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  • Scottdau
    Banned
    • Feb 2003
    • 32580

    #31
    Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

    Originally posted by aiahopeful
    Quite frankly if my wife of 13 years said something like that to me out of the blue, I wouldn't be so sure I would want to rekindle the relationship. My parents got divorced when I was about the same age as your daughter but they both handled it much differently than your wife did. My only advice is to sit down and think about what relationship if any you want to continue to have with your wife, and how you can give your daughter the best life she can have. Good Luck


    I hear what you are saying but if you base your marriage off that stuff! You might have 5 or 6 marriages by the time you are done! lol

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    • FISH
      MVP
      • Oct 2002
      • 745

      #32
      Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

      tommyboy, check your p.m.

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      • ehh
        Hall Of Fame
        • Mar 2003
        • 28959

        #33
        Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

        How old were you guys when yo ugot hitched?
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        • funky_chicken
          MVP
          • Jul 2002
          • 3282

          #34
          Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

          In a situation like this I only have two words.

          SMITH WESSON

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          • tommyboy
            Rookie
            • Aug 2002
            • 73

            #35
            Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

            Originally posted by ehh
            How old were you guys when yo ugot hitched?
            When we got married I was 29 and she was 28.It was her second marriage and this is my first.

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            • tommyboy
              Rookie
              • Aug 2002
              • 73

              #36
              Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

              I would like to thank everyone for their messages.I had her come down after her shower this morning and told her that counseling may be good.I told her that we have to think about our daughter and get some family counseling.She told me that she would have to think about it and she cant see how this would help her feelings.My feelings are to help my kid and put my problems second.I have asked her to do the same, she said I will let you know.I guess that was asking too much, still laying low in NY state.

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              • jmood88
                Sean Payton: Retribution
                • Jul 2003
                • 34639

                #37
                Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                Originally posted by backbreaker
                Hmmmm...I've noticed you always like to go another way with something just to be Different.

                This is my first time ever responding to anything like this. Its the same thing I tell my friends, your side of the story tells me nothing, so I take it with a grain of salt until I hear the other side.
                Why are you posting then? He wasn't asking you for advice and his wife isn't going to come on here and say anything.
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                • pk500
                  All Star
                  • Jul 2002
                  • 8062

                  #38
                  Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                  Originally posted by Scottd
                  I disagree PK! When someone get to that boiling point no one is safe! It is just how we humans are! Sure they are your kids, but people say dumb things in front of their kids all the time! I am pretty sure she reach her boiling point!
                  Bullsh*t. Pure and utter bullsh*t. If you have any self-control, any discipline, any thought for anyone other than yourself, then you don't make such a damaging statement in front of your child. I couldn't give a sh*t if the woman was about to spontaneously combust.

                  The woman has no class. Period.

                  Take care,
                  PK
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                  • Shaver
                    Legend
                    • Jul 2002
                    • 10148

                    #39
                    Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                    Originally posted by pk500
                    Bullsh*t. Pure and utter bullsh*t. If you have any self-control, any discipline, any thought for anyone other than yourself, then you don't make such a damaging statement in front of your child. I couldn't give a sh*t if the woman was about to spontaneously combust.

                    The woman has no class. Period.

                    Take care,
                    PK
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                    • ehh
                      Hall Of Fame
                      • Mar 2003
                      • 28959

                      #40
                      Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                      Originally posted by tommyboy
                      When we got married I was 29 and she was 28.It was her second marriage and this is my first.
                      Damn, so it's not like you guys made a mistake by gettin' hitched too early. Your girl seems to have some serious mental issues.
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                      • backbreaker
                        Banned
                        • Jul 2002
                        • 3991

                        #41
                        Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                        Originally posted by jmood88
                        Why are you posting then? He wasn't asking you for advice and his wife isn't going to come on here and say anything.
                        I shouldn't be responding too you, but I'll indulge you since you want to try to antagonize(sp?). Often times you get these one sided post, which begats one sided responses trying to garner sympathy. I feel the gentlemens pain but when you open yourself up for dialogue, you must not expect to be showered with hugs and dap.

                        He painted a picture of his wife who he claims to love as non sensitive and callous why is that? Because of his pain and the story he's telling. Don't act like you've been blind sided, their are almost always warning signs. You think his wife just woke up and was like "F" it? I just stating the obvious, his wife will tell a completely different side of the story. I know his wife isn't going to come on this board and explain her side of the story, it was all "figuratively speaking.

                        I wouldn't speak ill of his wife like the others have because of the story he's telling, like some calling her uncoth and having mental issues ect....I just would like the other side of the story before jumping on the bandwagon of sympathy. I could be wrong but I doubt it, peace.

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                        • Jayhawk
                          MVP
                          • Dec 2002
                          • 2565

                          #42
                          Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                          That's truly awful.

                          Sadly, it sounds like she's excited to hear someone else's voice on the phone. I commend you for trying to keep your family together.

                          Woohoo, cant wait for marriage
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                          • Scottdau
                            Banned
                            • Feb 2003
                            • 32580

                            #43
                            Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                            Originally posted by pk500
                            Bullsh*t. Pure and utter bullsh*t. If you have any self-control, any discipline, any thought for anyone other than yourself, then you don't make such a damaging statement in front of your child. I couldn't give a sh*t if the woman was about to spontaneously combust.

                            The woman has no class. Period.

                            Take care,
                            PK

                            Well it happens more then you think! When you reach the boiling point that is what happens! So you are basing her character on this one situation! I am sure you have said things in front of your kid that wasn't right! I know I have! And for you to say she has no class for making one bad decsion well that is messed up no matter how you look at it!

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                            • Shaver
                              Legend
                              • Jul 2002
                              • 10148

                              #44
                              Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                              Originally posted by Scottd
                              Well it happens more then you think! When you reach the boiling point that is what happens! So you are basing her character on this one situation! I am sure you have said things in front of your kid that wasn't right! I know I have! And for you to say she has no class for making one bad decsion well that is messed up no matter how you look at it!
                              No... it's unacceptable to involve your kids. If you can't control yourself for 10 seconds to have the kid leave the room or leave it yourself... you are a piece of ****. Period.

                              Kids are defenseless... thus... those actions are defenseless.... but feel free to continue to defend them.
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                              • pk500
                                All Star
                                • Jul 2002
                                • 8062

                                #45
                                Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                                Originally posted by Scottd
                                Well it happens more then you think! When you reach the boiling point that is what happens! So you are basing her character on this one situation! I am sure you have said things in front of your kid that wasn't right! I know I have! And for you to say she has no class for making one bad decsion well that is messed up no matter how you look at it!
                                Mr. Exclamation Point:

                                There is a difference between maybe uttering an expletive or having a minor argument with your wife in front of your child and saying in front of that child that it will be an orphan.

                                A VERY big difference. And if you don't know that difference and you have kids, I shudder.

                                Take care,
                                PK
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