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SidVish · 01-09-2010, 11:27 AM

Damn that's heavy and took a lot of guts to post. The best advice I can give you is to be there for your girls.

KingV2k3 · 01-09-2010, 11:33 AM

As a fellow 'survivor' of some pretty nasty sh*t, I highly reccomend some professional counciling.

Between the grief, and possible PTSD, you'll need the help and perspective of someone who can help you figure out how to come to grips with your wife's obvious behavioral issues.

In most areas, there are places where you can go that bill on a sliding scale.

Find strength in your relationships with your daughters, family and friends.

She may have left, but you are not alone.

GAMEC0CK2002 · 01-09-2010, 11:33 AM

Wow man. You're in my thoughts. People, even those we love, can do some strange things. Can't imagine what you're going through. Hang in there.

Do you have someone you can talk to? A best friend or counselor perhaps? Keeping those emotions bottled up is never a good thing.

CMH · 01-09-2010, 11:50 AM

Most important thing is you and your daughters at this point.

Lots of good advice here. Make sure you're strong because your daughters will need you.

BurghFan · 01-09-2010, 11:55 AM

Wow man, that's really awful and the fact that she pulled it right before Christmas . . Like others have said, hang in there and stay strong for your daughters. Also, Like King said, some counseling would probably be a good idea especially for your 15 year old since she seems to be taking it pretty hard.

01-09-2010, 12:33 PM

This sucks man. I hope things get better for you and you come back with a post about it.

Whitesox · 01-09-2010, 12:46 PM

That's really rough, you're in my thoughts. I wish I could help more, but that's all I can offer.

sb24 · 01-09-2010, 12:51 PM

As a few have said as hard as it is on you, its hard on your daughters as well. Focus on them and take things one step at a time. Sorry to hear everything and you will be in my thoughts.

01-09-2010, 11:33 AM	#18
KingV2k3 Senior Circuit OVR: 21 Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 5,893 Blog Entries: 8	Re: Wife left me for another man As a fellow 'survivor' of some pretty nasty sh*t, I highly reccomend some professional counciling. Between the grief, and possible PTSD, you'll need the help and perspective of someone who can help you figure out how to come to grips with your wife's obvious behavioral issues. In most areas, there are places where you can go that bill on a sliding scale. Find strength in your relationships with your daughters, family and friends. She may have left, but you are not alone.

01-09-2010, 11:33 AM	#19
GAMEC0CK2002 Stayin Alive OVR: 23 Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: SC Posts: 10,387 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Wife left me for another man Wow man. You're in my thoughts. People, even those we love, can do some strange things. Can't imagine what you're going through. Hang in there. Do you have someone you can talk to? A best friend or counselor perhaps? Keeping those emotions bottled up is never a good thing.

01-09-2010, 11:50 AM	#20
CMH Making you famous OVR: 46 Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Ormond Beach, FL Posts: 26,235 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Wife left me for another man Most important thing is you and your daughters at this point. Lots of good advice here. Make sure you're strong because your daughters will need you. __________________ "It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace "You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob Neyer

01-09-2010, 11:55 AM	#21
BurghFan #BurghProud OVR: 34 Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 10,087 Blog Entries: 2	Re: Wife left me for another man Wow man, that's really awful and the fact that she pulled it right before Christmas . . Like others have said, hang in there and stay strong for your daughters. Also, Like King said, some counseling would probably be a good idea especially for your 15 year old since she seems to be taking it pretty hard.

01-09-2010, 12:33 PM	#22
stewaat Guest OVR:	Re: Wife left me for another man This sucks man. I hope things get better for you and you come back with a post about it.

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01-09-2010, 12:46 PM	#23
Whitesox Closet pyromaniac OVR: 38 Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,292 Blog Entries: 4	Re: Wife left me for another man That's really rough, you're in my thoughts. I wish I could help more, but that's all I can offer. __________________ My guide to MLB: The show Making the Show Guide

01-09-2010, 12:51 PM	#24
sb24 MVP OVR: 28 Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 3,181 Blog Entries: 2	Re: Wife left me for another man As a few have said as hard as it is on you, its hard on your daughters as well. Focus on them and take things one step at a time. Sorry to hear everything and you will be in my thoughts.

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