Let's talk about...The Dreaded Friend Zone

[legendkiller5]

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You don't have to be a douche to the females in order to get yourself out of the friend zone. Just be "unavailable". these broads like to keep you around to vent, to co-sign their foolishness, without any responsibility or obligation towards you. Keep yourself unavailable, emotionally distant. She's trying to talk to you about some other dude? Change the topic, talk about one of her homegirls... She's going on some estrogen-fueled rant? Change the topic, or tell her you ain't a woman and you don't wanna hear that kinda talk. Some broads can't handle this, and they'll run away, effectively canceling themselves out from the mathematical equation of your life. If this happens, they weren't worth hanging around anyway.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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He has spoken.

[Pokes]

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The bottom line is if you get "friend zoned" it's because you walked right into it.

[Jano]

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Lol @ co-sign their foolishness, had me dying with that one!!

[Champion8877]

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[Altimus]

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The "friend zone" is like the Phantom Zone from Superman... rarely us stuck there get released from that zone.

[bigeastbumrush]

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You don't have to be a douche to the females in order to get yourself out of the friend zone. Just be "unavailable". these broads like to keep you around to vent, to co-sign their foolishness, without any responsibility or obligation towards you. Keep yourself unavailable, emotionally distant. She's trying to talk to you about some other dude? Change the topic, talk about one of her homegirls... She's going on some estrogen-fueled rant? Change the topic, or tell her you ain't a woman and you don't wanna hear that kinda talk. Some broads can't handle this, and they'll run away, effectively canceling themselves out from the mathematical equation of your life. If this happens, they weren't worth hanging around anyway.

We are not worthy!

[jmood88]

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This whole "girls only like *******s" thing is hilarious. Of course, some girls like *******s but most of the time, this gets repeated over and over again by dudes to make them feel better about themselves for being single. No one is rejecting you because you're "too nice", what is actually happening is that you're going after girls who simply aren't attracted to you. I'm also pretty sure that a lot of people aren't really going after a girl either, they're hovering around her hoping that being nice and available will mean that she'll decide to ask them out. Most of the people who I see complain about the "friend zone" have no idea how to talk to women and want them to do all the work in starting a relationship because they're scared of rejection.

[bigeastbumrush]

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This whole "girls only like *******s" thing is hilarious. Of course, some girls like *******s but most of the time, this gets repeated over and over again by dudes to make them feel better about themselves for being single. No one is rejecting you because you're "too nice", what is actually happening is that you're going after girls who simply aren't attracted to you. I'm also pretty sure that a lot of people aren't really going after a girl either, they're hovering around her hoping that being nice and available will mean that she'll decide to ask them out. Most of the people who I see complain about the "friend zone" have no idea how to talk to women and want them to do all the work in starting a relationship because they're scared of rejection.

That's quite unfair of you mood.

Everyone's gotta start somewhere. I'm pretty sure you didn't start macking straight from the womb.

A lot of times..boys need to face rejection. It does wonders for confidence.

We all have to start somewhere.

[jmood88]

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That's quite unfair of you mood.

Everyone's gotta start somewhere. I'm pretty sure you didn't start macking straight from the womb.

A lot of times..boys need to face rejection. It does wonders for confidence.

We all have to start somewhere.

I agree that they have to start somewhere but there are people who have been complaining about the exact same thing for years and never stop to think that there's even a possibility that they are doing something wrong or that their expectations for who they can get are way too high. It's always on the woman being a bitch or stupid.

[TarHeelMan]

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That's quite unfair of you mood.

Everyone's gotta start somewhere. I'm pretty sure you didn't start macking straight from the womb.

A lot of times..boys need to face rejection. It does wonders for confidence.

We all have to start somewhere.

Word... Even when my sons grow older, I know for a fact they're gonna stumble out the gate. Simple reason being that most cats look down on knowledge that has been passed down. My pops used to drop pearls on me, and I was like "he's old school, that don't work today". How wrong I was. So I went my own way, got my ego fed to me, and realized the error of my ways. I already told my wife to stay out the conversation when it comes to me chopping up game with my sons, because she will invariably add some counsel (well intentioned as it may be) that will lead them down the path of the rest of the soft, weak, skinny jean wearing faux-men coming up today.

When I learned from the error of my ways and had my first taste of success with the female species, I felt invincible. Even if a female didn't want to kick it with me, my confidence was so strong that I looked at it as HER loss, not mine. "Oh you don't wanna kick it after class? OK cool, that's no problem. I'll see you next week. Be good"

[ProfessaPackMan]

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I agree that they have to start somewhere but there are people who have been complaining about the exact same thing for years and never stop to think that there's even a possibility that they are doing something wrong or that their expectations for who they can get are way too high. It's always on the woman being a bitch or stupid.

Very true.

It's a pride issue really, especially for us guys whether we admit it or not.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Word... Even when my sons grow older, I know for a fact they're gonna stumble out the gate. Simple reason being that most cats look down on knowledge that has been passed down. My pops used to drop pearls on me, and I was like "he's old school, that don't work today". How wrong I was. So I went my own way, got my ego fed to me, and realized the error of my ways. I already told my wife to stay out the conversation when it comes to me chopping up game with my sons, because she will invariably add some counsel (well intentioned as it may be) that will lead them down the path of the rest of the soft, weak, skinny jean wearing faux-men coming up today.

When I learned from the error of my ways and had my first taste of success with the female species, I felt invincible. Even if a female didn't want to kick it with me, my confidence was so strong that I looked at it as HER loss, not mine. "Oh you don't wanna kick it after class? OK cool, that's no problem. I'll see you next week. Be good"

I'd love to get your thoughts on this, man lol

[cjonesfan921]

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Word... Even when my sons grow older, I know for a fact they're gonna stumble out the gate. Simple reason being that most cats look down on knowledge that has been passed down. My pops used to drop pearls on me, and I was like "he's old school, that don't work today". How wrong I was. So I went my own way, got my ego fed to me, and realized the error of my ways. I already told my wife to stay out the conversation when it comes to me chopping up game with my sons, because she will invariably add some counsel (well intentioned as it may be) that will lead them down the path of the rest of the soft, weak, skinny jean wearing faux-men coming up today.

When I learned from the error of my ways and had my first taste of success with the female species, I felt invincible. Even if a female didn't want to kick it with me, my confidence was so strong that I looked at it as HER loss, not mine. "Oh you don't wanna kick it after class? OK cool, that's no problem. I'll see you next week. Be good"

SHOW US YOUR FACE!

[bigeastbumrush]

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I agree that they have to start somewhere but there are people who have been complaining about the exact same thing for years and never stop to think that there's even a possibility that they are doing something wrong or that their expectations for who they can get are way too high. It's always on the woman being a bitch or stupid.

Well that I can agree with. At some point...it's you.

If you're still getting turned down...whimpering in a corner about it and turn around and do the exact same thing with girl after girl..then it's you.