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You can just tell she's a bitch. He deserves better.Comment
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Re: Anyone try online dating sites?
Yeah, I think he's said she can be real snooty.
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TripleCrown,
Ignoring the pics, I agree that Girl A should have been dropped when she started to ignore you. My gut feeling (and I could be wrong, but it seems to be the guy thing to do) is that you kept her around as an option because, well...because she's hotter.
And that's okay so long as you don't let that make you change anything about yourself. If you're looking to just score, who cares if she ignores you if every 2-3 weeks she's doing other things to make you forget? You know?
But, if you're looking for something serious, it will never work until she matures. And here's the thing: she's won't mature for you. You will end up being the guy she dumps on so she can realize she needs to mature.
Girl B isn't very attractive to me and it seems you don't think she's as attractive either. But, I know what it's like to meet a girl that has bursting personality and just matches you. A below average girl in the looks department can jump to average just based off an incredible matching personality and I would give her my attention simply because I'm enjoying myself. It seems this is how you feel about her.
If you want that connection with someone that shares it, then that's where you go. You're not marrying the girl. If you ever decide you can't no longer do it, you can call it off. It sucks to hurt someone if they like you, but my general feeling is everyone gets over everyone.
It's not Girl A vs. Girl B. It's casual vs. serious. What do you want right now?"It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace
"You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob NeyerComment
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"It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace
"You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob NeyerComment
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Would it be considered unacceptable to hit up a girl on FB, looking to go out sometime?
I feel like that might be bordering on the creepy line, seeing technically FB isn't a online dating service and people don't sign up to use it as such.
But man, this girl......me want lol
PS - Working full time pretty much kills the time to go out and actually meet women.Cubs | Bulls | Dolphins | 'Noles
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"Heroes get remembered, but legends never die..."
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Re: Anyone try online dating sites?
Do you know her already or friends with her? Just send her a message and be honest, but tactful. If she comes back with a bitchy response then no sweat off your back.
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The artist formerly known as "13"
"Heroes get remembered, but legends never die..."
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"It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace
"You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob NeyerComment
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Well, you have a legit social connection so that's not creepy. Just send her a message and ask her if she'd be interested in catching up sometime. Creepy, to me, is cruising your friends' friend list and hitting up females that way. I'm sure guys have been successful with that, but I would feel weirded out.
Speaking of facebook - do you guys add any of these girls? I haven't "friended" anybody I've dated in the past two years, but have realized it can be a helpful tool.
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This. It's how I reconnected with a girl I knew in middle school, actually. I sent her a message on Facebook over winter break a couple years ago and talked a bit with her, but we didn't set up a hangout. Turns out, I was in the same class as her cousin the following semester of college and the cousin set up a hangout.
We started dating after that. Unfortunately, she turned out to be bat**** crazy and we only dated for a month.
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Def makes me feel a bit better about going through with it. Now the hard part is figuring out what to say in the tactful message so i don't come off like a creeper lolCubs | Bulls | Dolphins | 'Noles
The artist formerly known as "13"
"Heroes get remembered, but legends never die..."
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I really should move to Brooklyn. I'm missing out hot girls who dress up as Poison Ivy and have this in their profile: "In the meantime, I'm looking for a relaxed person to go to dive bars, play co-op Lego Batman, and watch Netflix at 2 am with me."
95% match too.Member of The OS Baseball Rocket Scientists AssociationComment
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