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  • NDAlum
    ND
    • Jun 2010
    • 11453

    #16
    Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

    Originally posted by longshadow11
    I'm not sure what I said for the 27 year old to become "Variety Girl" or for her to be someone who has done everyone else. She is aggressive because she feels she is in competition with other women. I actually talked to her about it and told her she needed to dial it back a bit. She was embarrassed and said she just wanted to get my attention. I by no means buy that I'm special, but she just got out of an 8 year relationship and said she did what she sees her other friends doing to get men's attention. She turned out to be very nice and owns her own business. We talk some and are friends. She wants more, but I'm going slowly and am not ready for a relationship. I'm happy she pursued me; she's a sweet girl, just a little misguided.

    As for the woman who is my age, she is locked in where she lives for years due to court orders, and I am stuck living in my town for the same reasons. I don't see how we could ever have anything. A ten year long distance relationship wouldn't work. She's a great lady, but I don't see how we could make even dating work. Too much distance.
    You didn't even mention the distance in your original post, which is not a small oversight.

    I might get flamed: but this sounds like a humble brag thread to me. Hey the young girl is probably boosting the ego. Good for you.
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    • mgoblue
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      • Jul 2002
      • 25477

      #17
      Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

      Originally posted by NDAlum
      You didn't even mention the distance in your original post, which is not a small oversight.

      I might get flamed: but this sounds like a humble brag thread to me. Hey the young girl is probably boosting the ego. Good for you.
      Yeah, if we knew that originally then this isn't even a question...i dunno
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      • 55
        Banned
        • Mar 2006
        • 20857

        #18
        Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

        Originally posted by NDAlum
        I might get flamed: but this sounds like a humble brag thread to me.
        I'm sensing a pattern here. There's a little bit of an Evan 2.0 thing going on here if you do a bit of investigating.

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        • wwharton
          *ll St*r
          • Aug 2002
          • 26949

          #19
          Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

          Originally posted by mgoblue
          Good points, but not all mature...so depending on what you're looking for you may end up with a whole bag of crazy too...

          Depends what he wants...if he wants someone to date and have a real relationship, then young one might not be the best option....

          She might be the most fun though. If that's his thing.
          Very true. I just don't like bashing people for living life in ways that may not jive with everyone... especially when "judging" women. Nobody thumbs their nose at a "variety" guy.

          Originally posted by daflyboys
          The minute he posted his original question, this became a discussion/argument/debate or whatever other term you want to put in there about this very matter. You can argue with my values all you want and I'll be prepared to debate back. But don't tell me not to present my points in a forum where for which points and justifications are asked. The moment someone posts a point, it's fair game for discussion.

          Yes, the bottom line is that his decision is something he can live with and not based on what other people say, because they can only base it on their values.
          Quite the opposite. I am NOT arguing your values. But in your post you've thrown out the assumption that the young girl had sex with a lot of people, then ran with that assumption to judge her and what it means for a guy to have sex with her.

          I don't agree with painting anyone (especially women) in a negative light like that, starting with the assumption and then even more with the judgement even if that assumption is true. If this is the point you're presenting, then my discussion of it is fair game as you stated.

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          • longshadow11
            Pro
            • Mar 2004
            • 901

            #20
            Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

            Haha, yeah, probably some bragging on my part. Funny thing is, the younger lady realized I wasn't down for a quick hookup, and she likes that. Maybe she is what someone might consider easy, but she's also a sweet girl. I don't know if she's easy or not; she did say she felt like she had to keep up with what the rest of the women do to get attention. So I guess I messed the chance up for an easy score, but I decided she was worth more than that. One thing is certain, both ladies bring some serious baggage. But I do too, so I can't complain too much.

            I've enjoyed some of the posts here, a few had me laughing pretty hard. I don't take myself too seriously and I am open to you guys giving me hell for my bragging.

            As for a "question", I didn't ask one. I think I was mostly just bragging. My ego has been beat to hell lo these many years. I accept being a bit of a jackass.
            Last edited by longshadow11; 09-29-2015, 06:37 PM.

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            • kehlis
              Moderator
              • Jul 2008
              • 27738

              #21
              Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

              As adults we're still using the term "easy score?"

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              • PVarck31
                Moderator
                • Jan 2003
                • 16869

                #22
                Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                Originally posted by kehlis
                As adults we're still using the term "easy score?"
                And "variety girl?" I've never even heard that term.

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                • Cusefan
                  Earlwolfx on XBL
                  • Oct 2003
                  • 9820

                  #23
                  Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                  As a friend of a 33 year old single man slaying his way across Syracuse, he uses the term "slam dunk" a lot. I guess it is fitting because every now and then you miss and it is hysterical every time.
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                  • Phobia
                    Hall Of Fame
                    • Jan 2008
                    • 11623

                    #24
                    Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                    Is there an "adult" way of saying it? I can think of several other ways but none fit for OS. Hell get a bunch of guys together talking about the hot girl over there and im sure "easy score" is on the mild end lol


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                    • longshadow11
                      Pro
                      • Mar 2004
                      • 901

                      #25
                      Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                      Originally posted by Cusefan
                      As a friend of a 33 year old single man slaying his way across Syracuse, he uses the term "slam dunk" a lot. I guess it is fitting because every now and then you miss and it is hysterical every time.
                      Exactly. And I was thinking I had two on the line and was gonna mess it up at any moment, because I literally could not keep up with both conversations. I was distracted by a football game and checking my Fanduel scores.

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                      • dickey1331
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                        • Sep 2009
                        • 14285

                        #26
                        Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                        Originally posted by PVarck31
                        And "variety girl?" I've never even heard that term.

                        Yeah I never heard of variety girl until now.
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                        • HealyMonster
                          Titans Era has begun.
                          • Aug 2002
                          • 5992

                          #27
                          Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                          A nice Christian lady is locked at her residence for 10 years due to a court order? What church she go to, might have to hit it up sometime to get jiggly with it.

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                          • PVarck31
                            Moderator
                            • Jan 2003
                            • 16869

                            #28
                            Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                            Originally posted by HealyMonster
                            A nice Christian lady is locked at her residence for 10 years due to a court order? What church she go to, might have to hit it up sometime to get jiggly with it.

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                            Jiggly? I've heard Jiggy. But not Jiggly. Am I that out of touch or something?

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                            • redsox4evur
                              Hall Of Fame
                              • Jul 2013
                              • 18169

                              #29
                              Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                              Originally posted by PVarck31
                              Jiggly? I've heard Jiggy. But not Jiggly. Am I that out of touch or something?
                              If you are, I am right there with you...LOL.
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                              • HealyMonster
                                Titans Era has begun.
                                • Aug 2002
                                • 5992

                                #30
                                Re: Single life in today's world is CRAZY!

                                Originally posted by PVarck31
                                Jiggly? I've heard Jiggy. But not Jiggly. Am I that out of touch or something?
                                Originally posted by redsox4evur
                                If you are, I am right there with you...LOL.
                                Lol didn't catch that, apple doesn't know how to get jiggy with it I assume. But hey, I'd get jiggly with it too at that church

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