Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

[Brandwin]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Friends with benefits didn't even cross my mind. I kept thinking F buddy and couldn't figure out what the w was for. Lol


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[Feared]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Friends with benefits didn't even cross my mind. I kept thinking F buddy and couldn't figure out what the w was for. Lol


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They're pretty much one in the same anyway.

[GAMEC0CK2002]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

They're pretty much one in the same anyway.

One is a more "discreet" way of putting it.

[mgoblue]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

One is a more "discreet" way of putting it.

Lol yes. There are people who are fine with being "friends with benefits" but would never be a "f buddy"...All in personal rationalization.

[Phobia]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

I feel this is the most silly conversation lol.

First, I've been with all shapes, races, and types meaning personalities. All have their place. It boils down to literally two things "DO YOU LIKE HER" and "Is she relationship material". If both of those are yes then you make a go at it. I don't understand the whole it has to fit in a certain mold to work for me.

I've dated couple girls that were small model types and couple big girls, plus different color chicks. It never came down in my mind of "what will so and so think". At the end of the day the only thing I give a **** about is how do I feel about it.

On a side note, no matter their size all women are crazy to a extent lol

Messed with this chick for a short while and she was certifiable nuts

Spoiler

But I'll be getting happily married to this girl in under 2 months and she is damn near amazing in every way. Fantastic human being.(sorry at work don't have any pictures on this PC really)

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My point is that it doesn't matter if the girl is a dime piece and you get to show her off to all your boys, if at the end of the day when you spend time with her she makes you miserable then what is the point! Just because she looks good???? Naw that will end everytime. Personalty wins every single time, because like the saying goes. It doesn't matter how fine she is, there is some guy who is tired of putting up with her ****. Find one you love being around and are also attracted to physically and then the rest does itself, BUT the last thing to do is let your pride get in the way and dictate who you going to end up with because you are afraid what "other" people will think. Be true to yourself and man enough to do what you want to do, not what you expect others to want.

[TheNumber35]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

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Well said, very well said. Pretty much summed up everything I could have added to the conversation at this point

[AC]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Awesome post.

To actually add to the conversation, I saw a girl who was maybe a half a touch chubby but was still really beautiful, and it really doesn't matter. Like Phobia so well put, it boils down to if you like her and if you two are compatible.

[GAMEC0CK2002]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

I feel this is the most silly conversation lol.

First, I've been with all shapes, races, and types meaning personalities. All have their place. It boils down to literally two things "DO YOU LIKE HER" and "Is she relationship material". If both of those are yes then you make a go at it. I don't understand the whole it has to fit in a certain mold to work for me.

I've dated couple girls that were small model types and couple big girls, plus different color chicks. It never came down in my mind of "what will so and so think". At the end of the day the only thing I give a **** about is how do I feel about it.

On a side note, no matter their size all women are crazy to a extent lol

Messed with this chick for a short while and she was certifiable nuts

Spoiler

But I'll be getting happily married to this girl in under 2 months and she is damn near amazing in every way. Fantastic human being.(sorry at work don't have any pictures on this PC really)


My point is that it doesn't matter if the girl is a dime piece and you get to show her off to all your boys, if at the end of the day when you spend time with her she makes you miserable then what is the point! Just because she looks good???? Naw that will end everytime. Personalty wins every single time, because like the saying goes. It doesn't matter how fine she is, there is some guy who is tired of putting up with her ****. Find one you love being around and are also attracted to physically and then the rest does itself, BUT the last thing to do is let your pride get in the way and dictate who you going to end up with because you are afraid what "other" people will think. Be true to yourself and man enough to do what you want to do, not what you expect others to want.

Great post, especially the last part I put in bold.

[KingV2k3]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Great post, especially the last part I put in bold.

Phobia rocked it, as per his usual...



That being said, I would appreciate the digits for the nut bag...

She HOTT!

[Phobia]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Phobia rocked it, as per his usual...



That being said, I would appreciate the digits for the nut bag...

She HOTT!

Lol she is hot. I learned after dating couple really hot girls that most of them got some underlining issues though. I went through a two year span where I only would mess with really attractive girls, the problem was that two year stretch had to be the most drama filled time period in my life. Most are superficial in someway whether it is looks, money, or possessions. Couple with daddy issues, center of attention issues, or some form of just lack of being a good person.

I eventually stopped looking for a particular type and started just letting life flow without this constant on alert mind frame of always looking for the next piece. It then just naturally led to couple good down to earth girls. All of them did not work out but it was what I consider a much more "normal" routine of dating.

Then I met my soon to be wife, fast forward 8 years later and I'm happier than ever.

Now I'm not saying you can't find a extremely hot girl who is also down to earth and a good person. The problem comes that they are just a lot more rare than that girl next door cutie who might not turn the whole bars heads but is the kinda of person you can spend a long happy marriage with. This is why I truly believe personality is far far far the most important attribute in finding someone.

Two posts later my long *** point to the OP is just be you and look for what you find attractive, then narrow that down to one with good values and morals. As my fellow Louisiana duck hunters would say, that equals to "Happy Happy Happy!"


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[NDAlum]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Man stop generalizing all skinny/hot/ugly/fat/and everything in between girls

It just depends on the girl

[Phobia]

Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Man stop generalizing all skinny/hot/ugly/fat/and everything in between girls

It just depends on the girl

Exactly it's a generalization not fact AND it does depend on the girl. You sir are correct, but just like cliches there is some truth behind them.

Sent from da lil phone.

[psychraider32]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Just FYI so far it's going well with this girl. There is a lot I like about her.

[GAMEC0CK2002]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Just FYI so far it's going well with this girl. There is a lot I like about her.

You do realize your face is going to be on the back of a milk carton if she ever finds this thread? Just sayin....

[PVarck31]

Re: Have you ever been with a bigger girl?

Just FYI so far it's going well with this girl. There is a lot I like about her.

Are you making these puns intentionally? You have to be. lol

Oh, by the way. My wife is a bigger girl. Hourglass shape with a butt and boobs! Beautiful face and I wouldn't trade her for a model plus a million bucks.