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  • TarHeelMan
    Th* H*mb*rg*r P*mp
    • Jul 2002
    • 7853

    #76
    Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

    LOL... No stories here... A cat posted a link about the Ladder theory awhile ago on another female related thread... I found it an entertaining and fascinating read....


    http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

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    • pk500
      All Star
      • Jul 2002
      • 8062

      #77
      Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

      Originally posted by shugknight
      I'm really digging my friend, Caroline. We went out tonight, as friends, for another friends bday, and she and I have comfortably gotten closer. I'm not sure if I'm really ready to pursue another relationship. But I'm not thinking that far ahead in teh future.
      And that's the perfect way to think right now. Enjoy your friendship with Caroline and see where it goes. Don't push it at all and see if anything develops.

      My wife was just a buddy while I was dating my ex-girlfriend, and she and I stayed buddies for another five months after the infamous Valentine's Day breakup before we started going out seriously.

      If you're not friends first with your mate, then it's not going anywhere. Concentrate on being a great friend to Caroline, and you never know what might happen!

      Take care,
      PK
      Xbox Live: pk4425

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      • Brandwin
        Hall Of Fame
        • Jul 2002
        • 30621

        #78
        Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

        Just read the whole thread, sorry to hear that EspecialK...keep your head up man.


        Shug, at least you found out before she actually did it. Pretty sorry way to find out, but at least she had not yet done anything behind your back (although if he would of stayed that night they would of). Any idea who sent you their email? At least someone was looking out for you.

        Its hard, but F' it...have fun with your friend and like PK said, dont push anything, let it play out on its own.

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        • GAMEC0CK2002
          Stayin Alive
          • Aug 2002
          • 10384

          #79
          Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

          Shug, hang in there man. Everything happens for a reason. Definitely better that you found out now than later down the road. Sounds like you've found a good friend in Caroline. Just take it easy and enjoy the ride. Better times are ahead.

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          • GAMEC0CK2002
            Stayin Alive
            • Aug 2002
            • 10384

            #80
            Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

            Update on what I got:
            Pair of V-day boxers (GF forgot to put them in my gift bag)

            And I bought a V-day cake for dessert that night, but we were too stuffed from dinner to eat any.

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            • Graphik
              Pr*s*n*r#70460649
              • Oct 2002
              • 10582

              #81
              Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

              Originally posted by TarHeelMan
              LOL... No stories here... A cat posted a link about the Ladder theory awhile ago on another female related thread... I found it an entertaining and fascinating read....


              http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

              I need to check this out. I was talking to this chick yesterday and she hit me with the "most of my friends are guys" line. Thats instantly a red flag in my book already. This post came just in time.
              http://neverfollow.biz (Independent Music Group)

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              • Graphik
                Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                • Oct 2002
                • 10582

                #82
                Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                Originally posted by TarHeelMan
                LOL... No stories here... A cat posted a link about the Ladder theory awhile ago on another female related thread... I found it an entertaining and fascinating read....


                http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html


                LOL, this was a great read. I used to be a cuddle bitch back in the day with this one chick. Thinking back on it, now I feel like ****.

                Anyway, I find most of it to be true. Good words to live by and also how to find out your place with a female. I think magicbuckssoxfan needs to check it out.
                http://neverfollow.biz (Independent Music Group)

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                • TarHeelMan
                  Th* H*mb*rg*r P*mp
                  • Jul 2002
                  • 7853

                  #83
                  Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                  It was posted awhile ago on the thread where we were talking about Lindsay Lohan thinking that black dudes were in love with her.... It was great... I, too, used to be a "friend" when I saw that I wasn't getting anywhere... A little disinterest here, purposely vague conversation there, and the next thing I know, I'm where I always wanted to be... It's a funny and well put together piece, but it really has an element of truth... I'm gonna print it out and give them to my sons as kind of a "Playa's Guidebook".

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                  • Graphik
                    Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                    • Oct 2002
                    • 10582

                    #84
                    Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                    Originally posted by TarHeelMan
                    It was posted awhile ago on the thread where we were talking about Lindsay Lohan thinking that black dudes were in love with her.... It was great... I, too, used to be a "friend" when I saw that I wasn't getting anywhere... A little disinterest here, purposely vague conversation there, and the next thing I know, I'm where I always wanted to be... It's a funny and well put together piece, but it really has an element of truth... I'm gonna print it out and give them to my sons as kind of a "Playa's Guidebook".

                    The best part is knowing which ladder you're on with a female. Who would of known they used two. I always hang out with this chick at work and while she does'nt call me sweet or nice or refer to me as her friend, she'll say stuff like "I like talking to you" or "you're really sincere". I always though I was still in the batters box, turns out I'm actually still in the dugout.

                    That cuddle bitch part had me dying. When I was 17, It was this 16 year old girl that lived right upstairs from me in my moms 2 flat. She was dating this thug dude with 2 baby momas and had a history of beating on females. While he was out selling drugs, I was spooning his chick in the hallway thinking I was getting somewhere. We did all sorts of intimate stuff besides actually doing the do. I'd be groping, she's be laying all on top or sitting on my lap. Her boyfriend would pop up all the time and see me with her and he thought nothing of it. I guess she already told him that we friends and whatnot.....

