Off Topic 2012

[canes21]

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You underestimate how evil women really are

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Haha, no, I know how evil they can be, but I'm seriously sure she was just talking about it not trying to do some secretive atomic attack on me.

By the way, I'm not even kidding. I think you're toast, canes21. Hope I'm wrong

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I'll keep you all updated for some nice OS 2012 drama already. But I highly doubt there is any drama really here.

[Dog]

Haha, no, I know how evil they can be, but I'm seriously sure she was just talking about it not trying to do some secretive atomic attack on me.



I'll keep you all updated for some nice OS 2012 drama already. But I highly doubt there is any drama really here.

Dude, its so ninja that even SHE doesn't do it on purpose. Its on the subconscious level and the little ninjas in her head are leading the attack without her even knowing how or why.

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[TracerBullet]

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Well, I accomplished my Winter Break goal of watching every episode (223) of South Park.

[Feared]

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Yeah Canes I don't buy her explanation. If you just "suddenly" lose feelings for someone, that probably means the relationship was shallow and there was no solid base for it from the start. The person losing interest probably only was in the relationship for looks, money, sex...etc.

I really believe if you truly have feelings of Love for someone, those feelings will last.. even if you are not with them anymore. It will actually be hard to part ways, and forget about them.

Edit: Just to clarify I do think even in very solid relationships sometimes the couple needs a brief period apart, because constantly being together might drive some people crazy with being on each others back 24/7, but when you really love someone you want to make sacrifices from yourself, to help better that persons life. You care about them just as much as yourself, if not more. I don't think those are feelings that can be lost suddenly, with no direct reason, unless of course she's trying to protect you from herself.

[kingkilla56]

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So for breakfast it is between me putting effort into making an omlette and toast or me throwing a pack of ramen in boiling water and a hotdog while being lazy before my day really starts.....

Spoiler

I'm lazy

[Ermolli]

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After finishing filling up like30 coupons for a chance of winning a car and feeling that my right arm was tired, my mum gave me 100+ more coupons to fill. I'll do anything to get a car for myself (except paying )

[canes21]

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Yeah Canes I don't buy her explanation. If you just "suddenly" lose feelings for someone, that probably means the relationship was shallow and there was no solid base for it from the start. The person losing interest probably only was in the relationship for looks, money, sex...etc.

I really believe if you truly have feelings of Love for someone, those feelings will last.. even if you are not with them anymore. It will actually be hard to part ways, and forget about them.

Edit: Just to clarify I do think even in very solid relationships sometimes the couple needs a brief period apart, because constantly being together might drive some people crazy with being on each others back 24/7, but when you really love someone you want to make sacrifices from yourself, to help better that persons life. You care about them just as much as yourself, if not more. I don't think those are feelings that can be lost suddenly, with no direct reason, unless of course she's trying to protect you from herself.

This is pretty much what I told her. And unlike Jnes, I really don't think she was doing a little ninja attack consciously or subconsciously. If you had heard what she had said through the other 3 1/2 hours of the conversation then you'd know why I feel like that. We just got onto that topic, I brought it up, and she pretty much just said in a quick little summary that people do lose interest and she agreed with me that it happens when the relationships were not good from the start or someone was in it just for the money, sex, etc. That didn't really bother me, I only got irritated when she said it's not always from something like that and that even a great relationship like us could have one of us just randomly lose interest. I think I may have just looked way too far into it when she said that and she didn't mean anything by it.

I just don't see how it could really happen if you have a great relationship and both people are happy, like ours. What we have now is easily the best relationship either of us have had and I'd be willing to say it's probably better than any of my close friends have had and she'd say the same thing, so one of us just randomly losing interest seems highly unlikely to me, but maybe I'm just dreaming?

[slickdtc]

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Canes, girls like to cover their bases. That debate doesn't surprise me. I don't think you can look too much into it, honestly. It'll just drive you crazy. Can't mess with what if's and what could have been's, just got to take what's given to you everyday and make the best choices possible. You're good, dude.

Edit: Just to clarify I do think even in very solid relationships sometimes the couple needs a brief period apart, because constantly being together might drive some people crazy with being on each others back 24/7, but when you really love someone you want to make sacrifices from yourself, to help better that persons life. You care about them just as much as yourself, if not more. I don't think those are feelings that can be lost suddenly, with no direct reason, unless of course she's trying to protect you from herself.

I hear you loud & clear, my friend. Those who follow this thread may recall me posting about an issue with my fiance' just 3 months ago (mid-September). She abruptly (at least in my eyes) left me for about a month. Just when I was ready to accept that this happens to everyone, she came back, admitted she had definitely made a mistake but also that the break was good in that it showed us just how much we meant to each other. I changed, got my life a bit straightened out and started to appreciate her more (not that I didn't to begin with... just not as much as I could have). She took time out for herself too.

The way it went down wasn't good, but stepping back and checking it out from a bit of a disconnected perspective, it was good overall. I'm not bitter at all, it helped us grow and actually may end up being the pivotal moment in our relationship where we look back and say, "That's when we truly knew."

I don't encourage breaks. I don't condone breaks. But I can't deny that they can help, as long as the two parties aren't messing around with other people. If that would have happened, I wouldn't have been able to bear it. Since I knew all along that the break was to get herself right and get myself right, that it was never about wanting to test out the waters, I was able to accept it.

Things are great now. Seriously, it's been 3 months, any honeymoon phase feelings would be over. Yet I feel better about our relationship then I ever did. Pretty much every aspect of us is better.

I'm lucky, a lot of people this wouldn't work for. Or at least not work out in the long term. It has for us.

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[nemesis04]

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That sounds like something you would say!

[Dog]

Ninja canes, ninja

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[Gotmadskillzson]

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That chick had a Kelly Bundy moment if she thinks the year is how old the planet is.

[adice15]

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[TripleCrown9]

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This NBC Sports: A Storied Journey was pretty enjoyable. Much like the title implies, NBC was showing the greatest sports moments that have ever happened on the station. I didn't see the very beginning, but the earliest moment I saw was the 1958 NFL Championship, and one of the most recent was Canada winning the gold medal in 2010. I'm pretty sure they were showing it because yesterday Versus was renamed the NBC Sports Network.

[Ermolli]

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I don't know what to watch tonight, NBA vs Fiesta Bowl vs Raw. What are you guys going to watch?