Officially Divorced/Ex Already Remarried

[ProjectRipCity]

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LMAO. Easy there tiger. While women are scandalous, we do are dirt too.

Bad men do dirt...But when it comes to men loving women we are by FAR more dedicated in marriage. You can forget all the false movies and the media...I mean men cheat...But not as much as women. Everyone that I heard cheating in marriage (Who I actually know) in my 21 years of life were the women...Not the men.

In a boyfriend/girlfriend situation the boy is usually a dirt bag I find out.

The nice guys get freakin screwed as well.

[Scottdau]

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I would say it is the opposite bro. You are basing this off what your mother did to your dad. I bet you if you did a survey, it would show that women trend to be the more faithful ones. In this guys case his wife left him for what ever reason. I am sure he had his faults in it too every body usually does. But the fact that she left him for some new guy; he is better off with out her. I still say this is some depression stage she is going through and some day she will realize what she did and feel extremely guilty. Any way congrats on finding some nice, hot lady. But just remember Gary looks go only so far, so just make sure that nice part really is there too.

[Trevytrev11]

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Sounds like you should be giving your ex wife high fives. You got rid of someone not into the relationship and ended up on the good side of it all.

Yeah, he should send her a thank you card that says at first I had this (with a picture of the ex) and now I have this (with a picture of new hottie). Thank you so much!

[Scottdau]

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Yeah, he should send her a thank you card that says at first I had this (with a picture of the ex) and now I have this (with a picture of new hottie). Thank you so much!

All kidding aside this did a major **** up job on his kids. If he wasn't so strong and there for them. Who knows how this would have went down. So he should not be happy about this. Sure he met some real nice lady, but I bet you Gary would have rather just still been with his wife and not have his kids go through all this crap.

[Heelfan71]

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your ex will be divorced within a year I bet.

[Phobia]

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All kidding aside this did a major **** up job on his kids. If he wasn't so strong and there for them. Who knows how this would have went down. So he should not be happy about this. Sure he met some real nice lady, but I bet you Gary would have rather just still been with his wife and not have his kids go through all this crap.

Well of course Scott we all want that. But the nature of the situation is it did happen and he did have a witch ruin it all. So with that happening he should feel very grateful it has turned out well. He should enjoy life and what it brings to him. In this case it brought him a pretty women and got rid of something cancerous to his life. Have a bottle of wine Gary

[Scottdau]

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your ex will be divorced within a year I bet.

I totally agree. I still think this is a cause of the depression she was going through earlier.

[Scottdau]

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Well of course Scott we all want that. But the nature of the situation is it did happen and he did have a witch ruin it all. So with that happening he should feel very grateful it has turned out well. He should enjoy life and what it brings to him. In this case it brought him a pretty women and got rid of something cancerous to his life. Have a bottle of wine Gary

While I think Gary is a good guy, I am sure he had his hand in this too. I am not blaming him at all so don't think that. His wife was looking for a way out. Usually this is what happens when someone is going through depression. When I went through a depression when my brother died. I left my wife and 1 year old son. I went to live with my mom. I was really bad off and I thought she was the problem. So people do some stupid **** when going through depression.

[Heelfan71]

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I totally agree. I still think this is a cause of the depression she was going through earlier.

plus thinking the grass is greener....once the honeymoon phase of the relationship wears off, she will be miserable.

[Scottdau]

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plus thinking the grass is greener....once the honeymoon phase of the relationship wears off, she will be miserable.

Plus the dude is scrum. He will cheat on her if he has not already.

[It's all about the L]

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Sounds like my mother

My dad is a hard working clean cut nice man and my mom divorced him then my dad moved to Alaska for his high-end job. After a year of having multiple partners my mother finally is marrying this POS who is on welfare and who is about 50lbs over weight who has no sense of being polite or respect (Basically the opposite of my father) oh and btw smokes weed every second of his life

My father still sends her $2000 in alimony when he should only legally give her $1400, because my father still loves my mom. My dad is a better looking man...Works harder...Works hard for his money...And is the father of me and my sister. So my father shares something with you and a lot of men across the world...Women are heartless gutless pieces of crap that unfortunately us men have to deal with. I stay away from falling in love with a girl for these reasons...I got a big heart and I know some girl is just gonna crush it later in my life.

I feel sorry for you and my dad...And men as a sex.

BTW: My dad is in Vegas right now on vacation...With a cocktail waitress that works there...A lot better looking than my mom.

GOOD FOR HIM

Thanks for my first sig buddy!

[USF11]

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Many here have followed the saga of my wife leaving a few months ago. We were officially divorced June 8 and she promptly rushed to the court house and remarried. I don't even know what to think. It sort of makes me feel like 18 years of marriage with her was a complete joke. I think it also shows disregard for how our daughters feel. I guess I should be happy to be rid of a woman who would do something like this. My oldest thinks the guy her mom married is a creep, whereas she thinks the woman I'm seeing is great.

I've been hit with so many emotions that now I'm pretty much numb. It is hard to see the woman who was my wife for so long with a new last name.

Once I learned the divorce was final I began having dreams in which she mocked me. I wonder why I didn't hold up the child support check she has to give me every month? Dream Gary needs to man up.

Your a very mentally strong person.

I have been through this twice with long relationships were girls I was with ended up married or pregnant rather quickly. (Not involving kids or anything to your extent.)

Your life is better off without her, better you know this now. Then wasting another second with.

[longshadow11]

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As always, thanks for the interest and well wishes.

I've actually had my heart broken 3 times now. High school, college, and now marriage. I'm very sentimental and focus on the good stuff, which makes me blind to some of the bad stuff.

I know from a divorce class that men take divorce much harder than women. The instructor pointed it out, and all the men in the class looked beaten down.

I would love to be able to go back in time a few years and do whatever I could to keep this from happening. Family is everything.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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Wow I never knew they even had a divorce class. Is it free ? I doubt it, probably a $100 per hour fee right ?

[ScoobySnax]

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This really sucks man. I pray that I never have to experience this. I know I would be all broken up about it. Time does heal all wounds.