                    ......now, almost 10 years later, I find out that I was nothing but a cuddle bitch. Oh well, at least she gave me enough physical material for some of the best wet dreams a kid could have. LOL

                    Wait...theres a happy ending to this. She eventually got pregnant by the thug and she was now his 3rd baby moms. (Who did'nt see that one coming) She left the neirborhood and moved back with her grandma. Well, some years later. It turned out she had the same job I had and we'd see eachother at the courthouse all the time. We started hanging out more and to make a long story short. Got the digits........Grand Slam.

                    So I guess my time as a cuddle bitch payed off.
                    http://neverfollow.biz (Independent Music Group)

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                    • GAMEC0CK2002
                      Stayin Alive
                      • Aug 2002
                      • 10384

                      #85
                      Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                      ahhhh, the Lohan thread. That was a classic. That's where i first read the Ladder theory. Nice read, but it obviously doesn't apply to every girl and every situation. Does have some truth to it, though. Just like a psychic....for entertainment purposes only.

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                      • shugknight
                        MVP
                        • Oct 2004
                        • 4585

                        #86
                        Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                        First and Foremost, the ladder theory is hilarious! I'm not done reading it yet, but from what I've read its pretty true and I was oblivious to not see this coming to me.

                        As for everybody with their regards, thanks. I'm doing 10x better and whats even funnier is that shes going crazy. Calling and texting me every minute. Sayin that she still loves me and she doenst want to lose me this way. Im about thisclose to changing my number. But I like leaving her *** out in the cold. She deserves to be treated like a dog for what she intended on doing.

                        Caroline is a cool chick, so I'm hoping to keep it that way. We were close before, but before anything could happen between us, I would find some girl I would lust over and hook up with em, which lead to nothing ever happening between us (Caroline and I). I'm takin all y'all advices and just not thinking about the situation. I'm playin the field, but at the same time only looking for a "pinch-hitter".

                        JBubs, I knew that this was something I should have been aware of. I feel really stupid for not even realizing that a girl that has guy friends, are never just friends. Shes not italian, but she is hispanic, which should have been a bigger tip that I shouldve ran away. But live and learn right?

                        Dookie, Not sure who sent the email. I'm thinkin its the prick that she was talkin to. Figure he wanted more, and she wouldnt do anything unless I was out of the picture. I guess I should thank him, he saved me some $$$.

                        Tarheelman, thanks for the guide. Or at least thanks for posting the link. I'm gonna send this to all my friends, and hope they can learn something from this.

                        So thanks again PK, GC, and everybody else that gave me their input. If anything happens, ill be sure to let you guys know.

                        Forget bein the cuddle bitch!! I'm lookin for the benefits!

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                        • TarHeelMan
                          Th* H*mb*rg*r P*mp
                          • Jul 2002
                          • 7853

                          #87
                          Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                          Originally posted by shugknight
                          As for everybody with their regards, thanks. I'm doing 10x better and whats even funnier is that shes going crazy. Calling and texting me every minute. Sayin that she still loves me and she doenst want to lose me this way. Im about thisclose to changing my number. But I like leaving her *** out in the cold. She deserves to be treated like a dog for what she intended on doing.
                          That's good to hear... You should play that famous Lou Rawls (pour out a little liquor for our departed brotha...) song "You'll Never Find (Another Love Like Mine)"... Or better yet, one of my personal break-up favorites, Teddy Pendergrass' "I Don't Love You Anymore"... Don't take her back under any circumstances; she's already shown you her true colors... Even if she starts talking that "I can change" ish, you can ask her why is it that it takes losing you for her to decide to straighten up her act....

                          Forget bein the cuddle bitch!! I'm lookin for the benefits!
                          shugknight: the return of the mack

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                          • pk500
                            All Star
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 8062

                            #88
                            Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                            Originally posted by shugknight
                            As for everybody with their regards, thanks. I'm doing 10x better and whats even funnier is that shes going crazy. Calling and texting me every minute. Sayin that she still loves me and she doenst want to lose me this way. Im about thisclose to changing my number. But I like leaving her *** out in the cold. She deserves to be treated like a dog for what she intended on doing.
                            Yep, don't go back to her. Don't even be "friends" with her. When you break up with someone, it should be final. I never understood guys who broke up with a girl and "stayed friends."

                            If you're "friends," then why the hell did you break up? Isn't friendship at the core of any successful relationship?

                            Cut the string with that b*tch. Be strong!

                            Take care,
                            PK
                            Xbox Live: pk4425

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                            • Gilateen
                              Banned
                              • Oct 2002
                              • 2855

                              #89
                              Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                              Bit of advice:

                              Any woman that calls you everything under the sun except your name you better watch out for.

                              They only do that so they wont mess up and call you the wrong name. So dont think that she's so nice and stuff cuz she calls you "Baby", "Boo", "Honey" or "Sweetie"...thats all "Trick Talk" with you being the Trick.

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                              • PdiddyPop
                                K*ngs *f th* D*nc*!
                                • Dec 2002
                                • 21768

                                #90
                                Re: Valentines recap: Whatcha gave? Whatcha got?

                                Gave: Rose, Mug with a I love you frog in it, card, and took her to see Curious George Movie


                                Got: JJ Redick Jersey
                                President of the Devils Den
                                (2009 Pre-Season NIT Champs/2010 ACC Co Reg Season/ACC Tournament/South Regional Champs/National Champs)

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