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  • CMH
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    • Oct 2002
    • 26203

    #46
    Re: Wife and I are hurting.

    It does happen a lot, but it never truly hurts until it happens to you. I do hope the best for you and your family. I'm sure you will treasure the two wonderful daughters you have now even more than ever.
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    • Fiddy
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      • Jul 2002
      • 12675

      #47
      Re: Wife and I are hurting.

      Originally posted by stlstudios189
      Hey guys. I don't know why I'm posting this except I'm hurting and just need to get it out. My wife and I were expecting our 3rd child this year and we were both very excited. We already have 2 wonderful daughters and could not wait to see what God had in store for us this time around.

      Friday she had some problems and we were in the Hospital for 9 hours. She was told it's an infection and to take it easy.

      Saturday I am at work and she is feeling better untill around 5 am.

      Sunday I take our 2 girls to the store and she is trying to take a nap and while I'm gone she losses the baby at 18 weeks pregnant. It is the worst day of my life and I can't stop hurting inside. He was a boy and I lost him before I ever got to know him.

      I don't know what you guys believe in but, I believe my son is in heaven and I will see him when I get there.

      Thanks for letting me get this out guys.
      sorry to hear that man, we went through the same thing 4 years ago..

      thoughts and prayers to ya!!
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      • DC
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        • Oct 2002
        • 17996

        #48
        Re: Wife and I are hurting.

        Originally posted by ExtremeGamer
        I'm very sorry to hear that. We have lost 2 children due to miscarriage, but our 3rd attempt is now a wonderful boy who turns 1 on Thursday. Don't give up hope if you want to try again.
        Damn. That is tough man

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        • Bacardi151
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          • Aug 2002
          • 3114

          #49
          Re: Wife and I are hurting.

          As others have mentioned, our thoughts and prayers are with you my friend. There are many things a family should not have to suffer through; this is one of them.
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          • DaveDQ
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            • Sep 2003
            • 7664

            #50
            Re: Wife and I are hurting.

            I'm so sorry for you and your wife. My wife and I went through two miscarriages together. It's incredibly tough to go through. The pain I watched her experience also reinforces the hurt I felt. I saw what Steve mentioned about making sure you help her understand it's not her fault. For a woman carrying a child, this is very difficult to undergo. She feels deeply responsible for that baby. I pray you have patience and that you help each other walk through this time of grief.

            I would also like to suggest that you and your wife try and do something to remember your baby. I waited a while, but I planted a tree in our front yard in remembrance. It can be something as simple as that but it is meaningful and helpful.

            Again, my thoughts and prayers go out to you.
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            • stlstudios189
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              • Jan 2009
              • 2649

              #51
              Re: Wife and I are hurting.

              Originally posted by DaveDQ
              I'm so sorry for you and your wife. My wife and I went through two miscarriages together. It's incredibly tough to go through. The pain I watched her experience also reinforces the hurt I felt. I saw what Steve mentioned about making sure you help her understand it's not her fault. For a woman carrying a child, this is very difficult to undergo. She feels deeply responsible for that baby. I pray you have patience and that you help each other walk through this time of grief.

              I would also like to suggest that you and your wife try and do something to remember your baby. I waited a while, but I planted a tree in our front yard in remembrance. It can be something as simple as that but it is meaningful and helpful.

              Again, my thoughts and prayers go out to you.
              Thank you all so much. We are pulling together everyday is one day at a time. My wife and I are so much closer than we ever were before. Our faith is stronger than ever. We will honor him and never forget him for sure. I am thankful to have the ultrasound picture and when we are healed my wife and I both will have daily reminders of him.

              Thank you again friends.
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              • Holic
                All Star
                • Feb 2003
                • 6424

                #52
                Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                Your family is in my thoughts and prayers man. So sorry to hear this..stay strong brother.

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                • WeightRoomKing
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                  • Sep 2009
                  • 61

                  #53
                  Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                  I'm sending a few prayers up right now.

                  Try and stay strong for the family.

