Alright, here's the scoop. I'm currently dating this hot 18 year old.....girl might I add. Me being 27, thats a big age gap of course but I find the chick to be suprisingly mature for her age. More mature than most of the females I've dated who were around my age or older. One thing I like about her is her mind is'nt tainted like most females who have been in serious relationships before. She is'nt insecure, a plus. She's smart, another plus and she's very independent. A big plus since most of the ladies I've dated before seem to be be clingy or needy at some point in the relationship. Ethier that or they need constant guidance as if they cant think for themselves. Its pretty much the reason why I got involved with her in the first place. Normally, I wouldn't go so low in age for moral reasons. We hit it off last year in August and everything has been smooth ever since.
Enough about her though, here's the kicker. This girl is still in High School. Yikes!! I know, I know, I outta be ashamed but she's such a wonderful catch I just couldn't resist and the age thing just took a back seat. Now I know how R. Kelly feels except I dont have any urges to urinate in her face. (On a serious note, its not like I'm a sexual predator like Mr. Kelly, my babys mother is 32 so the way I see it is I went from one extreme to another) I've already met her family which includes her mother, grandmother, aunts and cousins. I've kicked it with them, drank with them, partied with them and they already consider me apart of the family with most of them calling me "in-law". The bad part is they think I'm 20 years old. Double Yikes!! Yes, I can pass off for 20 with me baby face. She wanted me to lie about my age from the beggining cause she was 17 at the time and she knew, as well as I, that there would of been problems if she told her fam that she was dating a 27 year old.
Now she's 18 and I'm so cool with her family now that I doubt most would have a problem with my age. I'm sure someone will trip about it. I've really built up trust with her fam. She spends the night at my crib, I spend the night at her crib, I can pretty much have her out as late as I want, no problems. I'm not sure how her family would react. I could very well get my *** beat if I confessed at the wrong time. I highly doubt it because these type of relationships are actually normal where I'm from. I'm at an advantage also because her parents know I have a nice job(Her mother works in my building), I dont look like the type to be gangbanging or selling drugs, I aint no dead beat living at my mothers crib and they know firsthand that I treat their daughter with utmost respect. These are more than likely the reasons why her fam has so much trust in me because my type is such a rare breed where I'm from. Ether that or her family is one of those "He got money, stick wit him" type of groups. I honestly dont know.
Anyways, this is'nt one of those Magic(insert team here)fan threads where I'm asking you all if I should stick with her or let her go. There really is'nt any convincing me to let her go because we've been through alot already. Here is the ultimate kicker right here. *drum roll* She just asked me out to prom. Prom??? Wow, I would probably be the only 27 year old in history to go to a High School Prom. This is what is bothering me. I knew it was coming. Hell, my bro and cousin already joked about this scenario when I first told them about her last year. Its scary to think that as a 27 year old man, I may dress up in a tux, take pictures for her family and hop in a limo to head to a High School Prom. Now I'm starting to feel like a child molester. There is'nt any excuses I could make for this one. I'm in so deep that we would break up if I refused to go. Her nor her family would never forgive me. They've already mentioned Prom and how they cant wait for pics and this and that. I starting to feel out of place. Like this just shouldn't be happening.
I'm usually the type where I could care less what other people say about me but this one right here has me worried. How can I tell my people this? How would they feel? Would they laugh and never let me live this down or would they not care. My close friends and family already know about the situation so they already know what to expect. Its everybody else that I'm worried about. Would if word spreads around the office that I'm going to a freakin' HS Prom? Her mother does work here so its inevitable. What I'm asking my extended OS family is what is your opinion about this? I actually need some guidance cause this one is eating me up.
Oh yea and thanks for reading.
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b!tches!!
Enough about her though, here's the kicker. This girl is still in High School. Yikes!! I know, I know, I outta be ashamed but she's such a wonderful catch I just couldn't resist and the age thing just took a back seat. Now I know how R. Kelly feels except I dont have any urges to urinate in her face. (On a serious note, its not like I'm a sexual predator like Mr. Kelly, my babys mother is 32 so the way I see it is I went from one extreme to another) I've already met her family which includes her mother, grandmother, aunts and cousins. I've kicked it with them, drank with them, partied with them and they already consider me apart of the family with most of them calling me "in-law". The bad part is they think I'm 20 years old. Double Yikes!! Yes, I can pass off for 20 with me baby face. She wanted me to lie about my age from the beggining cause she was 17 at the time and she knew, as well as I, that there would of been problems if she told her fam that she was dating a 27 year old.
Now she's 18 and I'm so cool with her family now that I doubt most would have a problem with my age. I'm sure someone will trip about it. I've really built up trust with her fam. She spends the night at my crib, I spend the night at her crib, I can pretty much have her out as late as I want, no problems. I'm not sure how her family would react. I could very well get my *** beat if I confessed at the wrong time. I highly doubt it because these type of relationships are actually normal where I'm from. I'm at an advantage also because her parents know I have a nice job(Her mother works in my building), I dont look like the type to be gangbanging or selling drugs, I aint no dead beat living at my mothers crib and they know firsthand that I treat their daughter with utmost respect. These are more than likely the reasons why her fam has so much trust in me because my type is such a rare breed where I'm from. Ether that or her family is one of those "He got money, stick wit him" type of groups. I honestly dont know.
Anyways, this is'nt one of those Magic(insert team here)fan threads where I'm asking you all if I should stick with her or let her go. There really is'nt any convincing me to let her go because we've been through alot already. Here is the ultimate kicker right here. *drum roll* She just asked me out to prom. Prom??? Wow, I would probably be the only 27 year old in history to go to a High School Prom. This is what is bothering me. I knew it was coming. Hell, my bro and cousin already joked about this scenario when I first told them about her last year. Its scary to think that as a 27 year old man, I may dress up in a tux, take pictures for her family and hop in a limo to head to a High School Prom. Now I'm starting to feel like a child molester. There is'nt any excuses I could make for this one. I'm in so deep that we would break up if I refused to go. Her nor her family would never forgive me. They've already mentioned Prom and how they cant wait for pics and this and that. I starting to feel out of place. Like this just shouldn't be happening.
I'm usually the type where I could care less what other people say about me but this one right here has me worried. How can I tell my people this? How would they feel? Would they laugh and never let me live this down or would they not care. My close friends and family already know about the situation so they already know what to expect. Its everybody else that I'm worried about. Would if word spreads around the office that I'm going to a freakin' HS Prom? Her mother does work here so its inevitable. What I'm asking my extended OS family is what is your opinion about this? I actually need some guidance cause this one is eating me up.
Oh yea and thanks for reading.
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.
b!tches!!
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