Off Topic 2012

[ryan36]

You know the pictures thread kinda died since a certain poster stopped being able to call everyone in it cute

[BlueNGold]

Re: Off Topic 2012

Replaced it for me about ten minutes after I got it and realized that there was no TOS on Twitter.


But for a post here -

My girlfriend just tried to pull some bull on me, so she's now getting ignored until she apologizes. It's not even anything that bad, but the woman needs to learn.

I went to the Pats game today and by the time I got home I was tired and don't feel like going out and dealing with the drunk versions of her and her mom and probably her aunt. So I told her I was probably going to just go grab some food with my sister and her boyfriend.

She then tells me "Drew just showed up" so she's talking and texting and was distracted. I ask who Drew was as if I'm supposed to know, she ignores it. I ask once more about twenty minutes later and her response was: "well maybe it'll make you come see me."

Like I said, nothing too serious, but don't try ****ing with me saying a dude you used to **** is with your drunk self at a restaurant-bar. You're starting fights you won't win.

[TracerBullet]

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I'm pretty sure this girl on my Facebook would be great at showing people the perfect way to have an awful long distance relationship, but still try to keep it.

[Blitz1942]

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Typical Wisconsin reaction?



And I see Blitz beat me to the punch

It helps when you're from Wisconsin and think similarly lol.

[mKoz26]

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You know the pictures thread kinda died since a certain poster stopped being able to call everyone in it cute

Yeah, but you shouldn't have to worry about the possible sexual harassment issues. Just because you're a moderator now doesn't mean you're using your power to come on to posters by calling them cute. Maybe you're just being nice.

[BlueNGold]

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I'm pretty sure this girl on my Facebook would be great at showing people the perfect way to have an awful long distance relationship, but still try to keep it.

Tell her nothing good happens after 2 am.

[TracerBullet]

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Tell her nothing good happens after 2 am.

I am really close to letting her know what I think. We are pretty good friends, haven't talked really since she started dating the guy. Definitely one of the drawbacks of the side bar. I'd be oblivious and less annoyed without it. Thankfully, there is Twitter so I'm not on as much anymore.

[The Big Squeezy]

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So my mom and I are moving into our own house after living in this duplex for the past 6 years. It's gonna be a weird feeling having a house without someone living on the other side of the wall to us. The best part is it's literally 2 houses down from us so we get to stay in the same neighborhood and everything.

[Ermolli]

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I need to get out of my computer when it's late at night, I feel like I'm glued to it and I can't just turn it off.

[Mo]

Must say, I'm very impressed with netflix, even on my crappy internet connection.

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[canes21]

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So my girlfriend and I were on the phone for a few hours tonight and I want to get your guys opinions on one topic that we "argued" over. We were talking about people losing interests in relationships and it kind of annoyed me with what she said.

She basically said that anyone can suddenly lose feelings for the other person, nothing has to happen. Their feels can just change right then and there and she said it's possible that one of us could even just lose interest for no reason at all. That really annoyed me because I definitely disagree with what she said and didn't like what she said about us.

I feel that if someone loses interest in a relationship, then one of a few things happened. I think if the relationship was never solid from the start, then someone could easily get full of all of it and "lose" feeling right then and there. I also think one of the people has to change in the relationship for feelings to be lost. If the guy starts becoming a douche to the girl daily, I could see her losing interest and wanting out.

I feel something has had to change for someone to suddenly lose interest. No one just wakes and feels less love for their partner, or at least I don't believe it. My girlfriend, however, feels that that happens and happens often.

She brought up my best friend for example. He recently broke up with his now ex-gf and it made my gf happy. She didn't like the way he treated her. Now, he was nice to her and all, but he is definitely not the settling down type. He never actually cheated on her, but I'm sure it crossed his mind daily. He liked the girl, but I don't believe he truly wanted to be with her and her only. I think he wanted to be in a relationship, but didn't want to deal with everything it brings, so they were never a good couple. They weren't a terrible couple, they were just never a solid one and the breakup was far from surprising.

Now me and my gf on the other hand, we're completely different from them. We treat each other 10x better than they treated each other and our relationship isn't based on a 3 letter word that ends in "ex". We're together because we actually like each other, not what we can do for each other. That is why I find it near impossible to believe that we could suddenly start losing interest.

It just frustrated me that she put it like that and used them as an example and said we could be like that. We're a lot "better" of a couple than they ever were at their high points and she even knows, so it just irked me a lot when she made it sound like we could easily have one of us lose interest and end it.

So, what do you OS'rs think? Can interest just be lost suddenly, or do you feel something had to have changed or the relation was never solid from the start for interest to be lost?

[Dog]

So my girlfriend and I were on the phone for a few hours tonight and I want to get your guys opinions on one topic that we "argued" over. We were talking about people losing interests in relationships and it kind of annoyed me with what she said.

