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I'm sorry man but that is just wrong. The whole "she is just lonely" thing is a cop out. EVERYONE hates being away from the people they love and care about but everyone does not run out and find someone to drown their sorrows "into".
Personally I couldn't be with a women like this. Sounds to me like she is a weak person. If you being gone for just 5 weeks is enough to "break" her will then she is far from a strong women in my eyes. She sounds extremely co-dependent and lacking in self confidence.Last edited by Phobia; 11-07-2012, 01:01 PM.Comment
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The Pizza guy, really? A complete ****ing stranger in the house with your kids?
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No offense, but some people are just weak, ungrateful individuals (I'm being nice here). Obviously, I don't know this girl, but given the stuff that she has admitted to I'd say she can't be trusted. Hell, if she'll admit to all of that, there's no telling what she's not coming clean about. There's no way I would want my kids around that.My 2K17 Boston Celtics MyLeague
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Ad on Craigslist, pizza delivery guy invite, messing with co-worker's/friends? ****ing triple crown...
At least she admitted it. It's better than just going off someone's word, although you had proof too.
Yeah I think she did you as dirty as possible and it hasn't even been that long. And for her to assume you'd be doing the same thing? Not everyone is an insecure, distrustful liar.
Drop this bitch. It's not even worth reconciling. And like the others have said, you have children together but I wouldn't want my kids around someone so impulsive...NHL - Philadelphia Flyers
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Sorry man.....but the divorce rate and adultery rate is sky high in the military. When I was in, we called it get a Jodie letter and people would yell out Jodie stole your girl and she is gone. It was rampant, people use to get those letters on a weekly basis.
And the most messed up part, you haven't even been gone that long. So if he she cheated on you already this fast, then she had it on her mind already for a long time and was just waiting for you to go away long enough. At this point I wouldn't put it past her that she was cheating on you before you even deployed.
Just focus on your job and just deal with it when you get back. Distractions on deployments get people killed.Comment
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Thanks everybody. Funny thing is she harped on me from the time we knew about the deployment about what I was or wasn't gonna do. She says she never had sex but I think it would have eventully happened had I not found out.
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I wouldn't trust that she is telling the truth about not having had sex. Again, sorry you've gotta deal w/ this while on a deployment... my only care now would be seeing that my kids are ok. Man, such a tough thing to be going through while deployed, truly sorry man.Originally posted by Edmund BurkeComment
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I'm sorry man. Stay strong and keep your mind busy. Focus on coming home safe.
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The military can bring family drama with deployments. I have seen some so called good women go down the wrong path because of deployments especially with younger couples.
I hope everything works out for you. It will and probably does hurt but it will make you stronger and things can get better. One thing I learned about life and relationships is that you can't be surprised by anything. Only thing you can do is handle your business and make sure you can function in life by yourself.
When you have your life in order, it's much easier to move on from tough things and realize you can do better. Tough situations can be a blessing down the road especially when something better comes along.
It's very ok to feel hurt but you can use it as motivation to succeed in many areas of your life. Good luck.Comment
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Of all the people, it was a pizza delivery guy. Sounds like a start to a bad porno. Pizza Passion
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I'm sorry your going through this man. I can't imagine how you're feeling. Wherever you're at I'm sure you have a chaplain and mental health experts there if you need to talk or need help in dealing with your current situation. I hope the next 7 1/2 months of your deployment goes well, and you can get home to talk care of what you need to take care of.Ohio State - Reds - Bengals - Blackhawks - BullsComment
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Haha, well man you seem to be taking it in stride and I'm not sure how long you've been in the military but this type of **** isn't uncommon. I am assuming you already have talked to someone in your chain of command regarding this issue? My personal advice at this point is to not worry so much about her as I would my kids and their well being until you get home. Sending her to your parents isn't going to deter her from doing whatever it is she wants to do and don't be one of these guys who get's persuaded somehow to "work it out".Comment
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I'm sorry to say this but **** that bitch. I would be having my attorney drawing up the divorce papers right now. Maybe she can get her license and get a job at Papa Johns.
And thank you so much for doing what you do. You deserve better than that.
Hope that wasn't too harsh.Last edited by PVarck31; 11-09-2012, 05:22 PM.Comment
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Halfway done. I can see my kids in 3 month
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