What have I gotten myself into?!?

[Brandwin]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

To be honest, if they still feel that way after they've been in college a few years or finished college, they've got a few screws loose IMO.

I know HS girls think Prom is the biggest thing in their lives, but that's why they're HS girls.

Yeah, it's a big thing at the time and something they always remember, but I have to agree with MJB on this one.

[jmood88]

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Her moms is cool. Its the father I'm really worried about. Although I'm sure her moms would make a stink after she finds out my true age but more than likely get over it. Another kicker....her dads is a cop. That one may take some work. I might as well kill myself now right?

You really lead an interesting life.

[mike01]

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Im saying that if this girl is so mature, prom will not be SO important to her that if Graphik doesnt go with her she will break up with him. Anyone agree with that?

[Scottdau]

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Im saying that if this girl is so mature, prom will not be SO important to her that if Graphik doesnt go with her she will break up with him. Anyone agree with that?

How mature can an 18 year be, she is 18. She will trip. Any girl would trip no matter how old 18, 21,35, you name it. Girls trip it is just how they are. If she dumps you count it has a blessing. You can get out of the mess. Though if it is different where you come from at least tell the parents. Any ways good luck!

[luv_mist]

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Dang, Graph. I could even finish reading this whole thread. Bro, I can understand what you're going through. Honestly, you are too old. However, if you think it's love, what the hell do you care about the thoughts of your co-workers? They sure do raise them thick in Chicago though. LOL!! On the real, before you make any moves or anything like that, you need to honestly sit down with your female friend and set some boundaries until she's at least of an older age. You do need to lay off a bit and see if "love" is what you're really feeling because....true love will wait. I see the crossroad you are at. You hit her too. I think that you should honestly sit down with your girl and just spit everything (you know is right) out and then approach the folks. That's more important than the prom. It's your conscience that's bothering you which is more than the prom thing my friend. Good luck with your thing. Chicago is a dangerous place.......

[CaptainZombie]

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To be honest, if they still feel that way after they've been in college a few years or finished college, they've got a few screws loose IMO.

I know HS girls think Prom is the biggest thing in their lives, but that's why they're HS girls.

I feel the same way about what you just mjb.

Graph, where in IL do you live man, I think I want to stop by your place so we can have a talk. I can understand a few years apart, but 9 years difference is big when she is still in High School especially. If her father were to find out man, he uptight like you say that he is, watch out bro because that's his little girl.

Like Luv said, it is your conscience that is bothering you about this or you wouldn't be here trying to figure out what to do.

[Herbsinator]

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All I know is....you don't want to go to prison because you got convicted of statutory rape..the prisoners don't take to kindly to ChiMo's.

[RoyalBoyle78]

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Alright, here's the scoop. I'm currently dating this hot 18 year old.....girl might I add. Me being 27, thats a big age gap of course but I find the chick to be suprisingly mature for her age. More mature than most of the females I've dated who were around my age or older. One thing I like about her is her mind is'nt tainted like most females who have been in serious relationships before. She is'nt insecure, a plus. She's smart, another plus and she's very independent. A big plus since most of the ladies I've dated before seem to be be clingy or needy at some point in the relationship. Ethier that or they need constant guidance as if they cant think for themselves. Its pretty much the reason why I got involved with her in the first place. Normally, I wouldn't go so low in age for moral reasons. We hit it off last year in August and everything has been smooth ever since.

Enough about her though, here's the kicker. This girl is still in High School. Yikes!! I know, I know, I outta be ashamed but she's such a wonderful catch I just couldn't resist and the age thing just took a back seat. Now I know how R. Kelly feels except I dont have any urges to urinate in her face. (On a serious note, its not like I'm a sexual predator like Mr. Kelly, my babys mother is 32 so the way I see it is I went from one extreme to another) I've already met her family which includes her mother, grandmother, aunts and cousins. I've kicked it with them, drank with them, partied with them and they already consider me apart of the family with most of them calling me "in-law". The bad part is they think I'm 20 years old. Double Yikes!! Yes, I can pass off for 20 with me baby face. She wanted me to lie about my age from the beggining cause she was 17 at the time and she knew, as well as I, that there would of been problems if she told her fam that she was dating a 27 year old.

