Making her feel speical?

[MVP23]

How do you keep your woman happy? Making her feel special? What do you do to keep it that way?


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[nemesis04]

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They are never happy and you are always wrong and that is on a good day!

[Gotmadskillzson]

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There is no one size fits all answer to this, every woman is different. Only you would know what she likes and values in life.

[fishepa]

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I know one thing, if momma ain't happy no ones happy.


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[JazzMan]

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This thread is just asking for sexual innuendo.

[cavsfan2]

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By reminding her that she is with a special man. Works like a charm lol

[fistofrage]

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They are never happy and you are always wrong and that is on a good day!

This is true....I remember turning to my wife one day when she was in a bad mood and saying I'm going golfing and turning my phone off. She was like, you can't be serious. I'm dead serious, no matter what we do, you are going to be all bent out of shape, so I'm going to do what I want to do, at least one of us will be happy.

You can do stuff on a day by day basis that will make them feel good, but for the most part they are always ticked off about something. I guess if you gave them a 2 hour massage and cooked them dinner and bought them flowers every day, you might be alright, but who's got the time, patience, money or energy to do that?

One word of advice, never let them see you in all your glory with your friends laughing and having the time of your life, because eventually they will say "Why aren't you ever that happy when you are with me?" At that point you'll have nothing to come back with.

This might be shocking to the young guys, but trust me, everyone I've been around feels about the same way after being married for years. Doesn't mean I don't want to be married or would trade my family life in for anything, its just the way it is.

[dingleberryfinn]

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I let her make me breakfast every morning.
I let her do my laundry & wash the dishes & mow the lawn
& chop the kindling & clean the fish.
She knows she's special 'cause I don't let just anybody else do those things for me.

[DJ]

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There is no one size fits all answer to this, every woman is different. Only you would know what she likes and values in life.

Very true.

A few things to keep in mind:

-Don't hog the main TV. Yes, we want to watch sports 24/7 but your wife probably doesn't. If she wants to watch The Bachelor for 2 hours, let her. Retreat to the man cave or another room with a TV and play video games or watch sports there.

-Try to be fair in movie selections. Yes, you'll have to suck it up and go to a romantic comedy or two. Don't complain about the horrible plot or predictable ending. Just watch and let it go. That way, when you take her to see The Expendables 3, she won't completely hate you.

-Flowers and/or a card on a random Tuesday never hurt. Do this 2-3 times a year and that will go a long way.

[Phobia]

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Honestly, all I have to do is show that I'm mildly interested in things that make her happy. Plus of course treat her as if she is the most important person in my life. Easy and its a wrap.

[Clemsonpanther]

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Well start by spelling special correctly

[Steven78]

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After many failed and ended relationships I told myself I was done.

I was done trying to make someone else happy in spite of my own happiness. I was done trying to do every little thing she wanted and the way she wanted so she would be happy. I was done canceling plans with my bro or not hanging with friends just to hang out with her. I was done with all that BS. Basically, I told myself I was gonna do "me" and make myself happy and if I find someone that's cool, if not, I rather be alone than be miserable. Bottom line, I just started to not give a S$&t any more.

So, I ended up finding my girl and we are engaged and she actually lets me do "me" and doesnt care who I am with or how long I stay out or if I watch 12 hours of football on Sunday and couldnt be happier.

Dont get me wrong we still have "date night" and do things together but I finally met a girl that realizes that each of us having our own space and alone time is really beneficial to the long term prospects of the relationship.

If you have to ask what makes your girl happy, then maybe you should just focus on you and get out. Sounds like you already started.

[Melbournelad]

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Man some of the posts in this thread are pretty depressing. Anyone got a girl/wife who is actually still happy after a number of years?

[PadresFan]

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Man some of the posts in this thread are pretty depressing. Anyone got a girl/wife who is actually still happy after a number of years?

I do. I have known my wife for 7 years now... Married 4 years already. Over the years, I have realized it is little things that mean a lot to her...

Examples: I go to Starbucks for her before she leaves for work, drop off coffee or breakfast to her at work, meet her for lunch, send her flowers just because...

Just saying I love her, proud of her, etc. means a lot to her and goes a long way...

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[Mabster]

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There is no one size fits all answer to this, every woman is different. Only you would know what she likes and values in life.

Maybe, that's why the OP asked how do you keep your women happy. Asking how to keep all women happy would be asinine.

My best way is random acts of kindness.

Wash her car for her while she's taking forever to get ready. Get something for one of her pets (showing love to the things she loves melts her). Make that one dinner or breakfast that's a pain in the *** that she loves so much. Screw valentine's day. Give her roses in July. Pop a spa package on her in October.

These mean more to mine then going all out on February 14th when you're "supposed to".