Dealing with rejection

[NYG_Meth]

Re: Dealing with rejection

Hey, I (20) recently went on this date with this girl (19)

Until last night I was really confident in myself, but now I'm really butt hurt. Lets just say me and her are complete opposites. I love sports, she hates sports. She believes in her religion, I believe in nothing. Different music styles ect.

She had this uncanny ability to make me feel extremely bored and nervous. I actually started watching the Laker game on the plasmas inside the resturant. But other than that I could of not of been less cool. I would say I'm a little better looking than average, but my question is...Was it my confidence? Or would she atleast keep me around if I was tremendously great looking? Not that I care cuz we are polar opposites...Again guys...We have all been butt hurt. Well atleast most of us have.

Does anyone else have a story so I dont feel like such crap? lol

In my own personal experience, regardless of how confident I am, there are always certain girls that can make me uncomfortable. When you meet these girls who make you question yourself, you sorta feel the need to try and prove something to them (or yourself)---- that despite feeling like you're not necessarily good enough or cool enough, you want to show her that you are. You can waste a lot of time and energy trying to change yourself to meet these girls' standards, but you'll pretty much always be better off looking for someone you can be comfortable around.

[Rawdeal28]

Re: Dealing with rejection

Maybe that's right. Maybe I hate my "game."

But I hate that I need "game" and that a girl just can't like me how I am. I have to go out and act a certain way because that's what they want? Get the hell outta here. (That's not directed at you, but at girls/society).

everyone has game. some more than others. u just need to polish yours up playa. its not about acting like someone else. its about being YOURSELF and being CONFIDENT! thats what having "game" is.

women love confidence. its the single most important trait when dealing with women. money gets ur foot in the door. confidence keeps them around. men with no game who use money to get women end up becoming tricks. women dont respect tricks.

G.I.C

GAME
INTELLIGENCE
COMMON SENSE

After reading the OP... I fail to see any sign of rejection there.

I'm the same age as some of these posters and y'all get butt hurt too much. Get out of the house and deal with women more. You know how many are out there if you put the controller down right? :P

good point though

He needs to post those Mack Lessons on here again.

ask and u shall recieve

http://macklessonsradio.com/index/mack-lessons-radio-archives-episodes-20-thru-181

show #38 "fear of rejection"