Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

[matt8204]

It can be anything- a character flaw, something about your behavior, or even something in your appearance that you don't like or want to improve.

As for myself, I am trying to recover from being a terribly disorganized person. I used to keep a lot of old magazines, books, papers, etc and leave them sitting around in a messy fashion. My car also used to be in bad shape in terms of neatness. I'm really trying to work hard on that. I spent an entire weekend cleaning things up and I'm really happy that I did. The clutter just overwhelms you after awhile. I hate to say it, but I also think watching those hoarding shows on A&E and TLC scared me straight as well. It wasn't nearly as bad as what is depicted on TV, but I could see how it could easily get there if left unabated. I made a conscious decision to nip it in the bud.

[jeremym480]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

I procrastinate way too much...

[mgoblue]

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I procrastinate way too much...

This, and going along with it I can be a little lazy when I lose motivation. I can find it tough to motivate myself and really get into a task I dislike, so I'm not as likely to do as good a job as I would if I liked the task (or it takes longer than it should).

[CreatineKasey]

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I fear the unknown too much. I struggle to find joy in my free time sometimes because I feel like I should be doing something productive. I let little things ruin my day too much. Probably should loosen up.

[mjb2124]

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I struggle to find joy in my free time sometimes because I feel like I should be doing something productive.

This is a killer for me. I can't sit still and just relax and enjoy the free time... Moving into the new house only made it worse because I have a list of things to do and in my spare time, I'm always trying to get as many of them done as possible.

[Cebby]

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I'm a little arrogant.

Then again, I'm a genius who's fairly attractive and charming as Jame Bond.

[Stumbleweed]

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Too worried about what people think of me, primarily where I go way out of my way to not piss people off or make them sad. It's not so much what they think of me, but rather I can't stand being associated with negative throughts/memories, especially if I felt I could've done something better.

I do this to the point where I make myself unhappy by remaining in situations I don't like for the sake of others... Empathy with and concern for others are great qualities to have, and I definitely have those, but it goes too far most of the time. Gotta get my selfish on sometime...

[The GIGGAS]

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I'm a procrastinator, and super paranoid.

[Watson]

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relationships im paranoid

physically I hate my upper body. it's so disproprtional.

[trobinson97]

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I have a bit of an anger management issue. I get annoyed way too easily and most people just seem stupid to me.

Big procrastinator. I've been a week away from starting my new exercise plan for the past 3 years.

I can be very selfish, it's really a childish possessiveness really. What's mine is mine and I jealously hang on to it.

I'm antisocial, see above, I think people in general are stupid and I don't want to take the time to meet and get to know them. The worst thing about it is that it potentially hurts my family because that combined with my selfish nature can make it hard for them to establish other relationships.

Very unmotivated. Sometimes I will get a spark inside me that makes me want to work toward something but it doesn't last long. It's even spreading to my hobbies now as I don't even game or pay attention to sports like I used to. It's almost a bother to do anything.

I hold grudges. Seriously, if I feel a person wrongs me, very rarely are they ever in my good graces again. I will hold grudges for inexcusably long amounts of times, sometimes over the stupidest little things (see getting annoyed way too easily). Combine that with a selfish, antisocial nature, plus trust issues.

Just a few of my many many character flaws.

[Brankles]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

I, like every politician, care too much.

[WazzuRC]

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My speech impediment. It's not a stutter, but a form of stuttering called a "block." I have a mild case of it compared to others who block or stutter. Basically, I get tension in my chest and throat and my vocal cords don't vibrate to produce sound. I try and say something and nothing comes out.

I've worked on it a lot over the past few years but the most important thing for me to realize is that nobody is 100% fluent, I need to speak slowly and more deliberately, and I shouldn't care what other people think if I block in front of them.

It definitely can be frustrating, especially in doing sales like I do. The worst is on the phone.

[BurghFan]

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I'm a perfectionist, I have some tendency to procrastinate, and I have almost 0 patience, especially with computer software "cough" Microsoft Office "cough"

[Husker_OS]

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I let Alabama football dictate my mood 24/7 during football season. Nothing else has an impact on it really. If they're winning, I'll be happy no matter what else happens.

[legendkiller5]

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I get annoyed way too easily and most people just seem stupid to me.

I'm antisocial, see above, I think people in general are stupid and I don't want to take the time to meet and get to know them.

These are me, too. I'm more asocial than anti-social. I don't like anyone (males, females, all races, etc.), and I tend to look at the negatives in everything, especially people, instead of the positives. I'm too critical of people and not afraid to speak my mind, especially to females. I guess that's why I've had about 30 or so females delete me from Facebook, and I have zero good relationships with any females.

I'm also too critical of myself when it comes to football and basketball. For example, I pride myself on having unlimited range. When I go shoot around, I'll put up at least 50 or so 25 ft or deeper shots, and if I even miss two or three in a row, I'll get so angry at myself.

The thing is, I didn't even play basketball in high school, because I sucked, but got good since then. And since I don't play college ball, it makes no sense why I get so angry if I'm not hitting 80% of my three pointers.

After saying all that, I don't have any intention of every changing myself.