Relationship issues

[roadman]

Re: Relationship issues

The point of saying that my tooth still hurts was to point out that it was a real punch. She didn't justs lap me or something.

What are you talking about "handling biz"? And what "biz" handling has she done?

Thanks for the good advice everyone. I really appreciate it.

She's the type of person who is going to complain if I don't talk to her everyday. With her it's "all of nothing." So, even though we're exes now, she sitll has these expectations of seeing me everyday. If we don't see each other everyday, she's going to start an argument and inevitably end with "that's it we're never talking again"

I know you guys said I need to ignore her. I'm just saying, I can't really "ease" into it with her because of the way she will react. Like I said, it's all or nothing with her. Sometimes she says we can eb friends, and sometimes she says we cant. But when she says we can, she expects to see me everyday.

However, I agree that not seeing her might be the only way to stop this jealousy and really get over her. I appreciate your advice.

Ignoring her will also be hard because we live in the same dorm, and next semester we'll be living a few doors away :\

There has been some good sound advice in here, and I'm not trying to be rude here, but who is controlling who in this relationship? Even though the hardest thing to do emotionally would be cut ties immediately, in the long run, it will give you a piece of mind. Short term pain for long term gain.

It's time for you to take charge and take control. Good luck.

[PlayaHataSupreme]

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You're not the only one.


Thanks for the advice man. I appreciate it a lot. What do you mean by "charge that to the game" though?

I basically meant that particular thing (trying to prove that she got physical with you to friends) isn't something worth fighting for.

Don't worry about trying to prove that, it will only stress you out and getting what you want in this instance is highly unlikely.

[youvalss]

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Let us know how it ended...

[Mr.Wednesday]

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P2K's responses = classic.

I haven't laughed that hard in a while.

On topic: NM it's obvious what everyone here is saying. You have to drop her like a bad habit. Three strikes and your out. She is crazy, violent, and crazy again.

This is not the best advice. But, it works. The best way to get over an old girl....Find a new one.

[youvalss]

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Unless u want to be filmed to the TV show Cops - it's better to get away from her.

[P2K]

Re: Relationship issues

P2K's responses = classic.

I haven't laughed that hard in a while.

Thank you, thank you lol.


Um...let's hope ninjamonkey is still alive and well with us this morning

[ninjamonkey]

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lol

Yes I am alive.

I can't really say how it "ended" because it's going to be a gradual process I think. We are already broken up, so it's just a matter of seeing what happens and dealing with it. Hard to explain. I'm just saying, it was already "ended" in that way, so now I'm just going to see what happens. I'm going to try to get over my jealousy, and I will be trying to distance myself a bit.

Pretty much everyone said to drop her, so since we are already broken up, I'm going to assume that they meant to get away from her. It's not my ideal solution, but it's reassuring that pretty much everyone had the same advice. And I didn't plan to get back with her, but again, this is reassuring.

I appreciate everyone's comments

[nyisles16]

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lol

Yes I am alive.

I can't really say how it "ended" because it's going to be a gradual process I think. We are already broken up, so it's just a matter of seeing what happens and dealing with it. Hard to explain. I'm just saying, it was already "ended" in that way, so now I'm just going to see what happens. I'm going to try to get over my jealousy, and I will be trying to distance myself a bit.

Pretty much everyone said to drop her, so since we are already broken up, I'm going to assume that they meant to get away from her. It's not my ideal solution, but it's reassuring that pretty much everyone had the same advice. And I didn't plan to get back with her, but again, this is reassuring.

I appreciate everyone's comments

no-- we really meant... DROP her.. should have given her a running power slam!

Well the point is she seems to be very needy and controlling... not to mention the fact she gave you a left/right combo.. In the long run, you will be better off for it.

[youvalss]

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Just move on and let time be your doctor. U wouldn't believe how time cures everything. It won't happen within a week or month, but after a while u'll understand that this isn't a cliche.

[jmood88]

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I knew I should've looked at this thread earlier. You must be pretty small or she's huge if she could cause that much pain from a punch.

[DocHolliday]

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Im still giggling.

The paragraph with the "Punch" information is pure literary genius.

[ninjamonkey]

Re: Relationship issues

She's a strong girl (rugby player), and I was not expecting a punch, as I stated. As I said, I was walking away and as soon as I turned back around she hit me in the mouth. I mean, she broke her knuckle on my mouth... Of course that's going to cause pain/damage

Besides, I'm not sure what this has to do with anything. Is it ok for a gf to punch you as long as she's weak enough that it doesn't hurt? no...

[jmood88]

Re: Relationship issues

She's a strong girl (rugby player), and I was not expecting a punch, as I stated. As I said, I was walking away and as soon as I turned back aoround she hit me in the mouth. I mean, she broke her knuckle on my mouth... Of course that's goinh to cause pain/damag

Besides, I'm not sure what this has to do with anything. Is it ok for a gf to punch you as long as she's weak enough that it doesn't hurt? no...

I didn't say anything about it being ok but I've never been involved with a girl who's capable of hurting me.

[DocHolliday]

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Ninjamonkey we need some pics dude. Maybe just photoshop smear her face and put it up!

cmon now, it would be the icing on the cake

[ninjamonkey]

Re: Relationship issues

What the heck would posting pics achieve? especially if I smeared her face