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  • nemesis04
    RIP Ty My Buddy
    • Feb 2004
    • 13530

    #1

    When is it time to let go?

    This past weekend I was visiting at my parents house and saw that they were doing some cleaning. They told me I had about eight boxes that were mine and wanted me to go through them before they got rid of them. Thinking nothing of it I went downstairs to investigate expecting that is was going to be an easy toss by thumbing through the boxes quickly.

    What I was not expecting was opening each box turned into an instant time machine bringing me back to my childhood. Every item I picked up immediately brought me back to that moment in time and I could recall vividly what was going on in my life at that time. Some of the items I found were really awesome:

    -A wooden race car that my dad and I carved out when I was in the Cub Scouts.
    -Completed puzzles that were glued together and stored on a board so they did not get ruined. They were pictures of the Plant of the Apes, Happy Days, Star Trek and various superheroes.
    -My first train set.
    -Various action figures: Original GI Joe, Action Jackson, Star Trek, Plant Of The Apes.
    -My baseball card collections. Complete sets from 1978 to 1987.
    -Intellivision with all the games.
    -Tons of handheld electric games.
    -My working V-8 engine Model.
    -All my trophies from Playing Baseball and Bowling.
    -Evil Knievel stunt doll and motorcycle. My first dog and loyal companion chewed Evil's left foot and it was funny looking at the foot seeing his teeth marks on it.

    So what I was expecting to be a few minutes turned into over an hour of looking through everything and reminiscing about my childhood. No I am faced with deciding what to do with everything. There are some things that are definitely keepers like the baseball cards and the wooden car I made with my dad. The thought about tossing out the other things bums me out a little. I could always bring it to my house and put it in the basement but that just adds clutter!

    How did you guys let go of your childhood things? Did you toss it and not look back or do you still have it?
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  • trobinson97
    Lie,cheat,steal,kill: Win
    • Oct 2004
    • 16366

    #2
    Re: When is it time to let go?

    I don't let anything go if I can help it. I have so much stuff from when I was a kid taking up space: comic books, basketball/baseball/football cards, drawings, report cards and even class assignments, etc. No toys though. My old toys were lost in a house fire and I never really got any after that, not any that were built to last anyway.

    As for my other stuff, I don't really see a reason for me to get rid of it. The boys like reading the comics, looking at all the cards, seeing the old stuff I used to draw and what not. I just like having those links to my past around.
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    • jeremym480
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      • Oct 2008
      • 18198

      #3
      If you have the room to store them, then you don't let them go.

      When I went hope for Thanksgiving my Mom told me to take the 7-8 boxes of baseball cards and comic books with me because she needed the extra space.

      I have plenty of room in the closet in my "man cave" so that's where they are now. I'm 32 and don't have any kids, but if I have a son one day I'll pass them on to him.

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      • C the Lyte
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        • May 2009
        • 2253

        #4
        Re: When is it time to let go?

        If you really sit back and think about whatever it is, chances are that you will never use or wear whatever it is again.

        Trash it. Or, better yet, donate it. At least that way someone else can use it or wear it.
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        • Knight165
          *ll St*r
          • Feb 2003
          • 24964

          #5
          Re: When is it time to let go?

          Originally posted by nemesis04
          This past weekend I was visiting at my parents house and saw that they were doing some cleaning. They told me I had about eight boxes that were mine and wanted me to go through them before they got rid of them. Thinking nothing of it I went downstairs to investigate expecting that is was going to be an easy toss by thumbing through the boxes quickly.

          What I was not expecting was opening each box turned into an instant time machine bringing me back to my childhood. Every item I picked up immediately brought me back to that moment in time and I could recall vividly what was going on in my life at that time. Some of the items I found were really awesome:

          -A wooden race car that my dad and I carved out when I was in the Cub Scouts.
          Keep it...I've got the same thing.....with an American Flag painting on it..
          -Completed puzzles that were glued together and stored on a board so they did not get ruined. They were pictures of the Plant of the Apes, Happy Days, Star Trek and various superheroes.
          Since they are glued...I say toss it.
          -My first train set.
          Keep it....is it HO scale?...toss it if it is....
          -Various action figures: Original GI Joe, Action Jackson, Star Trek, Plant Of The Apes.
          KEEP!!!
          -My baseball card collections. Complete sets from 1978 to 1987.
          These are worthless. I'll toss 'em for you as I have a special ceremony for disposing of baseball cards...My address is....
          -Intellivision with all the games.
          Keep....someone will buy this.
          -Tons of handheld electric games.
          Keep and sell
          -My working V-8 engine Model.
          I'VE GOT THE DEISEL ENGINE!!! You have to put oil in it when cranking!
          Toss it.

          -All my trophies from Playing Baseball and Bowling.
          Unless you are displaying...toss. This was tough for me to do. But I got tired of seeing "MVP"...MVP...MVP...over and over again.
          -Evil Knievel stunt doll and motorcycle. My first dog and loyal companion chewed Evil's left foot and it was funny looking at the foot seeing his teeth marks on it.
          Keep it. I'm crying just thinking about Scrunchy doing that to your doll. He was great.

