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  • Chrisksaint
    $$$
    • Apr 2010
    • 19127

    #36271
    Re: Off Topic 2011

    This is the 1st time I'm sleeping in my own bed since Wednesday.

    This may have been the best weekend of my life so far, atleast for now. Still not over either as I'm watching the Saints game with this girl I've been hooking up with all weekend tomm.
    Saints, LSU, Seminoles, Pelicans, Marlins, Lightning

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    • TheMatrix31
      RF
      • Jul 2002
      • 52901

      #36272
      Re: Off Topic 2011

      Originally posted by Dayman
      Sure it is.

      It's like when someone asks me how my day was and I say "Good, how was yours?". I don't really care how their day was, I'm just asking to be nice.
      Eh unnecessary questions if you don't really care. Keep in mind that I live in LA. So I've had my fill of fake stop-n-chats. It gets old saying **** to people you know don't give a ****.

      Good Lord, I'm Larry David.

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      • TracerBullet
        One Last Job
        • Jun 2009
        • 22119

        #36273
        Re: Off Topic 2011

        Certain media members are just going to love this.
        Originally posted by BlueNGold
        I feel weird for liking a post about exposed penises.

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        • slickdtc
          Grayscale
          • Aug 2004
          • 17125

          #36274
          Re: Off Topic 2011

          So I'm switching up my strategy. For the past week or two, I've been going the desperate way in trying to get my (I guess she's now my) ex-fiance to come back to me. Lots of texts, a few phone calls. She broke up with me through a text... still hasn't seen me in person since then (she wouldn't be able to do it). Typing it out now, that sounds pretty ridiculous. 5 years and that's how it goes down? But whatever, it happened.

          After finally revealing what's happened between me and her to my father & brothers (it felt good to get it out, I've kept it all under wraps besides the occasional rant on here), there's nothing to do but keep on keepin' on. I mean, I knew that... but I wanted to try to convince her through my words. It hasn't worked so like I said, I'm switching up my course of action. Just going to work a lot and send a sporadic text. It's hard to do because I still think I have a pretty high percentage chance of getting back with her. And she's been my best friend as well as my girlfriend/fiance for about 25% of my life now (I'm 21, originally started going out when I was 16), so it's hard not to share every moment of my life with her anymore.

          But she needs time away from me to realize what she's missing. And I need this time to focus on myself and make sure that if I really have to, I can make it in this world independently. I just fear that if I give her the silent treatment, it'll be easier for her to get over me and move on, so it's hard to make this decision with that in mind. But like I said, the alternate route of trying to swoon her back hasn't worked so what is there to lose?

          Yesterday was the beginning of my new strategy. I basically told her earlier in the day I was going to mostly leave her alone. But since I still want her to know that I'm still alive, I did send her a "Goodnight" text. Got one back 2 hours later saying goodnight back and "Can we still be friends at least?." So my dilemma is... do I text back, and if I do, what do I say? I don't want to be friend-zoned so I don't want to say "Yes! Of course bestie!! <3 <3 <3," but I don't want to go the opposite route and say flat out, "No." Though I know if the book completely shuts on us getting back together, it'll take a long time to get over her, if I ever do. So I probably couldn't be just her friend.

          Basically, I wanna make sure she knows I still care as much about her as I always have, but I don't want her to feel like she can still have all the benefits of a great relationship without actually being with me.

          Ugh, it's just so strange being single, but still deeply involved with someone. Never done this before. Reminds me of how I felt back in the day when we first got together in that every word you say, and every word you don't say, you second-guess because that could be the word that she does hang on to. I guess I do have some experience in this. We actually went out for 2 weeks at first then broke up for 3 months. We didn't talk for probably 2-3 weeks, then once we did (back in the days of AIM), things started to move quickly towards getting back together (mostly through hooking up at parties we were both at). Though we never really spoke of it, we kind of just let our hearts and bodies take over and always kind of knew that by the end of the night, we'd hook up and wake up next to each other the next morning. Ughhhh. I still feel that pull, and I know she does too. I mean, I don't KNOW know that she does, but I know. Ya know? lol. I think if I give it a bit of time, she'll be able to get over any bitterness & anger towards me and just allow the true love feelings to take over.

