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  • The GIGGAS
    Timbers - Jags - Hokies
    • Mar 2003
    • 28474

    #331
    Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

    I can understand disciplining the daughter, but if they were to make sure that they broke it off, they should understand that she'd go see him anyway. Plus... Graphik treats her like a lady, doesn't he? After it all goes down, if they step back and look at it rationally, they should be able to understand that Graphik is a standup guy and a lot better than most guys.

    However, I do understand that parents do not always act rationally.
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    • Graphik
      Pr*s*n*r#70460649
      • Oct 2002
      • 10582

      #332
      Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

      Originally posted by TruPlaya
      One of those "Do as I say, not as I do." things huh.

      Be real bro, you cant say you wont be anal about who your daughter sees unless you dont care. And no matter what, my little girl will always be Daddy's Little Girl and to have some grown guy date her while she is in highschool, man....4 lines of defense before it gets to me.

      One last thing, you say you are going to instill values in her but you cant live that life yourself.

      Youre confusing me...

      Once again, you're stuck on the age thing or the fact that she's dating some "grown man". It doesn't matter what my age is to be honest, I'm still Gerald. And yes, thats me goverment name. Take me for who I am and not some generalization or sterotype that many people believe I should fall under because of my age. If you knew me personally, you wouldn't be as offended as you are.

      As for the values I instill in my child. I didn't say what those were exactly. All I know is that I will at least get to know who my daughter dates before writing him off because of his age. Like we're both sure her parents would of did if they found out firsthand.
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      • Bizzy Da Kid
        I'm in here...
        • Feb 2007
        • 865

        #333
        Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

        The thing I find funny is when the parents do find out, they are going to wonder:

        "We let this guy, 27 years old, sleep over our house, how come he didnt take her to HIS house?"

        Responsible, laughable...

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        • Bizzy Da Kid
          I'm in here...
          • Feb 2007
          • 865

          #334
          Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

          Originally posted by The GIGGAS
          Plus... Graphik treats her like a lady, doesn't he?
          Seriously, if he treated her like a lady, they wouldnt be having sex in the parents home. Real talk!!!

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          • Graphik
            Pr*s*n*r#70460649
            • Oct 2002
            • 10582

            #335
            Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

            Originally posted by Money99
            That's not even the point anymore. The whole issue is that he and his girlfriend have been lying for a while now about their situation.
            I think if he came clean right off the bat, the parents might have been alright with it.
            But since there's been so many lies, if he ever does tell them the truth, there's no way in hell they're going to be cool with it.
            And Graphik and his girlfriend obviously know it or else they would have 'come out' already, or had been truthful in the first place.

            I already discussed why we lied and have to keep this lie up. Both her moms and her pops are pretty anal regarding age. If we came clean right off the bat, the relationship would of been over before it even started. The whole plan is for them to get to know me personally so they know I'm not just in it to use her.

            As of now, she still thinks her parents may take it the wrong way. I on the other hand think that now is a perfect time to tell them because I've shown them enough for them to get over it quickly. But thats her folks, she has to deal with them moreso than me so I can only take her word for it.
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            • Graphik
              Pr*s*n*r#70460649
              • Oct 2002
              • 10582

              #336
              Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

              Originally posted by TruPlaya
              The thing I find funny is when the parents do find out, they are going to wonder:

              "We let this guy, 27 years old, sleep over our house, how come he didnt take her to HIS house?"

              Responsible, laughable...

              Umm...once again you make unreasonable statements without getting your facts straight. I have a crib and she visits all the time. She sleeps over my place just as much as I do hers.
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              • The GIGGAS
                Timbers - Jags - Hokies
                • Mar 2003
                • 28474

                #337
                Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                Originally posted by TruPlaya
                Seriously, if he treated her like a lady, they wouldnt be having sex in the parents home. Real talk!!!
                It seems like you're just out to get Graphik now. It's just as much her decision as his decision. It's not like he's forcing her to do the deed with him.

                If she didn't want to do it, I'd say it wouldn't be getting done.
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                • dagger55
                  No end in sight...
                  • Jul 2004
                  • 7907

                  #338
                  Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                  I'll be honest.


                  If I found out my 18 yr old daughter had been dating a 27 yr old man with a kid, but for a year they told me he was 20, i literally might shoot the guy.



                  But good luck man.

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                  • Graphik
                    Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                    • Oct 2002
                    • 10582

                    #339
                    Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                    Originally posted by TruPlaya
                    Seriously, if he treated her like a lady, they wouldnt be having sex in the parents home. Real talk!!!


                    You cant be serious. And where would TruPlayer take his courted date? A motel perhaps?

                    Dont be niave.
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                    • fishepa
                      I'm Ron F'n Swanson!
                      • Feb 2003
                      • 18989

                      #340
                      Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                      but for a year they told me he was 20, i literally might shoot the kid.
                      Which one, your daughter or the guy?

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                      • dagger55
                        No end in sight...
                        • Jul 2004
                        • 7907

                        #341
                        Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                        Originally posted by fishepa
                        Which one, your daughter or the guy?
                        edited!

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                        • Graphik
                          Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                          • Oct 2002
                          • 10582

                          #342
                          Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                          Originally posted by dagger55
                          I'll be honest.


                          If I found out my 18 yr old daughter had been dating a 27 yr old man with a kid, but for a year they told me he was 20, i literally might shoot the guy.



                          But good luck man.

                          Appreaciate the words of wisdom. Seriously I do. And since her pops can legally carry weapons, concealed or otherwise, now you see why this dillema is so complicated.
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                          • fishepa
                            I'm Ron F'n Swanson!
                            • Feb 2003
                            • 18989

                            #343
                            Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                            Originally posted by dagger55
                            edited!
                            Well, I was sort of implying that your daughter was half to blame.

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                            • Bizzy Da Kid
                              I'm in here...
                              • Feb 2007
                              • 865

                              #344
                              Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                              Originally posted by The GIGGAS
                              It seems like you're just out to get Graphik now. It's just as much her decision as his decision. It's not like he's forcing her to do the deed with him.

                              If she didn't want to do it, I'd say it wouldn't be getting done.

                              No, im not out to get him but I can relate to the situation. I had a girlfriend that I was 5 years older than and used to hear what I stated all the time. Which is true, if I respected my girl the way I say I do, I can be an adult and get a motel, or better yet get a place of my own. To do it in her mom's crib was like a thrill to see what I can get away with.

                              No offense to anyone but Im just trying to read in between the lines.

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                              • Liquid-Science
                                Banned
                                • Apr 2006
                                • 204

                                #345
                                Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

                                the way I look at it...the broad I'll be banging when I'm 30 is in like middle school right now

                                getting younger broads and molding them is smart...gotta get to them before they get corrupted

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