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  • aholbert32
    (aka Alberto)
    • Jul 2002
    • 33106

    #241
    Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

    Originally posted by WTF
    For those who have said they'd consider this statutory rape... open your eyes.. She's 18. It's not like this girl is 15, 16, or heck, even 17. She is an adult. Some of you guys are failing to see that she's considered an adult no matter how you slice it.

    Personally, nobody on this site knows the situation other than Graphik, and I'm saying that if he thinks the relationship is real... then it's nobody's business to tell him to move on, or anything like that. They're two adults, no matter the age. That wasn't the question here.

    Go to prom man, have a good time (or as good as you can make it anyway) and just be together if that's what you want. Dont' worry about other's opinion of the situation.
    I'm sorry but thats BS. No one asked him to post on a forum asking everyone's opinion of his situation. If someone's opinion is that he should move on then they have just as much of a right to say that as you do to encourage him to go to the prom. He opened himself to this by asking the forum.

    My issue isnt that the girl is 18, its that he is dating a high schooler and is 27 going to the prom.

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    • WTF
      MVP
      • Aug 2002
      • 20274

      #242
      Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

      No, I'm just saying that it's not statutory rape, no matter how you slice it. There have been quite a few posts here that said he could or should be busted for statutory rape. I know everyone has their own opinion on the prom thing, that's fine... but to try and put him in the category of statutory rape? It's just not.

      I'm definitely fine with anyone's assessment that he shouldn't go to prom, or he should. Everyone has an opinion, and that's what he was looking for... he wasn't looking for whether or not he should move on and break up with her.. he was asking about prom.
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      • Scottdau
        Banned
        • Feb 2003
        • 32580

        #243
        Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

        Originally posted by WTF
        No, I'm just saying that it's not statutory rape, no matter how you slice it. There have been quite a few posts here that said he could or should be busted for statutory rape. I know everyone has their own opinion on the prom thing, that's fine... but to try and put him in the category of statutory rape? It's just not.

        I'm definitely fine with anyone's assessment that he shouldn't go to prom, or he should. Everyone has an opinion, and that's what he was looking for... he wasn't looking for whether or not he should move on and break up with her.. he was asking about prom.

        It is if she was 17 when they started dating and were doing you know what! I just don't see how you can be 27 and go to a prom. That right there is an afternoon TV special. Oh well, maybe he is still 18 too in the mind. What can you have in common with a 18 year, but more power to you! And good luck. if you were 30 and she was 21 I can see that, but 18 and 27 big diffence!

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        • WTF
          MVP
          • Aug 2002
          • 20274

          #244
          Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

          ILLINOIS
          A. Statutory Rape—Criminal Offenses
          A person is deemed incapable of consent if he or she is under 17 years of age, regardless of the
          age of the defendant.1 Sexual activity with someone under 17 years of age is treated as a
          misdemeanor if:
          · The victim is at least 9 years of age and the defendant is less than 17 years of age; or
          · The victim is at least 13 years of age and the defendant is less than 5 years older than the
          victim.2



          Granted, I wouldn't condone sexual activity between 17 and 20-whatever, but that's neither here nor there. Illinois is pretty liberal after the age of 17. Some states it's 18, and they had thought about changing the law to a little older, then Graphik may have been in trouble. Regardless, he's in the clear now but still.
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          • Scottdau
            Banned
            • Feb 2003
            • 32580

            #245
            Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

            You would be surprise what parents can do when it come to the Law!

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            • CaptainZombie
              Brains
              • Jul 2003
              • 37851

              #246
              Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

              Originally posted by Graphik
              Well the lying thing was more of an agreement. Ya know, what do you think would of happened if she first introduced me to her folks and I told them I was 27 and I wanted to date their 18 year old daughter? As I stated before, this type of thing is'nt really uncommon. Sometimes the guy has to lie about his age, sometimes the guy has to just be as distant from the girls folks as humanly possible and sometimes the girls folks will be cool with it.

