Ex/Freind Problems

[trobinson97]

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Isn't there some sort of age limit for OS? This sounds like seventh grade relationship drama.

Let your friend live his life. Don't see why you'd encourage the girl in question to tart it up, though. You'll have her sobbing in a few weeks about how everyone thinks she's a slut.

Haha doesn't it though?

Yeah man, keep this one schtum. Tell her that she needs to direct all question about him to him.

[HiJumpr111]

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At any point in this...Did Mr.Roper or Mr. Furley walk in get the wrong impression?

This is one of the funniest posts I've ever read on OS.
Totally made my day, bud.
(Unfortunately most people under 30 will have no idea what it means.)

[sb24]

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Hey just tell her you have never seen him in a good relationship so dont get her hopes up and move on. Tell her what her what it is, he accendently leads girls on, then moves on without warning. You dont have to mention that he is gay. If she dont want to listen, well you gave your advise. If she keeps asking whats wrong with him you can look at her and say "i thought i told you to move on ".

But absoultly say it in a nice way(he is your friend right), make him out to still be a good guy, and do not mention his secret(although i dont think you would). She doesnt have to know why hes bad at relationships only that she should stay away. You dont know why either its just something you noticed. That way you protect both your friends.

And if you friend is gay, tell him not to lead your friend on. Otherwise i would start to get mad at him. Tell him to move on to the next since it doesnt matter anyway, he isnt actually looking for a relationship. Wow this turned out to be long.

[Brandwin]

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At any point in this...Did Mr.Roper or Mr. Furley walk in get the wrong impression?

I am so confused after reading that.

I'd tell her, then post it on your Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, and whatever else you may be able to list it on.

This is one of the funniest posts I've ever read on OS.
Totally made my day, bud.
(Unfortunately most people under 30 will have no idea what it means.)

I am under 30, but watched a lot of reruns.

That's a horrible idea. Nobody has the right to "out" a homosexual other than themselves. .

I agree. Don't say anything at all.

One thing I don't understand and maybe you can help. You dated this woman, y'all broke up. Still friends, now one of your good friends is trying to get with your ex? To me, that's a no no and I don't understand why a gay man would try to get with his friends ex girlfriend.

[slickdtc]

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One thing I don't understand and maybe you can help. You dated this woman, y'all broke up. Still friends, now one of your good friends is trying to get with your ex? To me, that's a no no and I don't understand why a gay man would try to get with his friends ex girlfriend.

I guess it wouldn't bother me if I broke up with some girl because I hated her. If you're breaking up with her, then usually at that time you've lost some of those feelings for the girl. Also, this dude's gay, so maybe the OP doesn't feel threatened by him even if he still has feelings for his ex. That could lead to terrible things if his gay friend does get with his ex, then the OP decides he wants to get back with his ex.

[Brandwin]

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I guess it wouldn't bother me if I broke up with some girl because I hated her. If you're breaking up with her, then usually at that time you've lost some of those feelings for the girl. Also, this dude's gay, so maybe the OP doesn't feel threatened by him even if he still has feelings for his ex. That could lead to terrible things if his gay friend does get with his ex, then the OP decides he wants to get back with his ex.

Yeah, but if you are friends with someone, ex's are off limits no matter what.

[slickdtc]

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Yeah, but if you are friends with someone, ex's are off limits no matter what.

Yeah, that's typically the rule. But if I broke up with a girl and I did it for a reason (like... I don't like her anymore) and one of my friends got with her, I'd just make fun of him all the time. I shouldn't be having feelings for her if I broke up with her and I'd probably clown my friend with the whole sloppy seconds thing. So it wouldn't bother me personally in that case.

But if she broke my heart or something, the situation would be a bit different.

[Jukeman]

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Hold up..Im confused....

Your female friend and your male friend who is gay are hooking up???

If so then yea I would tell her or atleast ask him to tell her....

There is notthing worst than a man on the down low.....

Especially if they are gonna have sexual relations....

.02

[Heelfan71]

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tell her "if you had a penis he would hook up with you" and let her figure out the rest.

