too harsh man. I know EVERYONE and their mothers say this, but if you were in a similar situation right now as I am youd be a little bit depressed too. I doubt youd be able to just take a cold shower and go on pretending nothing happened.
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too harsh man. I know EVERYONE and their mothers say this, but if you were in a similar situation right now as I am youd be a little bit depressed too. I doubt youd be able to just take a cold shower and go on pretending nothing happened. -
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Of course we have hurt, but man just let it go. Yeah you had a long relationship and a lot of things will make you remember her, but time heals all wounds. I used to think I'd never get my ex's out of my head, but now I can't even tell you what they look like anymore, and one of them I was engaged to. Just getting sucked back into drama with that girl and her boytoy does nothing for you. Just ignore her, and if you see her out with him ignore them then too. You need to move on with your life. She all ready has.President of the Devils Den
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I have been in that situation, I think everyone has. However, it gets to a point where enough is enough. I'm not privy to all the details but this saga seems to have been going on for some time now and you continue to get dragged back into it. How long are you gonna let this chick keep dicking you around before you cut your losses and move on?Comment
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Of course we have hurt, but man just let it go. Yeah you had a long relationship and a lot of things will make you remember her, but time heals all wounds. I used to think I'd never get my ex's out of my head, but now I can't even tell you what they look like anymore, and one of them I was engaged to. Just getting sucked back into drama with that girl and her boytoy does nothing for you. Just ignore her, and if you see her out with him ignore them then too. You need to move on with your life. She all ready has.Comment
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I have been in that situation, I think everyone has. However, it gets to a point where enough is enough. I'm not privy to all the details but this saga seems to have been going on for some time now and you continue to get dragged back into it. How long are you gonna let this chick keep dicking you around before you cut your losses and move on?Comment
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My advice for your confidence level is...do things you enjoy, and you are good at. Attack the weight room, or exercise. Helps release all the hurtful energy you feel right now, and uses it in a positive way. Since you feel that way I'd hold off on even going out with a girl until you got your head straight. It will save you more heartbreak and heartache in the long run.President of the Devils Den
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My advice for your confidence level is...do things you enjoy, and you are good at. Attack the weight room, or exercise. Helps release all the hurtful energy you feel right now, and uses it in a positive way. Since you feel that way I'd hold off on even going out with a girl until you got your head straight. It will save you more heartbreak and heartache in the long run.
But after our date last night, it was kind of hard. I didnt feel much of a connection although shes really a nice girl. We just have a lot of different interests, and views, which sometimes attracts but after a situation like mine, and I KNOW its wrong, im already doing the compairing.Comment
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The thing you need to realize is that you'll never have that level of happiness and comfort with your ex either. After all this drama, it would never be the same with her so it's best to just move on.Comment
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Agreed 100%, I am trying to move on despite what it might seem like. Its just the whole never finding that level of happiness is going to be on my mind despite moving on or not. I think thats normal.Comment
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Be fair to her then, and not let her get too involved with emotions, and keep it at the friend level.President of the Devils Den
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She definatly knows. She has too, hell she questioned the look on my face yesterday and drug out of me the text messages I got from my ex and her boytoy. So while this is a new girl, shes very familiar with the entire situation. She claims shes here to "help me through all of this"Comment
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She says that but women love to find men who have been "hurt" and try and nurse them back to health. She might be a very nice girl, but you are all ready looking for ways to get out...when you haven't even started anything with her.President of the Devils Den
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Well im not the typical "guy". Id have a hard time just having a rebound fling, and then go from fling to fling. Im more of a steady relationship type of person. And I could tell with this girl, while shes nice, and gets my mind off Jen, I dont see much of a long term future with her, and I dont want to hurt her especially if she gets attached. So saturday ill probably tell her just to be friends.Comment
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