Indecent Proposal

[the_future420]

Re: Indecent Proposal

I can't believe some of you are saying yes. Any real man knows the answer to this question is no. Hell NO, matter of fact.

Theres a difference between your girl sleeping with X amount of guys before she met you or even her cheating on you while you're in a relationship. Those things you really can't control.

But to willingly allow another man to sleep with your wife if the price is right is downright despicable. If you are willing to put a price on your manhood,pride and dignity, theres no telling what else you would do if the price was right. That same guy would probably suck d*** on camera if it paid enough.

Certain things are priceless, at least to me, and my manhood and dignity is right at the top of that list.

And oh yeah, if you did happen to do this and your girl ended up liking it, you can forget about ever getting her back. She would lose all respect for you for allowing it to happen and you better believe she is going to go back to that other guy, only then she will be getting her back blown out for free.

[Brandwin]

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I can't believe some of you are saying yes. Any real man knows the answer to this question is no. Hell NO, matter of fact.

Theres a difference between your girl sleeping with X amount of guys before she met you or even her cheating on you while you're in a relationship. Those things you really can't control.

But to willingly allow another man to sleep with your wife if the price is right is downright despicable. If you are willing to put a price on your manhood,pride and dignity, theres no telling what else you would do if the price was right. That same guy would probably suck d*** on camera if it paid enough.

Certain things are priceless, at least to me, and my manhood and dignity is right at the top of that list.

And oh yeah, if you did happen to do this and your girl ended up liking it, you can forget about ever getting her back. She would lose all respect for you for allowing it to happen and you better believe she is going to go back to that other guy, only then she will be getting her back blown out for free.

and with that folks, this thread is finished.

[callmetaternuts]

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Im not gonna bs anyone and say anything... yes I was in a relationship for 3 years, without cheating and thought about proposing...

But cheating is not different than white collar crimes and such, and comparing the two is laughable imo. I would be able to look her in the eyes after, and be like... "Who's daddys little moneymaker? That's right, you are..."

It's pure business here, the only problem i would have is if she liked the dude and even then I wouldn't stop her because again... it's a million freakin dollars. My kids and my kids kids could go to college off of that.

Also, you can buy a new wife. And jet skiis. Those rock.

Well you could get to that million dollars, but it may not be a one time thing. What if you started seeing if you could get 100 bucks or 10 bucks a lay? You would eventually get the million dollars, but where is the line?

I just cant believe people would consider that. My wife is the best thing i have going for me, why would i even risk ruining that?

[CMH]

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and with that folks, this thread is finished.

I was so ready to comment, but you just saved me.

[CMH]

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I have one official thing to say in this thread, since I've kinda avoided saying anything serious thus far.

I'm sensing a common theme here with a lot of the posts. A lot of talk about "my dignity, being a man, my self-respect, my honor" lots of that stuff.

Excuse me for sounding a bit arrogant, ignorant, stupid, what have you, but why does a woman's decision to have sex with another person have anything to do with how you feel as a person?

I might not be putting it right. I guess what I mean is, every comment seems to center around the man, us, you, we. I'm not sure I remember anyone actually saying anything about how this affects the woman. Since you know, it's her that's having the sex. Not you. You really mean nothing in this entire equation. How you feel is selfish. I don't think we should care how you would feel after your wife had sex with another man for money. I'd like to know how she would feel.

[Pared]

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I can't believe some of you are saying yes. Any real man knows the answer to this question is no. Hell NO, matter of fact.

Theres a difference between your girl sleeping with X amount of guys before she met you or even her cheating on you while you're in a relationship. Those things you really can't control.

But to willingly allow another man to sleep with your wife if the price is right is downright despicable. If you are willing to put a price on your manhood,pride and dignity, theres no telling what else you would do if the price was right. That same guy would probably suck d*** on camera if it paid enough.

Certain things are priceless, at least to me, and my manhood and dignity is right at the top of that list.

And oh yeah, if you did happen to do this and your girl ended up liking it, you can forget about ever getting her back. She would lose all respect for you for allowing it to happen and you better believe she is going to go back to that other guy, only then she will be getting her back blown out for free.

I like this thread. I want to play devil's advocate:

How much is your manhood actually worth if you find out after you're married that your wife was a whore? Slept with this guy and that guy... but you only find out AFTER you guys are married. After you've established your trust and blah blah all that other good stuff.

