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[ChubbyBanana]

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Are these all knock offs of Captain Morgan?

In shelf order, from highest to lowest at the liquor store, I believe it goes:

Captain Morgan
Admiral Nelson
Lady Bligh

Obviously Captain Morgan is the better of the three. I think they suspect drunk people will just see a pirate on the front and get them confused.

I don't know. Admiral Nelson isn't really that bad. I bought it for a party once because I wanted everyone to laugh at the bottle.

Great convo starter...

[boomhauertjs]

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In shelf order, from highest to lowest at the liquor store, I believe it goes:

Captain Morgan
Admiral Nelson
Lady Bligh

Obviously Captain Morgan is the better of the three. I think they suspect drunk people will just see a pirate on the front and get them confused.

I don't know. Admiral Nelson isn't really that bad. I bought it for a party once because I wanted everyone to laugh at the bottle.

Great convo starter...

We had a big plastic bottle of Lady Bligh for our New Year's Party. I think she lasted a couple of years. Since I'm not a liquor snob, I couldn't tell the difference (and when I drink mixers, I usually have 7 and 7's.)

[WDOgF0reL1fe]

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Guys.

I need help.

Now, I dont usually like the whole "spying on your girlfriend" thing because I feel you should be able to trust one another. However I know that my girlfriend has spied on me before so I had the oppurtunity last night to do so on her.

I was able to login to her facebook (because she left her password on at my house) and looked at her inbox. There was a conversation with her and her ex (i dont know him, and have nothing against him) and they were talking about how they never talk anymore.

He was saying that he wants to be friends and she never calls him or anything like that.

Now... this wouldn't bother me... except for two sentences he wrote...

"You made bad on another promise with me, you have no intentions of doing anything else but leading me on (not in a sexual way, but rather leading me on to a friendship that isnt there, although Im sure Will would be pleased to know about our last little "encounter")

What.
The Hell does that mean?

We have been dating for 7 months and she claims that she is in mad love with me everytime im with her. I believe her too, she is so sweet and everything...
But.
What do i do?

I obviously can't approach her and be like
"Hey, i was snooping around your facebook and..."

Any ideas?

I was thinking about messaging her ex and trying to get something out of him.

[RAZRr1275]

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^ I say you confront her about it. Say she snoops on you so since the chance presented you chose to take it. You have a right to know about exes. And I'd assume "encounter" would not mean something that he wants you to know about so I'd really just confront her about it. Since you have some dirt on her you have the edge in the arguement.

[WazzuRC]

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^ I say you confront her about it. Say she snoops on you so since the chance presented you chose to take it. You have a right to know about exes. And I'd assume "encounter" would not mean something that he wants you to know about so I'd really just confront her about it. Since you have some dirt on her you have the edge in the arguement.

Yeah, but say this "encounter" was merely dinner or something like that. While still out of the ordinary, it might kill the relationship because now you guys no longer trust each other. Honestly, I don't know what I would do in this situation. I'd probably say that I'm VERY VERY sorry for snooping in on her messages, but then question what the encounter was I guess. Say you were really concerned because you like her so much...and if this is going anywhere serious that you'd like to know. Apologize for going through her stuff and say that it'll never happen again, but then be stern and why she was with her ex. Then go from there.

[RAZRr1275]

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Yeah, but say this "encounter" was merely dinner or something like that. While still out of the ordinary, it might kill the relationship because now you guys no longer trust each other. Honestly, I don't know what I would do in this situation. I'd probably say that I'm VERY VERY sorry for snooping in on her messages, but then question what the encounter was I guess. Say you were really concerned because you like her so much...and if this is going anywhere serious that you'd like to know. Apologize for going through her stuff and say that it'll never happen again, but then be stern and why she was with her ex. Then go from there.

Yeah but I'd say that her snooping on him is already showing that there is a lack of trust in the relationship. And Ex to me means that your not seeing the person AT ALL unless the current person that your dating knows.

[callmetaternuts]

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I say ask her about it, bring it up, find something he gave her (an old picture, a stuffed animal) and then ask if anything has happened since they broke up. You can then either bring up the facebook stuff, or say "i heard from a mutual friend that something had happened" Neither way is good, but if you want to know, ask. Isnt that what relationshsips are built on?

[WDOgF0reL1fe]

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Yeah, but say this "encounter" was merely dinner or something like that. While still out of the ordinary, it might kill the relationship because now you guys no longer trust each other. Honestly, I don't know what I would do in this situation. I'd probably say that I'm VERY VERY sorry for snooping in on her messages, but then question what the encounter was I guess. Say you were really concerned because you like her so much...and if this is going anywhere serious that you'd like to know. Apologize for going through her stuff and say that it'll never happen again, but then be stern and why she was with her ex. Then go from there.

The only thing is, if it was just dinner why would he quote "encounter" and say that I would love to know about it?

Im leaning towards just asking her about her current relationship with him, to see if i can get anything out of her for right now... I dunno...

[av7]

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You pretty much have to ask or else it'll eat you alive not knowing the truth behind "encounter", which could be nothing

[RAZRr1275]

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You pretty much have to ask or else it'll eat you alive not knowing the truth behind "encounter", which could be nothing

I don't think he would use the word encounter if it was nothing.

[RAZRr1275]

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New idea. If you didn't want to ask her then you could go back into the facebook and send him a message. Tell him who you are and ask him about the encounter.

[Double Eights]

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Mention how you saw your ex at the grocery store this afternoon, and that she had gained a few pounds and looked bad (like she was in a bad state of mind). Say how you think it's interesting how people change after time, physically and emotionally. Ask her if she's ever experienced like that, or if she's seen any of her exes as of late.

Just a quick bull**** story that can maybe get her to speak about her ex. Watch her reaction, and how she answers the question. If she seems fidgety or if she seems uncomfortable, you'll know something is up. If she acts normal, and reacts like you'd expect an individual to react to that type of question, then I wouldn't be too concerned about the "encounter."

The story I gave you might have some holes in it, so revise it if necessary. But it's a good start to an open-ended question you can ask her without raising suspicion. Hope I helped.

Oh, and make sure you log-out of OS next time she needs to use your computer. Probably don't want her to see this conversation.

[av7]

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New idea. If you didn't want to ask her then you could go back into the facebook and send him a message. Tell him who you are and ask him about the encounter.

He's better off asking his girlfriend. Her ex will give him the run around (most likely) with BS unless he's a complete tool

[Double Eights]

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New idea. If you didn't want to ask her then you could go back into the facebook and send him a message. Tell him who you are and ask him about the encounter.

And then he'd probably send a message back to WDog's girlfriend, telling her about the message. I would not follow that advice, as you'll look even worse when she finds out.

If you want to know that badly, ask her face to face, or use a story to pry it out of her. Don't go behind her back, that's low class.

[RAZRr1275]

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He's better off asking his girlfriend. Her ex will give him the run around (most likely) with BS unless he's a complete tool

Yeah I'd ask her too. That was just another option to put out.