Anyone try online dating sites?

[Sandman42]

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From your descriptions it sounds like Girl A, being they both share similar interests to you, but Girl A you seem to have more similar interests and she is more attractive to you. For now I would keep dating both, no reason to go exclusive after 1 date with each. Make sure one of them is really into you before you break it off with the other. Don't want to dump one after 1-2 dates only for the other girl to lose interest.

[Sandman42]

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That's true. I just don't want to sound like a jerk. I don't want find myself in a situation of "I had a great time but I have a date with someone else tomorrow". I don't know, that just seems like a dick move because I've never been in that scenario before.

Say you made plans with your friend. Don't have to bring up that you have another date. Although I've been pretty open with girls I've went on dates with from OKC. We both know that we aren't the only people we are dating.

[cubsfan203]

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I agree with Girl A. Without saying something to get me in trouble on here....I've had bad experiences with girls that are super into their faith so unless you are as well that's something I've learned to avoid.

As far as my situation, I called girl out via text since I'm not about to drive 40 minutes to her place and 40 minutes back to have that talk. She was pretty much in denial, played dumb to even having account at first before insisting she has no idea why it would say she was online. I don't buy it considering I remember it being one of those most visited websites that pop up on Chrome on her laptop. Either way she keeps telling me she really, really likes me and wants to talk to me tonight. I told her sure, but we'll see how it goes.

[SuperBowlNachos]

I'm close to pulling the plug on my profile. Tired of looking at the same old faces and realizing either A. I'm not interested in them or B. They're not interested in me.

I found that adding the join date filter helps. Have it only search for people who joined in the last week.

[LowerWolf]

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I found that adding the join date filter helps. Have it only search for people who joined in the last week.

Tried that, but it didn't really help. There's nobody new within 50 miles of me and only three new women within 100 miles. OKC isn't real popular with the ladies around here, I guess.

[SuperBowlNachos]

Ok guys, I've found myself in a situation. Spoilered for relative length, copied from Off-Topic. For reference, Girl B is the one I met on PoF.

Spoiler

Guys I'm having a dating dilemma. Since it will eventually get to this, I'll split it into Girl A and Girl B.

Girl A is awesome. She loves tattoos, she's a big sports fan except baseball, we love the same music and same movies, she's currently not in school like myself, she's 19, she's more attractive than Girl B, and I feel like there's a slightly better chance of "scoring" if you will. The negative is that she missed our 2nd date and we didn't talk much after, but there's still some kind of interest from both parties*.

Girl B is equally as awesome. She likes tattoos, she's a big sports fan except basketball, we like some of the same music and movies and all that, there's minimum to no chance of scoring because she attends a Christian university, she's also 19. There's definitely interest between both parties, however she isn't as attractive as Girl A and she's bigger.

So, since OSOT is great at advice, #TeamGirlA or #TeamGirlB?

*We were supposed to watch the Packers game last week, but I had a change of plans and hung out with a friend before he went back to school. So we both want an eventual 2nd date.

I say B. Depends on how bad you wanna score.

[TripleCrown9]

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I say B. Depends on how bad you wanna score.

I said this in the other thread, but it's not my sole focus. However, all my past relationships involved those activities, so I wouldn't complain if my next one did as well.

[HHHBigFan]

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I'm close to pulling the plug on my profile. Tired of looking at the same old faces and realizing either A. I'm not interested in them or B. They're not interested in me.

I feel the exact same way, the rare ones I'm interested in never reply (and its not like I'm just trying to talk to models or anything either) and there are hardly any new faces.

Its getting more and more frustrating so I'm close too.

[WDOgF0reL1fe]

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Is there a reason you can't go out with both until you decide which one you hit it off better with?

It's not like you're exclusive with one or the other at this point.

Ive been doing this for a couple weeks now...
It's starting to get a little difficult...
Balancing each one.

However, as of now
the perks are plentiful if you catch my drift

[bichettehappens]

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I agree with Girl A. Without saying something to get me in trouble on here....I've had bad experiences with girls that are super into their faith so unless you are as well that's something I've learned to avoid.

As far as my situation, I called girl out via text since I'm not about to drive 40 minutes to her place and 40 minutes back to have that talk. She was pretty much in denial, played dumb to even having account at first before insisting she has no idea why it would say she was online. I don't buy it considering I remember it being one of those most visited websites that pop up on Chrome on her laptop. Either way she keeps telling me she really, really likes me and wants to talk to me tonight. I told her sure, but we'll see how it goes.

If it were me in that situation, I'd keep things going with her while also pursuing other avenues.

And triplecrown, I'd keep it going with both until a clear front-runner emerges and things start getting serious. Although, if you're not "equally yolked" with girl B, I don't really see that going anywhere, but I just base that off my own experiences with girls that were more religious than I. I don't know your situation.

This all is coming from someone who prefers serious relationships over random hookups, but I'm assuming you're both fairly young? Keep your options open, it doesn't make you a dick, especially in cubsfan's scenario. If she's not willing to commit exclusively to you, no reason for you to do the same, but also no reason to just ditch her completely if you like her quite a bit and get along well, just don't put all your eggs in that basket.

Triple it doesn't make you a dick either to keep things going with both because both situations are fairly green in that you've only been on one date with each, if I read correctly. It'd be foolish of them to expect that you are already committed to them so quickly.

[WDOgF0reL1fe]

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Ok guys, I've found myself in a situation. Spoilered for relative length, copied from Off-Topic. For reference, Girl B is the one I met on PoF.

Spoiler

Guys I'm having a dating dilemma. Since it will eventually get to this, I'll split it into Girl A and Girl B.

Girl A is awesome. She loves tattoos, she's a big sports fan except baseball, we love the same music and same movies, she's currently not in school like myself, she's 19, she's more attractive than Girl B, and I feel like there's a slightly better chance of "scoring" if you will. The negative is that she missed our 2nd date and we didn't talk much after, but there's still some kind of interest from both parties*.

Girl B is equally as awesome. She likes tattoos, she's a big sports fan except basketball, we like some of the same music and movies and all that, there's minimum to no chance of scoring because she attends a Christian university, she's also 19. There's definitely interest between both parties, however she isn't as attractive as Girl A and she's bigger.

So, since OSOT is great at advice, #TeamGirlA or #TeamGirlB?

*We were supposed to watch the Packers game last week, but I had a change of plans and hung out with a friend before he went back to school. So we both want an eventual 2nd date.

Y NO PICS!?
I know you got it in you

[TripleCrown9]

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Y NO PICS!?
I know you got it in you

Lol fine. Girl A first. Keep in mind, she's attractive to me.

[TripleCrown9]

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And Girl B, the one from PoF.

[ubernoob]

This quandary just solved itself.

[WDOgF0reL1fe]

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This quandary just solved itself.

Jesus, it's not even close
#Teamwhywasthisevenaquestion