To the guys saying you would want to be there to protect her, stop shady guys, or anything else like that. You can't hide your women from the world guys, she will come in contact with shady guys all the time and guys who just wanna get her in bed. This is just a fact, guys pursue women. It is on her side to have a good head, protect herself with a good group of girl friends, and maintain a loyal relationship with their guy. This goes for a regular ol Monday at work all the way to a night out with their girl friends.
I know everyone's situation is different but me and my fiancé have been together 8 years and the one very positive side of our relationship is trust. She can go do whatever she likes, I trust her in making smart decisions and that loyalty is reciprocated when I can go do what I what with my guy friends and she won't trip about anything because she knows I'll never do nothing. I mean this girl gave me like 100 bucks in ones to bring my cousin and all my boys to the strip club for his bachelor party(it's a long story but his wife is one of those he looks just the direction of a girl and she flips out). I mean that's one tiny example and somewhat meaningless it just that so many couple struggle with straight up trust.
If you don't fully trust one another that **** will never be a relationship as good as it could have been. The worry free nature I feel with my girl is something I've never felt before and I'm someone who has been burnt bad by past shady girls so I could have every excuse in the world to have trust issues, but when you with someone you truly trust it just come natural.
The girl I had right before my soon to be wife took everything I had and I mean that literally. I came home from a fishing trip in south Texas and when I walked inside my house the only thing left was couple spoons and a roll of toilet paper. She even took my car. Come to find out she was cheating on me with a news paper editor in my town (I laid his *** out). But I picked myself up, dusted myself off and moved on with my life.
Long *** story short, don't let past experiences taint future ones with trust issues. Trust until they do something to screw that up then move on. It's much less stressful relationship wise!
Sent from da lil phone.
I know everyone's situation is different but me and my fiancé have been together 8 years and the one very positive side of our relationship is trust. She can go do whatever she likes, I trust her in making smart decisions and that loyalty is reciprocated when I can go do what I what with my guy friends and she won't trip about anything because she knows I'll never do nothing. I mean this girl gave me like 100 bucks in ones to bring my cousin and all my boys to the strip club for his bachelor party(it's a long story but his wife is one of those he looks just the direction of a girl and she flips out). I mean that's one tiny example and somewhat meaningless it just that so many couple struggle with straight up trust.
If you don't fully trust one another that **** will never be a relationship as good as it could have been. The worry free nature I feel with my girl is something I've never felt before and I'm someone who has been burnt bad by past shady girls so I could have every excuse in the world to have trust issues, but when you with someone you truly trust it just come natural.
The girl I had right before my soon to be wife took everything I had and I mean that literally. I came home from a fishing trip in south Texas and when I walked inside my house the only thing left was couple spoons and a roll of toilet paper. She even took my car. Come to find out she was cheating on me with a news paper editor in my town (I laid his *** out). But I picked myself up, dusted myself off and moved on with my life.
Long *** story short, don't let past experiences taint future ones with trust issues. Trust until they do something to screw that up then move on. It's much less stressful relationship wise!
Sent from da lil phone.
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