So heres my rant, i'm hoping you all might give me some interesting advice, but then again this is the off topic forums.....
I started talking to this girl about a month ago. I went on a blind date with her because of my friends girl friend. She got me the date with her. The girl and I went bowling and had a pretty good time. After the bowling alley we went to Panera Bread and got some food and talked for a good hour and a half or so. I thought we had a really good time.
From that day forth we've text each other every day, usually about nothing, we'll ask each other how the day went etc and what we were planning to do during the week. The following week after our date, we hung our in her dorm room with my buddy and his girl and watched some flicks. Again we had a good time or at least i presume we both had a good time.
Now here comes where it gets aggravating. That was the last time we have actually seen each other and hung out albeit we weren't alone and that was about a month ago.
From that date, all we've done is stupid text. Every time she calls me or i call her, she ends our conversation mid way because shes doing something with her room mates. I don't think we've ever had a conversation on the phone over 4 mins. And again the texting we do is pretty pointless.
Because of my some what busy schedule i purposely took 3 days off of work during spring break last week so we could hang out just the two of us. Yet every time i asked her to go out or do anything, she was in the middle of something. I tried to get hang out with her, but i don't want to push too hard because then it seems strange. The one day she asked me to do something, i already has plans with family.
What sort of irks me is the fact that she told my good friend about how much she likes me and shes glad we're talking etc. Then last week she text me while i was at work, saying something like she wants to see me etc. I asked her out to Ihop that Saturday which happens to just be a couple days ago; she told me she would get back to me, and never did. Saturday came and i didn't bring it up because i didn't want to seem pushy.
After that day, when ever she texts me, i respond in a different manner, no longer send her silly text etc. She text me saying she sorry we couldn't hang out spring break, and i said something like "yea life comes fast, just take it in stride." She talked about seeing me at school on Monday but i didn't respond to it and left school Monday without seeing her.
Today, Wednesday is my longest day at school, having class at 11am -10:05pm with a pretty good break in between. I used that break to hang out with her, even skipped my 5pm class two weeks ago to hang out with her. Today, i completely ignored her even though my 7pm class got cancelled. She asked me what i was going to do, and i said go home.
Yea it was a long rant, but i feel much better. It sort of angers me because i do like her, and from what i could tell she liked me too, but when ever i want to hang out with her, i'm left by myself.
Should i continue to give it a try or move on???
I started talking to this girl about a month ago. I went on a blind date with her because of my friends girl friend. She got me the date with her. The girl and I went bowling and had a pretty good time. After the bowling alley we went to Panera Bread and got some food and talked for a good hour and a half or so. I thought we had a really good time.
From that day forth we've text each other every day, usually about nothing, we'll ask each other how the day went etc and what we were planning to do during the week. The following week after our date, we hung our in her dorm room with my buddy and his girl and watched some flicks. Again we had a good time or at least i presume we both had a good time.
Now here comes where it gets aggravating. That was the last time we have actually seen each other and hung out albeit we weren't alone and that was about a month ago.
From that date, all we've done is stupid text. Every time she calls me or i call her, she ends our conversation mid way because shes doing something with her room mates. I don't think we've ever had a conversation on the phone over 4 mins. And again the texting we do is pretty pointless.
Because of my some what busy schedule i purposely took 3 days off of work during spring break last week so we could hang out just the two of us. Yet every time i asked her to go out or do anything, she was in the middle of something. I tried to get hang out with her, but i don't want to push too hard because then it seems strange. The one day she asked me to do something, i already has plans with family.
What sort of irks me is the fact that she told my good friend about how much she likes me and shes glad we're talking etc. Then last week she text me while i was at work, saying something like she wants to see me etc. I asked her out to Ihop that Saturday which happens to just be a couple days ago; she told me she would get back to me, and never did. Saturday came and i didn't bring it up because i didn't want to seem pushy.
After that day, when ever she texts me, i respond in a different manner, no longer send her silly text etc. She text me saying she sorry we couldn't hang out spring break, and i said something like "yea life comes fast, just take it in stride." She talked about seeing me at school on Monday but i didn't respond to it and left school Monday without seeing her.
Today, Wednesday is my longest day at school, having class at 11am -10:05pm with a pretty good break in between. I used that break to hang out with her, even skipped my 5pm class two weeks ago to hang out with her. Today, i completely ignored her even though my 7pm class got cancelled. She asked me what i was going to do, and i said go home.
Yea it was a long rant, but i feel much better. It sort of angers me because i do like her, and from what i could tell she liked me too, but when ever i want to hang out with her, i'm left by myself.
Should i continue to give it a try or move on???
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