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  • Coach Bryant
    Roll Tide!
    • May 2003
    • 4372

    #1

    Tempted by the fruits of another....

    Have any of you married men ever been tempted by a fellow female coworker? I'm happily married, and have 6 month old daughter. However, the other day I had a very friendly conversation (1st time I have talked to her) with a very attractive coworker, and something happened....it may just be in my head, but I think there was a spark. She is in her early 30's, and she isn't married. I will have to go really out of my way to make contact with her, but I don't think she would mind if I tried. Needless to say I can't get her out of my freaking mind! You know how it is...you're going about your day to day business, and then bam! Your boat gets rocked. I've been feeling some crazy emotions. I'm a very dedicated family man, and this sort of thing was totally unexpected. I'm usually very composed, and have everything together....but damn this chick rocks! Any suggestions to help me get through this? Cheating on my wife isn't one of them! I think I'm getting weak!
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  • superjames1992
    Hall Of Fame
    • Jun 2007
    • 31362

    #2
    Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

    "Thou shalt not commit adultery."
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    • Coach Bryant
      Roll Tide!
      • May 2003
      • 4372

      #3
      Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

      Originally posted by superjames1992
      "Thou shalt not commit adultery."
      Thanks!
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      • mgoblue
        Go Wings!
        • Jul 2002
        • 25477

        #4
        Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

        Tell your wife and have a threesome? Or maybe just man up and not cheat?
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        • Karlos05
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          • Mar 2003
          • 5814

          #5
          Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

          Threesome idea wins. End the thread.

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          • Heelfan71
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            • Jul 2002
            • 19940

            #6
            Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

            happens to me all the time it seems. Of course it has to happen after I am married. I just remind myself the grass isn't greener. All else fails just jack it.
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            • SPTO
              binging
              • Feb 2003
              • 68046

              #7
              Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....



              Read it 5 times a day.

              Seriously every time you think of her look at a pic of your wife and child.
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              • fishepa
                I'm Ron F'n Swanson!
                • Feb 2003
                • 18989

                #8
                Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                Originally posted by Heelfan71
                happens to me all the time it seems. Of course it has to happen after I am married. I just remind myself the grass isn't greener. All else fails just jack it.
                Yep.

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                • MassNole
                  Banned
                  • Mar 2006
                  • 18848

                  #9
                  Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                  Originally posted by Karlos05
                  Threesome idea wins. End the thread.
                  LOL.

                  What's your relationship like with Mrs. Coach Bryant? Often times children change dynamics of the relationship in ways you can't comprehend until it happens. Perhaps you were just getting over excited about getting a little attention from a woman other than your wife. I know I have on a few occasions when other girls have flirted with me. Curiosity and fantasy are fine but don't do something you know you'll regret.

                  At least for me this isn't an issue, my wife has told me multiple times she doesn't care what I do so long as I come home to her.

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                  • Brandwin
                    Hall Of Fame
                    • Jul 2002
                    • 30621

                    #10
                    Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                    Originally posted by Heelfan71
                    happens to me all the time it seems. Of course it has to happen after I am married. I just remind myself the grass isn't greener. All else fails just jack it.
                    Yep...

                    What if your wife was doing the same? Guy in great shape, hung like a horse.

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                    • aholbert32
                      (aka Alberto)
                      • Jul 2002
                      • 33106

                      #11
                      Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                      Originally posted by Coach Bryant
                      Have any of you married men ever been tempted by a fellow female coworker? I'm happily married, and have 6 month old daughter. However, the other day I had a very friendly conversation (1st time I have talked to her) with a very attractive coworker, and something happened....it may just be in my head, but I think there was a spark. She is in her early 30's, and she isn't married. I will have to go really out of my way to make contact with her, but I don't think she would mind if I tried. Needless to say I can't get her out of my freaking mind! You know how it is...you're going about your day to day business, and then bam! Your boat gets rocked. I've been feeling some crazy emotions. I'm a very dedicated family man, and this sort of thing was totally unexpected. I'm usually very composed, and have everything together....but damn this chick rocks! Any suggestions to help me get through this? Cheating on my wife isn't one of them! I think I'm getting weak!
                      You cant be that "happilly married" if a conversation with an attractive girl has you wanting to cheat on your wife. There is nothing wrong with wanting to bang other chicks while you are married but if you are actually considering cheating....thats a problem.

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                      • Brandwin
                        Hall Of Fame
                        • Jul 2002
                        • 30621

                        #12
                        Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                        Originally posted by aholbert32
                        You cant be that "happilly married" if a conversation with an attractive girl has you wanting to cheat on your wife. There is nothing wrong with wanting to bang other chicks while you are married but if you are actually considering cheating....thats a problem.
                        Pretty much. Men will look at other women and little do you know, your wife probably looks at other men. But if you are thinking about cheating and can't get her out of your mind, something isn't right in the marriage.

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                        • Coach Bryant
                          Roll Tide!
                          • May 2003
                          • 4372

                          #13
                          Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                          I'm not actually considering cheating...like I said thats not an option. Neither is a threesome! I'm not bragging, but I get attention from females pretty regular so its not that. I'm around women all the time. I just think this one particular chick put a hex on me or something. We clicked I guess.
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                          • Heelfan71
                            Hall Of Fame
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 19940

                            #14
                            Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                            Originally posted by DookieMowf
                            Yep...

                            What if your wife was doing the same? Guy in great shape, hung like a horse.
                            hopefully she doesn't jack it.
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                            • callmetaternuts
                              All Star
                              • Jul 2004
                              • 7045

                              #15
                              Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                              Hang in there, be strong, its not about a moment or two of a spark, its about the life you and Mrs. Coach Bryant are building/have built
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