          So what I was expecting to be a few minutes turned into over an hour of looking through everything and reminiscing about my childhood. No I am faced with deciding what to do with everything. There are some things that are definitely keepers like the baseball cards and the wooden car I made with my dad. The thought about tossing out the other things bums me out a little. I could always bring it to my house and put it in the basement but that just adds clutter!

          How did you guys let go of your childhood things? Did you toss it and not look back or do you still have it?
          Tough call.
          I myself am a bit of a "sentimental hoarder"
          (something you would "like"...I have the N.Y. Daily News from the day that Thurman Munson was killed)....

          My replies in bold.


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          • Knight165
            *ll St*r
            • Feb 2003
            • 24964

            #6
            Re: When is it time to let go?

            You know...looking over the list....you may be the long lost "Bizarro Knight"...as we have almost the same exact things!

            Don't ever contact me again....you're scaring me.

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            • slickdtc
              Grayscale
              • Aug 2004
              • 17125

              #7
              Re: When is it time to let go?



              Donate or sell some of those things. Don't just throw them away! Or pass them down to children or grandchildren. Or, if you have the room, store them at your place.
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              • Fresh Tendrils
                Strike Hard and Fade Away
                • Jul 2002
                • 36131

                #8
                Re: When is it time to let go?

                My parents keep wanting my brother and I to go through our old toys and take them with us. I don't have the room at my apartment, but I don't want to toss all those toys away as I would like to take them eventually. Plus, isn't that what parents are for anyway? To store old nostaglic things. At least until the kids have a family of their own.

                I am not sentimental with clothes (mostly), but when it comes to my action figures I am serious as death. My mom once sold our TMNT toys at a yard sale and we still give her hell about it, haha.



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                • Bighoff
                  The Bird is the word
                  • Jul 2002
                  • 5312

                  #9
                  Re: When is it time to let go?

                  I gave all toys and such from childhood to younger cousins when I was in high school. There is are least two large boxes of things I'm attached to in the rafters of my parent's garage, it's mostly collectabes and a few toys and a couple of stuffed animals that will be my childern's when i have kids. The older I get the harder it gets to get rid of things from childhood/young adult life.
                  I've heard this "patience is a virtue" junk all my life. I'm happy to say I have no virtue, no scruples, and no desire to wait too long for anything. In my humble opinion instant gratification takes too long!

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                  • 12
                    Banned
                    • Feb 2010
                    • 4458

                    #10
                    Re: When is it time to let go?

                    Man, that's some cool stuff... I don't think I could trash any of it... The only questionable items are the puzzles and the train set... But other than that, if you have the room, I'd keep it.

                    I think the whole letting go idea doesn't have to really take place, especially when it's good memories and such.

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                    • VanCitySportsGuy
                      NYG_Meth
                      • Feb 2003
                      • 9351

                      #11
                      Re: When is it time to let go?

                      I try to live a minimalist lifestyle so I threw almost everything out. Why hold on to things that are just going to collect dust?

                      Off the top of my head, I think the only thing left in my parents house that I actually want are my baby pictures.

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                      • CMH
                        Making you famous
                        • Oct 2002
                        • 26203

                        #12
                        Re: When is it time to let go?

                        When I moved out of the apartment I spent half of my life in, and into my own, I took the large toy chest my brother and I had and dumped it.

                        Didn't even look inside. I knew what would happen if I had.

                        The next day it was gone. I assume some kid is enjoying those toys. Hopefully.
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                        • ScoobySnax
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                          • Mar 2009
                          • 7624

                          #13
                          From a person who has absolutely nothing from his childhood, keep it man. Keep it all.


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                          • Mabster
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                            • Mar 2009
                            • 7659

                            #14
                            Re: When is it time to let go?

                            From somebody who didn't have a choice in the matter I'd keep everything I could from childhood.

                            10 years ago my parents where awoken in the middle of the night with their house on fire. They lived in rural Missouri then and it was way to late by the time the volunteer FD got to them. Nothing was spared except my mom's jewelry box and some photo albums/frames as they were the only thing my dad could grab before they had to bail out the bedroom window. My boxes o' stuff were in the attic. I get a little sad when I think about it but then I feel a lot better because my parents are still alive today.
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                            • JohnnytheSkin
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                              • Jul 2003
                              • 5914

                              #15
                              Re: When is it time to let go?

                              Just chuck it. I went through some crap recently that I brought with me when I first moved out, and just laughed at how stupid it all was. Sure I remembered where and how I came by it, but a random crappy souvenir from a trip two decades ago? Gone. Desert Storm trading cards? Gone. Old love letters and notes? Gone. I filled two garbage bags full of crap and have no regrets. I've done the same when I visit home and my parents come across stuff as they reorganize. I always tell them to just trash it.

                              Same goes for that inevitable day when I'm expected to take on all my PARENTS' crap when they die. I don't want it. Let my sisters fight over seven boxes of old sci-fi paperbacks and Danielle Steele novels, not to mention yearbooks and crap.

                              I have a good family, and while we're strained on many levels due to their staid, old fashioned ways and political and religious differences, I have no desire to keep their trinkets. I might keep photos of me as a kid, but I don't care to have those of my great-grandparents or any of that stuff. It will just clutter my house and be passed on and clutter the house of my son. NO THANK YOU!
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