She basically said that anyone can suddenly lose feelings for the other person, nothing has to happen. Their feels can just change right then and there and she said it's possible that one of us could even just lose interest for no reason at all. That really annoyed me because I definitely disagree with what she said and didn't like what she said about us.

I feel that if someone loses interest in a relationship, then one of a few things happened. I think if the relationship was never solid from the start, then someone could easily get full of all of it and "lose" feeling right then and there. I also think one of the people has to change in the relationship for feelings to be lost. If the guy starts becoming a douche to the girl daily, I could see her losing interest and wanting out.

I feel something has had to change for someone to suddenly lose interest. No one just wakes and feels less love for their partner, or at least I don't believe it. My girlfriend, however, feels that that happens and happens often.

She brought up my best friend for example. He recently broke up with his now ex-gf and it made my gf happy. She didn't like the way he treated her. Now, he was nice to her and all, but he is definitely not the settling down type. He never actually cheated on her, but I'm sure it crossed his mind daily. He liked the girl, but I don't believe he truly wanted to be with her and her only. I think he wanted to be in a relationship, but didn't want to deal with everything it brings, so they were never a good couple. They weren't a terrible couple, they were just never a solid one and the breakup was far from surprising.

Now me and my gf on the other hand, we're completely different from them. We treat each other 10x better than they treated each other and our relationship isn't based on a 3 letter word that ends in "ex". We're together because we actually like each other, not what we can do for each other. That is why I find it near impossible to believe that we could suddenly start losing interest.

It just frustrated me that she put it like that and used them as an example and said we could be like that. We're a lot "better" of a couple than they ever were at their high points and she even knows, so it just irked me a lot when she made it sound like we could easily have one of us lose interest and end it.

So, what do you OS'rs think? Can interest just be lost suddenly, or do you feel something had to have changed or the relation was never solid from the start for interest to be lost?

She is setting you up. My advice would be to buy a dog, teach it how to eat people, and get it to eat her. No other way out.

But seriously, she is a woman. Do you really think she said that for no reason? Its a ninja move and I'm not even kidding. She says this now because she feels like she is losing interest. Then when you forget she said it or at least stop worrying that she has lost interest...she will strike. Boom. Clap. Clap. "I just lost interest, canes21. Its not you, its not me...it just happened. Goodbye." And you will be left to clean up the mess inside your own heart that she has now completely destroyed.

Either that or she has her eye on another guy(s), but would feel like a piece of crap if she came out and said that so she planted that little nugget in your head. Either way, its ninja and its assassin. May your God have mercy on your soul.

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[Dog]

By the way, I'm not even kidding. I think you're toast, canes21. Hope I'm wrong

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[canes21]

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She is setting you up. My advice would be to buy a dog, teach it how to eat people, and get it to eat her. No other way out.

But seriously, she is a woman. Do you really think she said that for no reason? Its a ninja move and I'm not even kidding. She says this now because she feels like she is losing interest. Then when you forget she said it or at least stop worrying that she has lost interest...she will strike. Boom. Clap. Clap. "I just lost interest, canes21. Its not you, its not me...it just happened. Goodbye." And you will be left to clean up the mess inside your own heart that she has now completely destroyed.

Either that or she has her eye on another guy(s), but would feel like a piece of crap if she came out and said that so she planted that little nugget in your head. Either way, its ninja and its assassin. May your God have mercy on your soul.

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When she first said it, I did have some thoughts like this, but I'm 200 percent(my percent key doesn't work) sure she did not have those intentions and I'm generally never even sure about things that are guaranteed if that tells you anything. She just opened up to me with some things on the phone that no one will open up about while losing interest. She also did the usual "make plans for the future" thing women like to do on the phone.... but when you think about it, she was doing those things so I'd think what I just typed. Nah, she's definitely not that smart.

Seriously, I'm sure she was not trying to plant a nugget in my mind or hint at something. I'm really good friends with all her friends and am good with most of her family and they've all told me within the past two days about how she feels about me and what she's said and there's no way she was doing that... unless.... unless the whole family is in on it!

[Dog]

When she first said it, I did have some thoughts like this, but I'm 200 serious she did not have those intentions. She just opened up to me with some things on the phone that no one will open up about while losing interest. She also did the usual "make plans for the future" thing women like to do on the phone.... but when you think about it, she was doing those things so ['d think what I just typed. Nah, she's definitely not that smart.

Seriously, I'm sure she was not trying to plant a nugget in my mind or hint at something. I'm really good friends with all her friends and am good with most of her family and they've all told me within the past two days about how she feels about me and what she's said and there's no way she was doing that... unless.... unless the whole family is in on it!

You underestimate how evil women really are

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