              Funny story, I had a friend get locked up for a brief second about a few years ago when he was 23 and this chick he was messing with was 16. I remember we drove over to her house in Harvey. If anyone from the Chi-Town area knows of Harvey, its not so much of a decent place to live. Anyway, we in the car 4 deep. Four completely grown dudes with goatees and chest hair. I did'nt know the chick he was messing with 16, he just said he was going to see his girl.

              So we all hop out the car in front of her house. It was summer so it was a typical ghetto scene of dudes in wife beaters walking up the block. Cats on the corner serving. Little hoochie girls dressed like they're adults and kids frolicking around. Her porch was da spot cause it was about 10 dudes, kids and chicks all outside enjoying the weather. Her moms was outside chillin'. The aunt and grandma was outside and everything.

              So we stroll up and stood back on the curb while my guy go up to the crib and ask for his girl. He asked her moms if shorty was in the crib. First thing her moms say was "How old is you"? My guy was like "23" like a *******. Her moms was like "Hell naw, you to old". I swear to god, it seemed like everybody on that porch hopped up at the same time and just started snappin'. We busted a U-Turn so swift you would of sworn you heard tires peel out. The scene would of went much diffrently if he went alone but with 4 grown dudes waiting on a 16 year old like she was the neirborhood bust-down chick.....maaannn, I'm suprised we made it out alive. I smacked him in the back of the head when we got back to the car and thats when he told me old girl was 16.

              He did'nt go to jail that day however. He kept sneaking over to her crib afterwards and eventually got caught in the closet with his underoos on. Her folks called the police and he waited around for them like a dumass again. (Personally, I would of ran and never been seen or heard from again) So they hauled him off to jail and he was in there for about 2 weeks after the girls mother eventually dropped the charges.

              Moral of the story, sometimes its not always a good idea to tell a girls parents your age...right off back. A little manipulation never hurt anybody. Do I think I can end up in this scenario? Not really, I'm already in the door. They'll probably be pissed when they do find out my age but by then, it'll be much to late for anyone to really give a damn.
              Graphik, yeah bro, Harvey has the worst crime rate in IL. It's worse than Robbins. So many peeps getting killed over there, it's not even funny.

              What town you live in?
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              • BigTigLSU
                H*p H*p 4 H*rs*m*n
                • Sep 2002
                • 6506

                #247
                Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                I was out high school maybe two years and I was 20 and the chick was 17. Her actual boyfriend was in the military, and since I smashed every weekend she figured I was playing the role of boyfriend so she invited to her prom.


                I told her staight up Hell No. I told her some BS about I dont know her friends or class mates and its not my crowd so I wouldnt really have fun being the odd person out, and told her she should invite one of her male friends from school.

                But what I really wanted to say was we arent actually dating since the only place I took you is to my dorm room but she was cool chick plus her body was crazy so I couldnt play her to the left like that
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                • PdiddyPop
                  K*ngs *f th* D*nc*!
                  • Dec 2002
                  • 21768

                  #248
                  Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                  Originally posted by WTF
                  If we ever have an OS meet... all of us who won the crown are wearing them, lol.. After all, we stand above the rest... lol.
                  I got to find mine. Its around here somewhere in storeage.
                  Last edited by PdiddyPop; 01-28-2007, 10:10 AM.
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                  • grunt
                    Banned
                    • Jul 2002
                    • 9527

                    #249
                    Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                    This is really fun but yo, you have to back out of this prom and this relationship. Too much drama. When a girl is that young, she is more attractive to your age than you as a person. She is telling all her girls how she is dealing with this grown man that is props for her. Don't you think all her girlfriends will know how old you are when you walk into the prom.

