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  • SuperBowlNachos
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    • Jul 2004
    • 10218

    #1486
    Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

    Originally posted by ubernoob
    As soon as they offer. Don't make an issue of payment, that's just silly.

    I always offered to pay, but if they wanna pay their own way... let 'em.
    Oh I won't make an issue out of it. I phrased that entire post horribly.

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    • TripleCrown9
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      • May 2010
      • 23668

      #1487
      Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

      My biggest problem is how shy I am. I can talk myself up completely before meeting someone new, but as soon as we're face to face I just lose it.
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      • XtremeDunkz
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        • Aug 2007
        • 3414

        #1488
        Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

        Originally posted by TripleCrown9
        My biggest problem is how shy I am. I can talk myself up completely before meeting someone new, but as soon as we're face to face I just lose it.
        its easy really, just ask lots of questions. get them talking about themselves then build off of that.
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        • SuperBowlNachos
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          • Jul 2004
          • 10218

          #1489
          Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

          Originally posted by TripleCrown9
          My biggest problem is how shy I am. I can talk myself up completely before meeting someone new, but as soon as we're face to face I just lose it.
          Try looking at some questions beforehand to ask and hope she can help carry a conversation in person.

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          • Jr.
            Playgirl Coverboy
            • Feb 2003
            • 19171

            #1490
            Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

            Building on those.. keep the questions open-ended instead of Yes/No.

            Girls love when you show interest in their lives
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            • Bobhead
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              • Mar 2011
              • 4926

              #1491
              Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

              Originally posted by Jr.
              Girls love when you show interest in their lives
              Truer words have never been spoken.

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              • ODogg
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                • Feb 2003
                • 37953

                #1492
                Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                I tried Okcupid.com a few years ago, about to propose to the girl I found on there after being together for four years this February....so yeah, worked well for me....
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                • NoleFan
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                  • Aug 2002
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                  #1493
                  Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                  Originally posted by ODogg
                  I tried Okcupid.com a few years ago, about to propose to the girl I found on there after being together for four years this February....so yeah, worked well for me....
                  Congrats in advance O!!!
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                  • ODogg
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                    • Feb 2003
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                    #1494
                    Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                    Originally posted by NoleFan
                    Congrats in advance O!!!
                    Thanks man!!!
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                    • MrOctober430
                      MVP
                      • May 2005
                      • 1694

                      #1495
                      Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                      I hardly go out due to my job so I decided to jump on POF and OKC. To be honest not much in my area. I mean some catch my eye but I always read don't just say hey or how you doing.

                      What's a good way to approach someone on these sites? I know maybe ask them about their profile, etc. but that doesn't seem to work either since I know I'm like 1 out of 300 they get daily.

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                      • Sandman42
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                        • Aug 2004
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                        #1496
                        Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                        Originally posted by MrOctober430
                        I hardly go out due to my job so I decided to jump on POF and OKC. To be honest not much in my area. I mean some catch my eye but I always read don't just say hey or how you doing.

                        What's a good way to approach someone on these sites? I know maybe ask them about their profile, etc. but that doesn't seem to work either since I know I'm like 1 out of 300 they get daily.
                        If you actually send them a message about their profile you'll be about 1 out of 5 per day. Girls get dozens of messages per day but 90% of them are just saying "Hey". Only way you're getting a response with those is if you look like Ryan Gosling.
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                        • SuperBowlNachos
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                          • Jul 2004
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                          #1497
                          Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                          Originally posted by MrOctober430
                          I hardly go out due to my job so I decided to jump on POF and OKC. To be honest not much in my area. I mean some catch my eye but I always read don't just say hey or how you doing.

                          What's a good way to approach someone on these sites? I know maybe ask them about their profile, etc. but that doesn't seem to work either since I know I'm like 1 out of 300 they get daily.
                          Only message them when they are showing to be online. That way your message is at the top of the list. If you do it when they are offline the girl will get 100+ more after yours. One of my close girl friends is on POF and she get 300+ messages a day.

                          Point out common interest, make it more than a sentence, but don't make it your life story.

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                          • MrOctober430
                            MVP
                            • May 2005
                            • 1694

                            #1498
                            Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                            Thanks for the tips Sandman42 and SuperBowlNachos.

                            When receiving a message, do you all reply back immediately or would you wait? So you don't seem so desperate?

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                            • ODogg
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                              • Feb 2003
                              • 37953

                              #1499
                              Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                              Originally posted by MrOctober430
                              Thanks for the tips Sandman42 and SuperBowlNachos.

                              When receiving a message, do you all reply back immediately or would you wait? So you don't seem so desperate?
                              Here is what I did...don't just say "hey what's up?"... I read the profile of this girl who had True Blood in her profile. So I emailed her and just asked. Who her favorite True Blood character was.

                              People love to give their opinions of things they're interested in. It's the best way to opens dialogue and stand out IMO. Short and sweet too so it won't waste a bunch of your time either...
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                              • SuperBowlNachos
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                                • Jul 2004
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                                #1500
                                Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                                Originally posted by MrOctober430
                                Thanks for the tips Sandman42 and SuperBowlNachos.

                                When receiving a message, do you all reply back immediately or would you wait? So you don't seem so desperate?
                                I will base it off how fast they replied. If they are shooting messages right back at you I'll reply right away. If they take an hour or half the day I will wait.

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