I am 41 now and been on my own for a long time, enjoy it. Not married..no kids i'm happy. I live in an apartment now and they are going up on the rent big time. Much more than it's worth to be honest. I have a 97 Saturn and I keep it in good condition...have 2 student loans, one mine and the other my biological was supposed to pay..lied to my mom and step father and got them to put their names on it. He passed a couple years ago and I can't let my parents pay on it. I have a place right now set to move early Dec just haven't paid the deposit and first months rent.
Found out my grandmothers' rent is also going up, my parents and a few of her kids help pay the rent...my parents can't help as much because my father (actually step father) lost his job and isn't making the money he was. Drives a school bus now. Basically they were talking to her after they found out her rent was going up and she said she likes living there and would hate move out...mentioned that she was hoping I would move in. Told her a couple weeks ago that I may be moving.
My mother told me and at first I was like hell nah...but thinking about it she lives in a 3 bedroom house by herself..she gets around good and is out a lot. There are family members that pop up mostly on Sunday that may get on my nerves but I could just chill in my room. The crazy thing that pisses me off is I have a cousin that just retired from long NFL career and I don't think my grandmother should be in this position. Don't have to do anything for me or his other cousins but at least help out the women that helped you and your mother out...but thats a whole other story. So am I crazy for thinking about it? Stay to myself? I'll do anything I can for my parents, brother niece and grandmother without a doubt....me, my brother and one of my cousins give her money and take her shopping a lot...thoughts?
Found out my grandmothers' rent is also going up, my parents and a few of her kids help pay the rent...my parents can't help as much because my father (actually step father) lost his job and isn't making the money he was. Drives a school bus now. Basically they were talking to her after they found out her rent was going up and she said she likes living there and would hate move out...mentioned that she was hoping I would move in. Told her a couple weeks ago that I may be moving.
My mother told me and at first I was like hell nah...but thinking about it she lives in a 3 bedroom house by herself..she gets around good and is out a lot. There are family members that pop up mostly on Sunday that may get on my nerves but I could just chill in my room. The crazy thing that pisses me off is I have a cousin that just retired from long NFL career and I don't think my grandmother should be in this position. Don't have to do anything for me or his other cousins but at least help out the women that helped you and your mother out...but thats a whole other story. So am I crazy for thinking about it? Stay to myself? I'll do anything I can for my parents, brother niece and grandmother without a doubt....me, my brother and one of my cousins give her money and take her shopping a lot...thoughts?
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