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                    • Graphik
                      Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                      • Oct 2002
                      • 10582

                      #250
                      Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                      Originally posted by grunt
                      This is really fun but yo, you have to back out of this prom and this relationship. Too much drama. When a girl is that young, she is more attractive to your age than you as a person. She is telling all her girls how she is dealing with this grown man that is props for her. Don't you think all her girlfriends will know how old you are when you walk into the prom.

                      I thought that for a while but if she was truly with me for my age then she would of dumped me a long time ago. I'm broke, pay child support, I dont have a car anymore and I stay in a 1 bedroom apartment with my brother. If you use the typical equation 'Older Guy=Money' than she would be fooling herself. As for her friends, another one of her friends is dating a 27 year old as well. And the other ppl in her crew are dating 20-somethings. Like I said before, these type of things are generally normal where I'm from. There is no props to be given.
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                      • Graphik
                        Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                        • Oct 2002
                        • 10582

                        #251
                        Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                        Originally posted by candyman56
                        Graphik, yeah bro, Harvey has the worst crime rate in IL. It's worse than Robbins. So many peeps getting killed over there, it's not even funny.

                        What town you live in?
                        I'm in South Shore right now and I'm set to move to Hyde Park in about a month. I was in Riverdale for a few months last year which is next to Harvey and that place terrified me. I hated living there. My guy recently married a chick who lived in Harvey so I was over there often. Luckily it was mostly in the day time. Like that means anything.
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                        • Graphik
                          Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                          • Oct 2002
                          • 10582

                          #252
                          Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                          Originally posted by aholbert32
                          I'm sorry but thats BS. No one asked him to post on a forum asking everyone's opinion of his situation. If someone's opinion is that he should move on then they have just as much of a right to say that as you do to encourage him to go to the prom. He opened himself to this by asking the forum.

                          My issue isnt that the girl is 18, its that he is dating a high schooler and is 27 going to the prom.

                          I wanted and appreciate all you guys opinions. Since there are so many diffrent cultures and backgrounds in this place, I wanted to get a broad understanding of how you all would view this situation.
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                          • Graphik
                            Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                            • Oct 2002
                            • 10582

                            #253
                            Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                            Originally posted by Scottd
                            You would be surprise what parents can do when it come to the Law!

                            Thats true. Whats funny is that her mothers side of the family is the ghetto side and whenever her cop father comes around, everybody is lowkey and on the hush about drugs, drinking and gang talk. Its funny to see how this one man can completely drag a get-together into boredome. When he leaves the scene, you see dice, cards and money fly out of nowhere and people start rolling up blunts and whatnot.
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                            • sportsdude
                              Be Massive
                              • Jul 2002
                              • 5001

                              #254
                              Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                              Maybe I'm late weighing in on this, but...

                              Her mom works in the same building as you, her dad's a cop and you're a 27-year who claims to be 20 that's going to a high school prom. I see absolutely nothing in your story that leads me to believe that this situation will turn out well for you.

                              I was invited to a prom as a 19-yeard old and felt weird enough that I said 'no'. Do what you want, but I would turn around and run before the dad puts a restaining order on your ***, sues you, prosecutes you for a number of crimes, and then you go to work and get dirty looks from everybody in the building because the mom got there early and told everybody what you did and now you can't leave the state, you hate going to work, and you have no money because you're paying a lawyer.


                              Just saying.
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                              • the_future420
                                MVP
                                • Jul 2002
                                • 3086

                                #255
                                Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                                "Have a seat on that stool over there"












                                "You wanna tell me what you're doing here?"







                                But on the real tho, i had a similiar experience like this last year. My girl was 18 and I was 21, and I ended up going to the prom and I still felt out of place. We broke up shortly after her prom, so take that for what its worth. I gotta tell you man, if u do decide to go, go because you want to, not because she wants you to.


                                I'm in hazel crest, but I know whnat u mean about Harvey tho. Where u plan on moving in Hyde Park? I stayed there for like 6 years, on 51st and Kenwood, then 53rd and Kimbark
                                Last edited by the_future420; 02-16-2007, 01:44 PM.
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