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Agreed. This thread needs some THM.
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Aint that the truth. For some women it feels like a challenge to go after the married, engaged guy.
Man the rich, get richer. You see single guys don't have these kind of problems. Why can't this ever happen to me?
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Tell her you think her mom's attractive.
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Want her?
I'll tell her I'm super obsessed with a certain video game and website.
And because she's young and impressionable, and will find everything I do to be super slick, I'll tell her I know someone with an awesome OS user ID.
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This used to happen to me a lot as well when I was a store manager at the Buckle. I'll tell you what NOT to do:
One time this girl that used to come in a lot was trying on clothes, talking to me, and flirting as usual. As she's talking to me, my girlfriend (now wife) walks in. Catching me off guard, I looked over at her, and said, "Oh, hey dude!"
Let's just say I still hear about that one almost three years later......Last edited by DickDalewood; 05-19-2012, 03:51 PM.Comment
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This used to happen to me a lot as well when I was a store manager at the Buckle. I'll tell you what NOT to do:
One time this girl that used to come in a lot was trying on clothes, talking to me, and flirting as usual. As she's talking to me, my girlfriend (now wife) walks in. Catching me off guard, I looked over at her, and said, "Oh, hey dude!"
Let's just say I still hear about that one almost three years later......
I still can't believe how anyone thinks a Bears fan that worked at Buckle is straight. But whatever.Comment
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Just to confirm OP you have actually told the girl you have a girlfriend haven't you? I mean you said you were deflecting her compliments etc but have you actually slipped the fact you are in a relationship into any conversation you have had with the new girl?Comment
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I've never really had this problem, but I've only really been dating for the past 3 years or so and haven't had a GF in a year.
I kinda did once, but I was quickly aware of where the conversation was headed at this party and found my GF to kind of make it obviousSaints, LSU, Seminoles, Pelicans, Marlins, LightningComment
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No (and NOT for nefarious reasons). In hindsight, I should have told her the deal.
Basically, after thinking about it, I would have wanted my GF to do exactly that if this were to happen to her at her work.
If this girl stops back, I absolutely plan on it.Comment
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Yeah I'd say step 1 is letting the girl know you're in a relationship. I wouldn't outright confront like "hey, I have a girlfriend" but there's bound to be an organic way to slip it into the conversation.
"Hey! How was your weekend?"
"It was great, the girlfriend and I [fill in the blank]"
From there she'll either back down and stop coming by or she'll continue. Then you have to determine if she just enjoys the conversation or is one of "those" that sees it as a challenge.
If you slip it into convo and she persists, I would consider mentioning it to your GF provided she's usually reasonable and not the overly jealous, overreacting type. Maybe to "get her advice" on how to let the girl down easy as to not cause an awkward scene at your work. Then that also protects you from blindsiding her if she comes to visit while the chatty one is there and sees her as being too flirty. If she's usually a reasonable woman, she should appreciate the honesty and transparency.
I can understand and relate to enjoying the attention though, what straight man wouldn't lol? But good call on wanting to handle the situation before any drama happens since you feel the woman you are with is the love of your life. No use risking it.Comment
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this is great advice. Even though it would be kind of hilarious to see you just scream 'I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!' at her next time she walks up to say hi try to casually slip it into conversation and see what happens.Yeah I'd say step 1 is letting the girl know you're in a relationship. I wouldn't outright confront like "hey, I have a girlfriend" but there's bound to be an organic way to slip it into the conversation.
"Hey! How was your weekend?"
"It was great, the girlfriend and I [fill in the blank]"
From there she'll either back down and stop coming by or she'll continue. Then you have to determine if she just enjoys the conversation or is one of "those" that sees it as a challenge.
If you slip it into convo and she persists, I would consider mentioning it to your GF provided she's usually reasonable and not the overly jealous, overreacting type. Maybe to "get her advice" on how to let the girl down easy as to not cause an awkward scene at your work. Then that also protects you from blindsiding her if she comes to visit while the chatty one is there and sees her as being too flirty. If she's usually a reasonable woman, she should appreciate the honesty and transparency.
I can understand and relate to enjoying the attention though, what straight man wouldn't lol? But good call on wanting to handle the situation before any drama happens since you feel the woman you are with is the love of your life. No use risking it.
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Post of the year!Yeah I'd say step 1 is letting the girl know you're in a relationship. I wouldn't outright confront like "hey, I have a girlfriend" but there's bound to be an organic way to slip it into the conversation.
"Hey! How was your weekend?"
"It was great, the girlfriend and I [fill in the blank]"
From there she'll either back down and stop coming by or she'll continue. Then you have to determine if she just enjoys the conversation or is one of "those" that sees it as a challenge.
If you slip it into convo and she persists, I would consider mentioning it to your GF provided she's usually reasonable and not the overly jealous, overreacting type. Maybe to "get her advice" on how to let the girl down easy as to not cause an awkward scene at your work. Then that also protects you from blindsiding her if she comes to visit while the chatty one is there and sees her as being too flirty. If she's usually a reasonable woman, she should appreciate the honesty and transparency.
I can understand and relate to enjoying the attention though, what straight man wouldn't lol? But good call on wanting to handle the situation before any drama happens since you feel the woman you are with is the love of your life. No use risking it.
I actually considered (if it persisted) bringing it up to my GF too. I honestly don't see how that wouldn't have been the best thing to do (considering the nature of our relationship). Though I agree, some people couldn't handle that kind of transparency.
She was waking the dog one time and got harassed by some dude lookin for her to give him her number. As soon as she got back, she told me immediately; the sole purpose being that she felt I should be aware incase he did it again.
And I think a little, "you should be proud of how I handled it" (my words, not hers) was part of her reasoning for telling me too. Which is okay. Because she did and I was proud of her (for handling it AND telling me about it).Comment
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So, Heroes is gonna be "that girl" who casually slips in the "boyfriend" word after weeks of flirting?
If this girl kills you, I'm taking her side. Just be up front next time. Nothing is worse than finding someone has a significant other after the fact.
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