldn't even be comfortable TELLING anyone something like that. But like that say, "Whatever floats your raft."
        Last edited by DC; 10-19-2009, 07:04 AM.
        Concrete evidence/videos please

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        • ProStylez
          Goon Squad
          • Oct 2006
          • 1988

          #19
          Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

          Originally posted by DC
          It doesn't really matter if I have kids or not. I don't put my personal business out on these boards.

          LOL Of course I love them. Why is my love being questioned because I don't kiss them on their lips? Especially a father kissing his son on the lips. I really don't see the need or the point.

          And showering? Come on now. I don't think it is remotely amusing hat a child is speaking about the size of his fathers privates. I wouldn't even be comfortable TELLING anyone something like that. But like that say, "Whatever floats your raft."
          LOL
          Damn DC you sound like someone made you uncomfortable as a kid and now is messed up for life!
          I figured this topic would stir up some things and that's half the reason why I started it, I knew some would be for it and some would be against it.
          My wife came home and threw my son in the shower with me before he went to bed and I thought for a second "I wonder how many people do this", rather than walking up and down my block asking folks I figured I'd post the question here. It also made me think that I have a month old daughter and when she grows up will I do the same thing with her or is that totally wrong?
          Just some questions to start a debate, sorry to offend you DC

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          • SPTO
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            • Feb 2003
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            #20
            Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

            I've no kids but....

            I don't think the kissing thing is too bad but er...too close for comfort for me. Just do it for as long as you're comfortable.

            As for the shower thing, I wouldn't do it with a daughter of mine. As for your son I think it's okay until he's like 5 or 6 like you said at the beginning of the thread. After that and you'll have your kid thinking it's normal to shower with other guys and well...Yeah.
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            • DC
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              • Oct 2002
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              #21
              Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

              Not to be graphic but if you take shower with a little girl isn't your ____ going to be in her face? COme on now, I don't even see why this is being considered LOL

              And I thought little kids took baths..........so they can be watched without the parent bathing with them. A shower is just too much for a kid to handle
              Concrete evidence/videos please

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              • Trevytrev11
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                • Nov 2006
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                #22
                Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                Originally posted by DC
                LOL Of course I love them. Why is my love being questioned because I don't kiss them on their lips? Especially a father kissing his son on the lips. I really don't see the need or the point.
                Why is it different if it's a son vs. a daughter. It's obviously not a sexual kiss between a parent and a child, so why differ between one child vs. another. Why would you show one level of affection to one child and a different level to another?

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                • DC
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                  #23
                  Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                  Honestly I woudn't kiss ANY of my kids on the lips. Male or female. I say ESPECIALLY a son kissing his son on the lips because it is the same sex. It does make it even "funnier."

                  Why would you show one level of affection to one child and a different level to another?
                  Because boys and girls are DIFFERENT, that is why you can/should treat them differently.
                  Concrete evidence/videos please

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                  • Trevytrev11
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                    • Nov 2006
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                    #24
                    Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                    Originally posted by DC
                    Not to be graphic but if you take shower with a little girl isn't your ____ going to be in her face? COme on now, I don't even see why this is being considered LOL
                    I have this uncomfortbleness with my daugher, who is 2. I showered with her when she was younger once or twice when we were rushing to get some where, but she was in my arms the whole time. Once she was able to stand it was uncomfortable for me because of this. I imagine I will do the same with my son.

                    I fault no one who does, though...just uncomfortable for me.

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                    • DC
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                      #25
                      Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                      Don't want my daughter to be exposed to meat that early in her life. Whether it is intentional, harmless, innocent or not. Kids remember mess like that.
                      Concrete evidence/videos please

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                      • Trevytrev11
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                        #26
                        Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                        Originally posted by DC
                        Honestly I woudn't kiss ANY of my kids on the lips. Male or female. I say ESPECIALLY a son kissing his son on the lips because it is the same sex. It does make it even "funnier."
                        Too each his own, but I couldn't imagine not getting kisses from my daughter. Often times the highlight of my day is picking her up from day care and getting a big hug and a kiss from her.

                        Originally posted by DC
                        Because boys and girls are DIFFERENT, that is why you can/should treat them differently.
                        You don't think one would feel less loved than the other? The son see's his sister get hugs and kisses from mom and dad and all he gets is a hug from dad? (I understand you wouldn't kiss either, but for others). I understand boys and girls are different, hell, all kids are different, but showing one more love than another just seems wrong to me.

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                        • ProStylez
                          Goon Squad
                          • Oct 2006
                          • 1988

                          #27
                          Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                          Originally posted by DC
                          Not to be graphic but if you take shower with a little girl isn't your ____ going to be in her face? COme on now, I don't even see why this is being considered LOL

                          And I thought little kids took baths..........so they can be watched without the parent bathing with them. A shower is just too much for a kid to handle
                          I can tell you don't have kids by what you're saying but that's besides the point, I thought all this kissing and showering sounded gay when I was younger but then you grow up and have kids and it all sort of happens. I usually give my son a bath and actually prefer it but sometimes he winds up in the shower with me. It's not like I'm gonna refuse to give my son a shower just because I'm in there, that's my little man and I have to do what I have to do.
                          I don't think I'll be showering with my daughter but I thought I'd ask if other do.
                          When Birdman and Lil Wayne kissed each other on the lips that was gay, when I kiss my son I see nothing wrong with that, if he was a little older then maybe yeah.

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                          • DC
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                            #28
                            Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                            I don't see it as showing more love. I see it as showing different love. My daughter can kiss me on my cheek with no problems. I won't put my lips on their lips though. I think that is moreso something that a mother would do, even though I am against it all together.

                            I would hug my son, I will show him plenty of love. Just different that they way I show my daughter love.

                            Lip on lip action is reserved for "other" activity as far as I am concerned.

                            And for people that kiss their parents on their lips that are grown (according to OP) that is just nasty.
                            Concrete evidence/videos please

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                            • DC
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                              #29
                              Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                              Originally posted by ProStylez
                              I can tell you don't have kids by what you're saying but that's besides the point,
                              Really? How?
                              Concrete evidence/videos please

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                              • Trevytrev11
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                                • Nov 2006
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                                #30
                                Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                                Originally posted by DC
                                ILip on lip action is reserved for "other" activity as far as I am concerned.
                                I see it as just based on the intention. There are innocent kisses and sexual kisses.

                                When I give my wife a peck on the lips when we part ways in the morning, there is nothing sexual about it. It's just a sign of affection that shows we love each other. I see it the same way with my child.

                                Intention is everything, IMO.

                                If you want to bathe with your child for bonding or convenience, then go ahead as long as that is all that it is.

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