Is she any different NOW because she was a whore way back when? And NOW... instead of being a whore for her own selfish reasons, she's doing it to give you two a better life... or so you both want to believe?

I'd like to know how she would feel.

Then maybe ask it on Oprah's forums?

[ubernoob]

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Well you could get to that million dollars, but it may not be a one time thing. What if you started seeing if you could get 100 bucks or 10 bucks a lay? You would eventually get the million dollars, but where is the line?

I just cant believe people would consider that. My wife is the best thing i have going for me, why would i even risk ruining that?

It would have to be a one time thing.

I'm all about forgiveness here. There is a line though, im not trying to pimp her out more than once. I'm downright amazed at all these dudes saying no to the question...

[the_future420]

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I like this thread. I want to play devil's advocate:

How much is your manhood actually worth if you find out after you're married that your wife was a whore? Slept with this guy and that guy... but you only find out AFTER you guys are married. After you've established your trust and blah blah all that other good stuff.

Is she any different NOW because she was a whore way back when? And NOW... instead of being a whore for her own selfish reasons, she's doing it to give you two a better life... or so you both want to believe?



Then maybe ask it on Oprah's forums?

Still not the same.

Although I would hate to hate to find out my wife was a whore before I met her, that is still different than me co-signing her being a whore while we're married. Everybody has done some things in their past that they may not be so proud of.

Sure that would hurt to find out and would probably be very painful, but its still not in the same ballpark as me actively pimping my wife to make some money.

[frostbyte06]

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I have one official thing to say in this thread, since I've kinda avoided saying anything serious thus far.

I'm sensing a common theme here with a lot of the posts. A lot of talk about "my dignity, being a man, my self-respect, my honor" lots of that stuff.

Excuse me for sounding a bit arrogant, ignorant, stupid, what have you, but why does a woman's decision to have sex with another person have anything to do with how you feel as a person?

I might not be putting it right. I guess what I mean is, every comment seems to center around the man, us, you, we. I'm not sure I remember anyone actually saying anything about how this affects the woman. Since you know, it's her that's having the sex. Not you. You really mean nothing in this entire equation. How you feel is selfish. I don't think we should care how you would feel after your wife had sex with another man for money. I'd like to know how she would feel.

Well the original question was would you agree to let your wife participate in this I'm guessing most of us are assuming if we said no then the whole thing is dropped right there. I agree with you 100% that none of us could prevent this from happening if our wives (soon to be ex-wife :wink really wanted to do this. I thought the original question was being asked to get the guy's perspective on it, so that's why your seeing these types of answers. However, one thing that makes a difference to me in this question is this...Is this the guy asking you for permission to ask your wife OR is this your wife asking you if it's okay to sleep with this guy....

[the_future420]

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Well the original question was would you agree to let your wife participate in this I'm guessing most of us are assuming if we said no then the whole thing is dropped right there. I agree with you 100% that none of us could prevent this from happening if our wives (soon to be ex-wife :wink really wanted to do this. I thought the original question was being asked to get the guy's perspective on it, so that's why your seeing these types of answers. However, one thing that makes a difference to me in this question is this...Is this the guy asking you for permission to ask your wife OR is this your wife asking you if it's okay to sleep with this guy....

Either way its not happening, but if it was my wife that was asking she would probably quickly become my ex-wife. That is hella disrespectful for her to even come out of her mouth with something like that.

[frostbyte06]

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Either way its not happening, but if it was my wife that was asking she would probably quickly become my ex-wife. That is hella disrespectful for her to even come out of her mouth with something like that.

I'm not disagreeing here....the point I was making was that if it was her asking me that, then we have some issues that we need to deal with if she would even ask me that question.

[stoncold32]

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When someone asks you how did you get a house like that, what are you going to say?

[CMH]

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Then maybe ask it on Oprah's forums?

Let me rephrase this then. I'm not entirely interested in the female answer, but mostly the male's perspective on the female answer.

But, it doesn't matter. The other post answering my question pointed out that this question was asked to men so men are going to talk about their feelings. That makes sense.

[OSUFan_88]

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When someone asks you how did you get a house like that, what are you going to say?

"My wife is a whore."

[Pared]

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"My ex-wife is a whore/champ/took one for the team."

Would work as well.

Or you could lie like most people do every day of their lives.