[Brandwin]

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tell her "if you had a penis he would hook up with you" and let her figure out the rest.

Brilliant!

[Watson]

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Isn't there some sort of age limit for OS? This sounds like seventh grade relationship drama.

Let your friend live his life. Don't see why you'd encourage the girl in question to tart it up, though. You'll have her sobbing in a few weeks about how everyone thinks she's a slut.

Im 17, he just turned 18.

[Watson]

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Hold up..Im confused....

Your female friend and your male friend who is gay are hooking up???

If so then yea I would tell her or atleast ask him to tell her....

There is notthing worst than a man on the down low.....

Especially if they are gonna have sexual relations....

.02

well, in Louisiana, gays are kinda of a taboo subject. we have nowhere near the number of homosexuals as other region of the US. so its kind of a bag deal if hes gay...so he puts up a front so he wont be outed.

Yeah, that's typically the rule. But if I broke up with a girl and I did it for a reason (like... I don't like her anymore) and one of my friends got with her, I'd just make fun of him all the time. I shouldn't be having feelings for her if I broke up with her and I'd probably clown my friend with the whole sloppy seconds thing. So it wouldn't bother me personally in that case.

But if she broke my heart or something, the situation would be a bit different.

well the fact that im one of the 2 people in the world who know his secret made me want to allow it. to see if he actually does do the deed. hes done this before. and right about the time he gets them to drop the panties (i guess that's where being gay comes in handy) he always make a b.s excuse

one time he had a chick wearing nothing put but panties and texted me to call him and make it seem important. true story.


and FWIW i told the girl "IDK try show more skin" and laughed my *** off at kyle, which posting would violate TOS im certain.

[CWSapp757]

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well the fact that im one of the 2 people in the world who know his secret made me want to allow it. to see if he actually does do the deed. hes done this before. and right about the time he gets them to drop the panties (i guess that's where being gay comes in handy) he always make a b.s excuse

one time he had a chick wearing nothing put but panties and texted me to call him and make it seem important. true story.


and FWIW i told the girl "IDK try show more skin" and laughed my *** off at kyle, which posting would violate TOS im certain.

Man, it really seems like you think it's pretty humerous if anything. The fact that he cried when he revealed it and continues to attempt to cover up his sexuality by "pursuing" women shows you that dude is dealing with an internal battle. I mean, if that is really your boy like you say it is, maybe you should be more concerned with helping him be more comfortable in his own skin as opposed to sitting back and seeing how far he will go trying to live a lie.

[Watson]

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Man, it really seems like you think it's pretty humerous if anything. The fact that he cried when he revealed it and continues to attempt to cover up his sexuality by "pursuing" women shows you that dude is dealing with an internal battle. I mean, if that is really your boy like you say it is, maybe you should be more concerned with helping him be more comfortable in his own skin as opposed to sitting back and seeing how far he will go trying to live a lie.

if i found it funny i would not have posted it. he is my boy and hes comfortable with me joking with him. i mean hes not an emotional mess or anything. not yet at least. Peyton is the most emotional out of any one of us in this little love triangle. i kinda feel obliged to tell her, but i mean it's like the adage goes, bros before hoes.


but at the rate hes going, i wont be surprised if he comes openly out this summer. but thats the thing im afraid for. when he does come out... well like i said, unfortunately southern LA isn't as open to gays as maybe California or New York.

[CWSapp757]

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if i found it funny i would not have posted it. he is my boy and hes comfortable with me joking with him. i mean hes not an emotional mess or anything. not yet at least. Peyton is the most emotional out of any one of us in this little love triangle. i kinda feel obliged to tell her, but i mean it's like the adage goes, bros before hoes.


but at the rate hes going, i wont be surprised if he comes openly out this summer. but thats the thing im afraid for. when he does come out... well like i said, unfortunately southern LA isn't as open to gays as maybe California or New York.

Indeed homie. You have the right idea. And as many have already stated, don't say anything cause she'll more than likely find out on her own eventually.