This is a really sensitive issue for me but I feel like I need some advices in what I should do because I've never been in this situation before in my life.
My story goes like this (Real long):
I've been with this woman for 2 1/2 years. She is from Boston but we met in Seattle (where I am from). When she told me she was pregnant two years into the realationship she was back in Boston. I flew out there to be with her during her pregnacy and lived with her (mistake I regret making.)
Everyone told me I was rushing it but I was an idiot and at the time really thought she was the one but I guess I was wrong. Might I add while she was pregnant with my son she already had a 4 year old son. At first everything went well untill her first babydaddy got in the way. I watched her kid alot when I was living in Boston while she goes out clubbing and pregnant with my unborn child at the time.
My heart tells me I should leave but I didn't want to leave her all alone and pregnant with my seed inside her. Throughout her pregnacy she was smoking the whole time (9 months no lie), she's alwys going to the clubs, and even hanging out with her first babydaddy. One time she went out to Providence with the guy for 2 days and didn't come home. She tried to deny it by saying she was at her mother's but her sister was honest and told me the truth. What's even more sad is while they were in Rhode Island I was at home watching their 4 year old son.
We had a big fight because I told her to stop smoking because she is pregnant and it's not healthy for our kid. so I left and stayed at a friends house for a few days to kool off. When I came back it got even worse. We had another big fight because I had friends over watching Monday Night Football and I didn't want to spend time with her so she embarrasses me in front of my friends by calling me names so I cussed her out and called her the B word and she called the cops and I got arrested for disturbance. I did a day in jail.
On Valentines day she said she had to work but a guy I know told me he saw her with her first babydaddy. By then I was already over her and didn't care anymore. I stayed with this women untill my son was 3 months and flew back to Seattle because I couldn't put up with the cheating, the lies and just the negative vibe she was giving me. I felt bad for leaving my son but I had no choice.
The Good News:
When my son turned 11 months she brought him to Seattle to be with me for a few months. When she came to bring my son to me she was once again pregnant with another man. This is going to be her 3rd kid with another guy she just met. So that is 3 babydaddy's. She stayed with me for a few days when she dropped off my son and she was still smoking while pregant with her 3rd child. My son ended up staying with me for a year untill he was 2, 2 and a half. But deep down inside the reason I felt she only came to get him back was because tax season was coming up and she wanted to claim him.
A few months later she called me and said child protective service was on her tail and she wanted to bring my son to stay with me for a while untill things "cooled off" so I agreed and bought them a plane ticket to come back. By then her 3rd child was already a a few months old. The kid came too. She dropped off my son and left with her third child. My son ended up staying with me for the next two years. He is 4 now. For the past two years my son has been with me she claimed him each when she does her income tax. Even without seeing him for that long. So obviously it isn't going to my son.
(The Messed Up News)
Last week she flew back here to take my son back with her and she is staying with me untill tommorow. You know what is also sad. She is once again pregnant with a 4th babydaddy and I am not lying, I put that on my kid and to top it off she is still smoking. The love for her is gone and I no longer have any respect for her. The reason why I feel she is taking my son back is so she can prove she has custody of my kid after doing her taxes even though she hasn't been with him for two years.
Is there a legit chance of me winning custody of my kid if I take her to court? I have a criminal record when I was 18 for misdemeanor 3rd degree assault but I am 26 now turning 27 in March will they not use that against me or will it hurt my chances? My son means everything to me and to see him go away on Sunday (tommorow) is really hurting me.
My story goes like this (Real long):
I've been with this woman for 2 1/2 years. She is from Boston but we met in Seattle (where I am from). When she told me she was pregnant two years into the realationship she was back in Boston. I flew out there to be with her during her pregnacy and lived with her (mistake I regret making.)
Everyone told me I was rushing it but I was an idiot and at the time really thought she was the one but I guess I was wrong. Might I add while she was pregnant with my son she already had a 4 year old son. At first everything went well untill her first babydaddy got in the way. I watched her kid alot when I was living in Boston while she goes out clubbing and pregnant with my unborn child at the time.
My heart tells me I should leave but I didn't want to leave her all alone and pregnant with my seed inside her. Throughout her pregnacy she was smoking the whole time (9 months no lie), she's alwys going to the clubs, and even hanging out with her first babydaddy. One time she went out to Providence with the guy for 2 days and didn't come home. She tried to deny it by saying she was at her mother's but her sister was honest and told me the truth. What's even more sad is while they were in Rhode Island I was at home watching their 4 year old son.
We had a big fight because I told her to stop smoking because she is pregnant and it's not healthy for our kid. so I left and stayed at a friends house for a few days to kool off. When I came back it got even worse. We had another big fight because I had friends over watching Monday Night Football and I didn't want to spend time with her so she embarrasses me in front of my friends by calling me names so I cussed her out and called her the B word and she called the cops and I got arrested for disturbance. I did a day in jail.
On Valentines day she said she had to work but a guy I know told me he saw her with her first babydaddy. By then I was already over her and didn't care anymore. I stayed with this women untill my son was 3 months and flew back to Seattle because I couldn't put up with the cheating, the lies and just the negative vibe she was giving me. I felt bad for leaving my son but I had no choice.
The Good News:
When my son turned 11 months she brought him to Seattle to be with me for a few months. When she came to bring my son to me she was once again pregnant with another man. This is going to be her 3rd kid with another guy she just met. So that is 3 babydaddy's. She stayed with me for a few days when she dropped off my son and she was still smoking while pregant with her 3rd child. My son ended up staying with me for a year untill he was 2, 2 and a half. But deep down inside the reason I felt she only came to get him back was because tax season was coming up and she wanted to claim him.
A few months later she called me and said child protective service was on her tail and she wanted to bring my son to stay with me for a while untill things "cooled off" so I agreed and bought them a plane ticket to come back. By then her 3rd child was already a a few months old. The kid came too. She dropped off my son and left with her third child. My son ended up staying with me for the next two years. He is 4 now. For the past two years my son has been with me she claimed him each when she does her income tax. Even without seeing him for that long. So obviously it isn't going to my son.
(The Messed Up News)
Last week she flew back here to take my son back with her and she is staying with me untill tommorow. You know what is also sad. She is once again pregnant with a 4th babydaddy and I am not lying, I put that on my kid and to top it off she is still smoking. The love for her is gone and I no longer have any respect for her. The reason why I feel she is taking my son back is so she can prove she has custody of my kid after doing her taxes even though she hasn't been with him for two years.
Is there a legit chance of me winning custody of my kid if I take her to court? I have a criminal record when I was 18 for misdemeanor 3rd degree assault but I am 26 now turning 27 in March will they not use that against me or will it hurt my chances? My son means everything to me and to see him go away on Sunday (tommorow) is really hurting me.
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