I just want to hear some advice....

[Hutton]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

Everything is cool now guys. Because I listened and don't care anymore.

Then... yesterday guess who tried to call me? Needless to say I didn't answer the phone.

Keep up this approach & she'll be doing bad things to you under the bleachers by the weekend.

[ODogg]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

You really should keep listening to the OS guys. I hadn't dated in 10 years and they got me squared away with a nice girl. You really do have to act as if you just don't give a flip. I'm 40 years old and just now figured it out, and only because of OS. That putting women up on the pedestal stuff just makes them think you're a sucker and someone to wipe their feet on.

[Speedy]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

...just for the record, not all women/girls are like this.

[Hutton]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

...just for the record, not all women/girls are like this.

That is correct sir, they are the married one's

[legendkiller5]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

...just for the record, not all women/girls are like this.

What, like 5 aren't?

[Dispatch]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

My advice is to not care

The less you care, the more they do

This. Also - In this case take the George Costanza approach, and whatever you think you "should" do, do the opposite.

You think you should call her. Don't.

You think you should text her. Don't.

You see her walking down the hall, and want to make eye contact or something...ignore, pretend like she isn't even there.

Rinse. Wash. Repeat.

+1

For two years this girl I knew wanted me so badly she was willing to do anything to get my attention and to get me to like her. Then in January we start to "talk" and by April we were pretty serious. April and May were solid months and then the last day of May she tells me she "loves" me. I said it back because i wanted everything to remain the same and boy did I mess up. I ended up letting my emotions get the better of me and I actually cared for her which was my biggest mistake.

Needless to say the month of June she went bat **** crazy and by the end of the month we were no longer talking. The month of July I got caught up in playing mind games with her cause I didn't want to be single and she did. Well eventually I learned I wasn't going to change her mind but I told her we could still be friends.

We hung out for the first time in awhile last week. She drove about 25 minutes to come all the way to my town and make me breakfast. Then she facebook chatted me the next day asking how I liked the breakfast and apologizing for the way she acted the past few months. Skip ahead to today and she text me tonight asking what my plans were for the night. All she got back was for a response was "busy." Even though I would have loved to hang out with her.

I care about her a lot, but I'm done letting her know that.

[e0820]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

WTF is going on? Anyone ever had this happen to them? What should I do now? I'm just trying to hear as many opinions as possible, becasue I really like that girl I was talking to.

There really is one person you should be asking WTF is going on? That is the girl herself. If she met someone else or doesnt like you anymore dont worry about it. Its not the end of the world. This wont be the only girl you will meet or get interested in. Also this wont be the only one interested in you. Just get some closure or it will be on your mind.