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                  • rockchisler
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                    • Oct 2002
                    • 8290

                    #54
                    Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                    Sorry to here that, wish i had some encouraging words besides my prayers are with you..
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                    • BurghFan
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                      • Jul 2009
                      • 10046

                      #55
                      Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                      Originally posted by roadman
                      Those stats are probably all reported rates. I wonder how much the unreported rate is.
                      Some scientists and physicians think that early miscarriages that occur within the first few weeks of gestation before pregnancy is even detected may be fairly common.

                      And to the original poster, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. As others have said, just hang in their and cherish your 2 daughters. My aunt on my mom's side lost her 1st pregnancy in the 5th month and an aunt on my dads side had 3 miscarriages (including 1 in the 7th month) before having 2 healthy boys.
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                      • stlstudios189
                        MVP
                        • Jan 2009
                        • 2649

                        #56
                        Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                        Just want to give everyone an update. My wife and I thank you all for your prayers we needed them more than ever. Life is getting better everday. I want him in my life so much but, I will see him in heaven, I love you Noah.

                        Again thanks for everyone's touching words, it's great to have such wonderful people here at OS

                        Tragedy can pull couples together or tear them apart and I am glad that this has made me cherish my 2 daughters and my wife more than ever. I am a better person, father, husband because this happened. I am not glad that it happened and feel pain everyday because of it but, I am proud of the person it has made me become. God had a plan for him and maybe this was the plan for my son.

                        Thank you agiain guys.
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                        • Scottdau
                          Banned
                          • Feb 2003
                          • 32580

                          #57
                          Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                          Originally posted by stlstudios189
                          Just want to give everyone an update. My wife and I thank you all for your prayers we needed them more than ever. Life is getting better everday. I want him in my life so much but, I will see him in heaven, I love you Noah.

                          Again thanks for everyone's touching words, it's great to have such wonderful people here at OS

                          Tragedy can pull couples together or tear them apart and I am glad that this has made me cherish my 2 daughters and my wife more than ever. I am a better person, father, husband because this happened. I am not glad that it happened and feel pain everyday because of it but, I am proud of the person it has made me become. God had a plan for him and maybe this was the plan for my son.

                          Thank you agiain guys.
                          This is true. Sorry for your loss. My best friend had a miscarriage too about 3 months ago. They are strong believers, so they say it was God's plan. Which is was, but still not easy to go through. You have my respect and prayers. And you are right enjoy your daughters and wife every day. My other friend is burying a wife. She just die unexpected. Leaving a husband and a 7 year old son. I don't know why God allows or does thing he does, but we know it is for his glory. You will see Noah some day and that doesn't make it any easier, but it does give a little confront. Be strong brother and if you need to talk feel free to PM.

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                          • jct32
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                            • Jan 2006
                            • 3437

                            #58
                            Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                            Originally posted by Scottdau
                            This is true. Sorry for your loss. My best friend had a miscarriage too about 3 months ago. They are strong believers, so they say it was God's plan. Which is was, but still not easy to go through. You have my respect and prayers. And you are right enjoy your daughters and wife every day. My other friend is burying a wife. She just die unexpected. Leaving a husband and a 7 year old son. I don't know why God allows or does thing he does, but we know it is for his glory. You will see Noah some day and that doesn't make it any easier, but it does give a little confront. Be strong brother and if you need to talk feel free to PM.
                            STL is sounds like you are grounded in your faith and know what's going on. I thank the Lord for that because I know that He has been there to comfort you through this tough situation. I recently read a book called "A Case For Faith" by Lee Strobel. I would highly recommend it. It also has a part in the book where one of the guys talks about the loss of his child and what came out of it. I think it might encourage you. Shoot me a PM and I'll send that excerpt to you.

                            If you ever need anything you can send me a PM brother, I'm here for you.
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                            • GAMEC0CK2002
                              Stayin Alive
                              • Aug 2002
                              • 10384

                              #59
                              Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                              So sorry to hear that. I can't even imagine what y'all are going through. Everything happens for a reason, even though rarely get a reason why on this side. Prayers to you and your family.

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                              • ScoobySnax
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                                • Mar 2009
                                • 7624

                                #60
                                Re: Wife and I are hurting.

                                This really saddens me man. My prayers go out to you and your family. I think you'll be just fine in the end

                                On a side note, I am VERY surprised to hear that this happens as much as it does (just in this thread alone). I always assume that a very minute number of people experience this. Obviously not
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