          Sorry again for the super rant. Writing this all down is a good release. Kind of puts my world of the past month into a story, so I can kind of look at it from outside of my own perspective. I've always fancied myself as a much better writer then speaker or thinker.
          Last edited by slickdtc; 10-02-2011, 09:46 AM.
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          • Fresh Tendrils
            Strike Hard and Fade Away
            • Jul 2002
            • 36131

            #36275
            Re: Off Topic 2011

            If you must tell her something regarding her "can we be friends" BS, call her and tell her No. Seriously, that's some ****ed up **** she's doing. Stop texting her. Don't even drop in and say hi or good night or anything. She dumped you in a text? And you guys were engaged? That is below the belt, man. I know its hard, but that's not how you treat somebody you care about and you shouldn't want somebody like that around. Five years is a long time and yeah you probably won't be convinced, but just stop communicating with her. If she cares for you she will come back.



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            • canes21
              Hall Of Fame
              • Sep 2008
              • 22909

              #36276
              Re: Off Topic 2011

              This chick watches college football, loves the Braves, and types with proper grammar and all.

              Keeper?
              “No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth.”


              ― Plato

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              • Reaman
                MVP
                • Jun 2009
                • 2917

                #36277
                Re: Off Topic 2011

                Originally posted by canes21
                This chick watches college football, loves the Braves, and types with proper grammar and all.

                Keeper?
                Can she cook?

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                • canes21
                  Hall Of Fame
                  • Sep 2008
                  • 22909

                  #36278
                  Re: Off Topic 2011

                  I don't know, but if not, I can well enough.
                  “No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth.”


                  ― Plato

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                  • justblaze09
                    Swaggy Poole
                    • Mar 2007
                    • 3523

                    #36279
                    Re: Off Topic 2011

                    The story that just popped up on my Facebook feed...
                    Lions, Tigers, Pistons, Michigan

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                    OS's most random Twitter account: @JustinTrenell

                    Originally posted by Bruins
                    White doesn't clash with dark colors. Or most colors. That's the point of white.
                    Originally posted by gordogg24p
                    I think most of American history would disagree with you on that one.

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                    • Beantown
                      #DoYourJob
                      • Feb 2005
                      • 31523

                      #36280
                      Re: Off Topic 2011

                      Somehow just took off a layer of skin from my wrist with the single blade edge of my razor. Right along the veins....looks like I went for suicide by skinning, instead of cutting.

                      Luckily it's not deep or I'd be in a bit more trouble at the moment, LOL

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                      • bcruise
                        Hall Of Fame
                        • Mar 2004
                        • 23274

                        #36281
                        Re: Off Topic 2011

                        Originally posted by justblaze09
                        The story that just popped up on my Facebook feed...
                        Cool story bro.

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                        • l3ulvl
                          Hall Of Fame
                          • Dec 2009
                          • 17232

                          #36282
                          Re: Off Topic 2011

                          ugh I can't find the michigan/nebraska volleyball game thread
                          Wolverines Wings Same Old Lions Tigers Pistons Erika Christensen

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                          • Chrisksaint
                            $$$
                            • Apr 2010
                            • 19127

                            #36283
                            Re: Off Topic 2011

                            Originally posted by Reaman
                            Can she cook?
                            Heh that's not even a real requirement for me as I like to to cook, but it helps tho lol
                            Saints, LSU, Seminoles, Pelicans, Marlins, Lightning

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                            • The GIGGAS
                              Timbers - Jags - Hokies
                              • Mar 2003
                              • 28474

                              #36284
                              The Season of GIGGAS is dead.
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                              • Reaman
                                MVP
                                • Jun 2009
                                • 2917

                                #36285
                                Re: Off Topic 2011

                                Originally posted by Chrisksaint
                                Heh that's not even a real requirement for me as I like to to cook, but it helps tho lol
                                It's looking like we have plenty of chefs on OS.

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