Now she's 18 and I'm so cool with her family now that I doubt most would have a problem with my age. I'm sure someone will trip about it. I've really built up trust with her fam. She spends the night at my crib, I spend the night at her crib, I can pretty much have her out as late as I want, no problems. I'm not sure how her family would react. I could very well get my *** beat if I confessed at the wrong time. I highly doubt it because these type of relationships are actually normal where I'm from. I'm at an advantage also because her parents know I have a nice job(Her mother works in my building), I dont look like the type to be gangbanging or selling drugs, I aint no dead beat living at my mothers crib and they know firsthand that I treat their daughter with utmost respect. These are more than likely the reasons why her fam has so much trust in me because my type is such a rare breed where I'm from. Ether that or her family is one of those "He got money, stick wit him" type of groups. I honestly dont know.


Anyways, this is'nt one of those Magic(insert team here)fan threads where I'm asking you all if I should stick with her or let her go. There really is'nt any convincing me to let her go because we've been through alot already. Here is the ultimate kicker right here. *drum roll* She just asked me out to prom. Prom??? Wow, I would probably be the only 27 year old in history to go to a High School Prom. This is what is bothering me. I knew it was coming. Hell, my bro and cousin already joked about this scenario when I first told them about her last year. Its scary to think that as a 27 year old man, I may dress up in a tux, take pictures for her family and hop in a limo to head to a High School Prom. Now I'm starting to feel like a child molester. There is'nt any excuses I could make for this one. I'm in so deep that we would break up if I refused to go. Her nor her family would never forgive me. They've already mentioned Prom and how they cant wait for pics and this and that. I starting to feel out of place. Like this just shouldn't be happening.

I'm usually the type where I could care less what other people say about me but this one right here has me worried. How can I tell my people this? How would they feel? Would they laugh and never let me live this down or would they not care. My close friends and family already know about the situation so they already know what to expect. Its everybody else that I'm worried about. Would if word spreads around the office that I'm going to a freakin' HS Prom? Her mother does work here so its inevitable. What I'm asking my extended OS family is what is your opinion about this? I actually need some guidance cause this one is eating me up.



Oh yea and thanks for reading.
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b!tches!!

didn't you have a child a few months back?

[RoyalBoyle78]

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All I know is....you don't want to go to prison because you got convicted of statutory rape..the prisoners don't take to kindly to ChiMo's.

18 is legal.

[PdiddyPop]

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18 is legal.

I think its 17 in Illinois. Either way he's in the clear as far as that goes.

[IlliniM1ke]

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I think its 17 in Illinois. Either way he's in the clear as far as that goes.

Yeah 17 is legal in Illinois so he has no problems there.

[Vince]

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14 here in quebec.

[CaptainZombie]

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didn't you have a child a few months back?

Wait, he also had a child a few months ago?

[Court_vision]

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Dont underestimate how pissed they will be if they find out your real age. A. 10 yr age difference is huge.

10 years isn't too bad. It's not like she's 14. Wait until she's at least 18 before taking this to a 'physical' relationship though.

Don't stress it. I once dated a woman for nearly two years. She was H O T. The hottest woman I ever slept with by far.

She was also married. They were seperated. Legit seperation.

Anyway...I found out after about 2 months with her that her "Ex" was a Chinese Triad.

No BS.

I used to lay there at night and say "what the f.ck was that?!?!? every time I heard even the slightest noise"

She used to say "baby, why are you so edgy?" and we'd have a late night smoke together.

If you want paranoia...try spending the night at the ex of a Triads and smoking...

Graphik shouldn't stress. This aint that bad

[WTF]

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:y4: Ouch... that sucks man.