Off Topic 2012

[Feared]

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Man why do I **** up so badly with every single girl I like.

I stay quiet and shy... she loses interest and moves on.

I'm too nice, I get friend zoned.

I try to be a little bit more direct, and ask if she wants to hang out or do something. I'm coming on too strong.

I talk to her she's not in the mood, I keep my distance I'm too reserved.


Freakin' every single girl. I can't win! I'll just conclude that I suck with women, and will never understand them. So I'm done trying to get a Girlfriend. I'm just going to ignore every single female, unless it's a direct question at work. It's not freaking worth the trouble and mind games.

What was that saying again? "Ignore Females, Acquire Currency." That's my new motto.

[adice15]

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Man why do I **** up so badly with every single girl I like.

I stay quiet and shy... she loses interest and moves on.

I'm too nice, I get friend zoned.

I try to be a little bit more direct, and ask if she wants to hang out or do something. I'm coming on too strong.

I talk to her she's not in the mood, I keep my distance I'm too reserved.


Freakin' every single girl. I can't win! I'll just conclude that I suck with women, and will never understand them. So I'm done trying to get a Girlfriend. I'm just going to ignore every single female, unless it's a direct question at work. It's not freaking worth the trouble and mind games.

What was that saying again? "Ignore Females, Acquire Currency." That's my new motto.

Story of JJ's life.

[adice15]

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Every time I read an article and it has something like "Epstein talks about free agents" I still think "Hey, I wonder what the Red Sox are gonna do" before I realize that he's with the cubs now.

Also, sorry for the double post.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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Man why do I **** up so badly with every single girl I like.

I stay quiet and shy... she loses interest and moves on.

I'm too nice, I get friend zoned.

I try to be a little bit more direct, and ask if she wants to hang out or do something. I'm coming on too strong.

I talk to her she's not in the mood, I keep my distance I'm too reserved.


Freakin' every single girl. I can't win! I'll just conclude that I suck with women, and will never understand them. So I'm done trying to get a Girlfriend. I'm just going to ignore every single female, unless it's a direct question at work. It's not freaking worth the trouble and mind games.

What was that saying again? "Ignore Females, Acquire Currency." That's my new motto.

So I take it, that new girl at work didn't work out for ya ?

[AUChase]

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Quit sweating it so much.

The sooner you stop worrying so much about females, the easier things will get.

It's been a productive day.

Worked 8-5, washed all my clothes, towels, and jackets.

I've cleaned the bathroom and my bedroom.

Now, just gotta get some extra fuel in my system then hit the gym and my day will be complete... besides relaxing with my PS3.

[Feared]

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So I take it, that new girl at work didn't work out for ya ?

Well pretty much. I asked her if she wanted to hang out after work. She gave some excuse she had to take care of something, and ducked away. After that I didn't see her at all.

but it's not just this girl it's every single girl for the past year. I completely misread, misunderstand their signals, say the wrong things, completely screw up; even if I think I'm doing the right things to become Boyfriend material. I just don't understand it, I must have some anti-woman gene that completely repels women away from me in their genetic code.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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even if I think I'm doing the right things to become Boyfriend material

That is your problem right there. You trying to be somebody that you assume what a woman wants. Just be yourself. Different women like different type of men, you fighting a losing battle.

There is no universal "boyfriend material" image. Be yourself and the women who like your type will come find you. That is the key, let the women find you.

Women are so strange and fickle, you can ask 10 women what is their type and you will hear around 7 different answers.

[AUChase]

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About to say good bye to my beard again.

I grew it back out for a few weeks, but I'm about ready to shave it off.. I look underage because my hair is longer now, even if it's always covered by a hat.

[thaima1shu]

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That is your problem right there. You trying to be somebody that you assume what a woman wants. Just be yourself. Different women like different type of men, you fighting a losing battle.

There is no universal "boyfriend material" image. Be yourself and the women who like your type will come find you. That is the key, let the women find you.

Women are so strange and fickle, you can ask 10 women what is their type and you will hear around 7 different answers.

Absolutely. Don't try too hard, just be yourself.

[adice15]

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I just read all my facebook posts from 2009. I was an idiot back then, always using smileys like a ****ing girl.

[Watson]

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I just read all my facebook posts from 2009. I was an idiot back then, always using smileys like a ****ing girl.

Yea, I'm not going to read what I was thinking in the summer of 2007.

[Feared]

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That is your problem right there. You trying to be somebody that you assume what a woman wants. Just be yourself. Different women like different type of men, you fighting a losing battle.

There is no universal "boyfriend material" image. Be yourself and the women who like your type will come find you. That is the key, let the women find you.

Women are so strange and fickle, you can ask 10 women what is their type and you will hear around 7 different answers.

Well I may seem distraught, and upset but I'm really not just a little baffled at how I can have such terrible luck with the opposite sex.

Believe me for the past few years I've actually been very indifferent, carefree about the situation. I just lived my life in peace and quiet, but that really didn't get me any Girlfriends. So my buddies told me I had to be more outgoing, start striking up conversations with a lot of different girls, and trust me I'm not being some poser trying to impress "chicks"... I'm just being my genuine, nice-guy self when I talk to them.. and it always ends the same.

Not really sure what else I can do, I mean I feel like I'm a fairly good looking guy. I've busted my butt to get in shape and will continue to do so (not for vanity) but for health reason, and feeling good. I'm leaner, and feeling healthier than I've ever been. I take good care of my hygiene, and clothes... I've been gainfully employed for the past 4 years and have been IMO a very hard, and trustworthy worker. (Maybe I'm just too boring for women?)

Oh well I'm going back to not caring, not being overly social with women like I have been, but again that did not help me get in a relationship so whatever. Maybe the perfect girl will just literally fall in my lap who knows?

[Blitz1942]

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I just read all my facebook posts from 2009. I was an idiot back then, always using smileys like a ****ing girl.

I know. I hate my 2009 self. So stupid...

And I'm surprised how much my roommate's ex-girlfriend posted on my wall and on my statuses, even while they were together. Seems like she had to post something on my wall ever three days, and commented on pretty much anything I did...

[adice15]

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Yea, I'm not going to read what I was thinking in the summer of 2007.

Now I like to keep my statuses rare, only posting them when I'm sure it's gonna get a lot of likes or comments. But back then I was using it like twitter posting stuff like "Eating McDonalds =)". I hate 2009 me, and then in 2 years I'll probably hate 2011 me.

[Chaos81]

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And I'm surprised how much my roommate's ex-girlfriend posted on my wall and on my statuses, even while they were together. Seems like she had to post something on my wall ever three days, and commented on pretty much anything I did...

She was trying to tell you something.