I just want to hear some advice....

[Cusefan]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

Don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die

[TheMatrix31]

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Don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die

Ain't that the ****in' truth.

[deaduck]

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I ran the scenario by my wife, according to her a friend of hers probably likes you and after she told her friends that came out and now they're mad at you for asking out the wrong girl.

Got that beat... in High School, of a set of three sisters, I managed to ask the one out who hated me when both of the younger two liked me and hoped I'd ask them out.

My acceptance into the Moron Club came in the mail that day.

[bgeno]

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I ran the scenario by my wife, according to her a friend of hers probably likes you and after she told her friends that came out and now they're mad at you for asking out the wrong girl.

Eh, I dunno. I think it's more likely that this girl got bored with the OP or that she found someone she is more interested in right now.

I know it sucks, but it's the way it goes. You'll go through plenty of it. You just gotta move on and make sure she knows it's not bothering you (even if it is). If she's that great and she does like you, good things will happen at some point. Girls are tough to judge, and they do some things that are often inexplicable, but you have to just sort of deal with it. Sorry, man.


I wish I knew this information at an earlier age. I got hung up on too many girls and feel like I could have had way more success and way more fun in high school and college.

[BlueNGold]

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Don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die

I'm debating putting that in my sig. That is golden.

As for the OP's situation, why not just talk to her? Nothing's going to happen if you get your friends to talk to her or she gets her friends to talk to you or whatever. Just talk to her face to face and tell her what's up. If she still chooses to ignore you and be a bitch, then move on. Like others have said, there's so many other girls out there.

BTW, if you plan on getting that friendship back after any "other" feelings have been let out, there's a 99.9% chance of that not happening.

[12]

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My advice is to not care

The less you care, the more they do

This right here.

Especially in high school.

She's being flakey already, playing hard to get or she just lost interest in you quickly. Unfortunately, that happens with high school girls.

I'd move on and not sweat it. Just be thankful that you didn't get in a relationship with her and have her pull this type of stuff.

[Heisman316]

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This stuff right here is why I love the group of guys here on OS. No matter what the problem is, we try to help.

[Beantown]

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I wish I knew this information at an earlier age. I got hung up on too many girls and feel like I could have had way more success and way more fun in high school and college.

Ain't that the truth. I would've enjoyed college, and to a lesser degree high school, a whole lot more if I didn't let myself get caught up with girls playing games.

Sophomore year I got involved with a girl a year younger than me, the complete opposite personality of what I'd like and not even attractive enough to make up for it, but she had interest in me and that was enough. Wasted that year.

Junior year I got involved with a crazy girl. Long story short, wasted 99% of the year chasing her/trying to get things to work out, she ended up sleeping with 3 of my best friends and then tried to kill herself. Wasted that year.

End of junior year, senior year, up until two months ago, I was with an immature girl that, truthfully, I don't know if I actually cared about or if I was just interested in not being single at the time. Broke up with her twice because she was needy/annoying and it got old...but got back with her a week after because I didn't enjoy being single. It ended and the past month I've been hung up on what-ifs, should'ves and could'ves, when I don't even think I actually liked the girl, lost most of my physical attraction to her and was annoyed by her most of the time we were together. Wasted all that time.

It's just not worth playing the games that some girls want to play, it's not worth being hung up on people that aren't interested or don't share the same interest level, or who don't seem worth it...because there will always be someone else out there that you can find. Move on and don't stress out about the little things.

[TheMatrix31]

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I wasted a LOT of time.

FML.

Then again, not many candidates around.

[Hutton]

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Just hope that you didn't get her preggers. Pulling out, while the preferred birth control of mine, isn't approved for use by everyone

[Gotmadskillzson]

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I never got caught up into ONE girl like that when I was in high school and college. Too many hot chicago girls to get caught up into just dating one.

[Hutton]

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Ain't that the truth. I would've enjoyed college, and to a lesser degree high school, a whole lot more if I didn't let myself get caught up with girls playing games.

Sophomore year I got involved with a girl a year younger than me, the complete opposite personality of what I'd like and not even attractive enough to make up for it, but she had interest in me and that was enough. Wasted that year.

Junior year I got involved with a crazy girl. Long story short, wasted 99% of the year chasing her/trying to get things to work out, she ended up sleeping with 3 of my best friends and then tried to kill herself. Wasted that year.

End of junior year, senior year, up until two months ago, I was with an immature girl that, truthfully, I don't know if I actually cared about or if I was just interested in not being single at the time. Broke up with her twice because she was needy/annoying and it got old...but got back with her a week after because I didn't enjoy being single. It ended and the past month I've been hung up on what-ifs, should'ves and could'ves, when I don't even think I actually liked the girl, lost most of my physical attraction to her and was annoyed by her most of the time we were together. Wasted all that time.

Hey mate, at least you didn't end up down the path I went down, which was marrying & having a baby with a loony girl & ending up divorced after 7 years.

Then to top things off, I got involved with this completely F'ing crazy hoar. She had me tricked for a few months, then her true colors began to show. Long story short, I ended it with her & she went absolutely bat sh!t crazy (quit her job, burnt her house down, tried to get me fired from my job, shacked up with some dbag she met 2 weeks after we broke-up, got preggers with him, had an abortion & then kicked him out of her house lol).

Never, ever date a Jew girl or a nurse, they all are 100% lunatics. I don't care if that's unfair stereotyping, it's the God honest truth based on my experience.

It's just not worth playing the games that some girls want to play, it's not worth being hung up on people that aren't interested or don't share the same interest level, or who don't seem worth it...because there will always be someone else out there that you can find. Move on and don't stress out about the little things.

It's best to just stay single & have sex with anything that you want when you're young, don't get tied up in games by stupid, immature females.

[Speedy]

Re: I just want to hear some advice....

My advice is to not care

The less you care, the more they do

This right here.

Especially in high school.

She's being flakey already, playing hard to get or she just lost interest in you quickly. Unfortunately, that happens with high school girls.

I'd move on and not sweat it. Just be thankful that you didn't get in a relationship with her and have her pull this type of stuff.

I agree, as I had the same thing happen to me in HS also. I dated a girl for 3 months and we broke up...I spent a year & 1/2 trying to get her to go back out with me by still getting her things, calling her ever so often, etc. until I gave up and moved on. I dated a girl for about 2 weeks and when my ex found out it really got to her.

Long story short, my ex and I realized we loved nobody else but each other and she started calling me telling me how much she missed me and all...I treaded softly to test her and she proved true. We eventually got back together and it's been a dream relationship ever since.

Moral of the story: don't keep following --> if she loves/wants you, she'll come back eventually.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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That sounds like some Ronnie/Sam shiz

[GAMEC0CK2002]

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In high school, I'd say have fun and don't get too caught up. Very rarely do you find "the one" in that small setting. It's not til college (or afterwards) that you learn enough about yourself to know what you really want in a girl.

I'm 30 now. Off all the couples that dated then at my high school, 2 are actually married. I'm actually teaching one of their kids.