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  • Blzer
    Resident film pundit
    • Mar 2004
    • 42515

    #46
    Re: Life will never be the same

    Your dad was a beautiful man.

    Thanks for following up! Your approach with regard to openness will surely help you along the way. Overcoming this doesn't mean "forgetting," it just means "embracing." Remember the man that he was, and aspire as a result (as you sound like you will do).

    Rest in peace!!
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    • 12
      Banned
      • Feb 2010
      • 4458

      #47
      I fear that there will forever be a darkness in my life now. My dad was a bright shining light in my life, and that light has been put out. I know he will always be with me, but it is just so hard to imagine life without him.

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      • Bullit
        Bacon is Better
        • Aug 2009
        • 5004

        #48
        Re: Life will never be the same

        Originally posted by 12
        I fear that there will forever be a darkness in my life now. My dad was a bright shining light in my life, and that light has been put out. I know he will always be with me, but it is just so hard to imagine life without him.

        You will always miss him. Someday you will take a step forward, then another. Sadness will give way to good memories and life will move forward. It sucks but it is the way it is. Im here if you need anybody to talk to.
        In Loving memory of my "Cricket" 1/2/96 - 11/19/2012

        My heart and soul hurt for your lost presence in my life.

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        • 12
          Banned
          • Feb 2010
          • 4458

          #49
          Gonna get some ink done on the inside of my right forearm so that when I find myself sad, I can look down, turn my arm, and see these words:

          "It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived."

          George S. Patton

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          • bigfnjoe96
            Hall Of Fame
            • Feb 2004
            • 11410

            #50
            Condolences to you & your family in your time of need

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            • souljahbill
              Pro
              • May 2010
              • 717

              #51
              Originally posted by 12
              Gonna get some ink done on the inside of my right forearm so that when I find myself sad, I can look down, turn my arm, and see these words:

              "It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God that such men lived."

              George S. Patton
              Awesome quote and I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

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              • 12
                Banned
                • Feb 2010
                • 4458

                #52
                The one thing I am extremely grateful for is that I now do not believe my dad suffered. He ordered a gun the day he died... Who does that if they think their end is near?

                I have read a bit about the way he died... It seems like it was most likely painless for him. He died in an extremely rare way and he was spared with having to battle his lung cancer. He said in the past that if that ended up being his fate, he would not fight it... I think, knowing my dad, that when he prayed, he asked for the Lord to take him quickly... That is what happened. I don't want to get in TOS danger territory, but I know I will see my dad again.

                Having him go through long battle with cancer would have tore us apart. He knew that... It's still hard; I still can't really imagine how life is going to move forward, but of course I know it will. I just take comfort in knowing that my precious dad did not suffer.

                I worry about my mom a great deal - my dad was her soul mate. I hope she does not give up because we're still here; two sons, two daughters and eight grandchildren who love her. Her breaking point is coming soon and she has said some hurtful things to us, but I am trying my best to be patient and loving, because she deserves that.

                This is rough... But my dad would not want me to be sad for one more minute.

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                • Dog
                  aka jnes12/JNes__
                  • Aug 2008
                  • 11846

                  #53
                  Sorry to hear that, man. I lost my mom in January so I know what you're going through.
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                  • JazzMan
                    SOLDIER, First Class...
                    • Feb 2012
                    • 13547

                    #54
                    Re: Life will never be the same

                    Your father looked like a great man. I'm sure you're proud of him, and he is proud of you as well.

                    Stay strong, brother.
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                    • Heroesandvillains
                      MVP
                      • May 2009
                      • 5974

                      #55
                      Re: Life will never be the same

                      I just caught this thread.

                      12, I am so very sorry you and your family are going through this.

                      If you don't mind me asking, how have you been doing lately?
                      Last edited by Heroesandvillains; 04-23-2013, 08:35 PM.

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                      • NoDakHusker
                        Ice Cold
                        • Mar 2009
                        • 4348

                        #56
                        Re: Life will never be the same

                        I'm so sorry to hear this, 12. I'll be sure to keep you and your family in my prayers.
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