Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

[Po Pimp]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

I was never really good at hints in High School. One I didn't miss though was at the end of my senior year.

Me and my buddy were working late on the school yearbook and this girl who was in our class came over to the trailer to hang out. She had the reputation of being easy so it was no shock when she asked my buddy and i to come over to her house to hang out in her hot tub alone. Obviously she was looking for some three way loving... but I wasn't having any of that. I thankfully passed, and as someone said earlier in this thread, I didn't end up with 'party pimples'.

One that was even more obvious, but I missed it was senior year of college. I had just broken up with my girlfriend and we were having a house party. I was talking with this chick on the couch and we were huddled close together because there were others on the couch. Well she said she was going to go back to her place. As she was getting up, she grabbed my crotch to 'balance' herself from falling. She smiled, lingered at the door (watching me the whole time) waiting for me and when I finally didn't respond, she left. My buddies rushed up to from across the room and told me what an idiot I was for missing the sign. I got up to go after her, but by the time I got outside, she was long gone. We were never really close after that.

The first story doesn't really count since u made a conscience decision that you didn't want "party pimples." The second example, ummm...what were you thinking???

[jeremym480]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

I was never really good at hints in High School. One I didn't miss though was at the end of my senior year.

Me and my buddy were working late on the school yearbook and this girl who was in our class came over to the trailer to hang out. She had the reputation of being easy so it was no shock when she asked my buddy and i to come over to her house to hang out in her hot tub alone. Obviously she was looking for some three way loving... but I wasn't having any of that. I thankfully passed, and as someone said earlier in this thread, I didn't end up with 'party pimples'.

One that was even more obvious, but I missed it was senior year of college. I had just broken up with my girlfriend and we were having a house party. I was talking with this chick on the couch and we were huddled close together because there were others on the couch. Well she said she was going to go back to her place. As she was getting up, she grabbed my crotch to 'balance' herself from falling. She smiled, lingered at the door (watching me the whole time) waiting for me and when I finally didn't respond, she left. My buddies rushed up to from across the room and told me what an idiot I was for missing the sign. I got up to go after her, but by the time I got outside, she was long gone. We were never really close after that.

First story... Did your friend hit it??

Second story... All I can say is Damn, you really dropped the ball on that one.... Well, actually maybe she did...

[VDusen04]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

No if you go out with a person that many times, no way are you lacking in confidence. You would be too shy and turn her down if she asked you out or to go anywhere with her. He went out with her for DAYS.

So he didnt suffer from lack of confidence, he was just, like he said it, DENSE. But hey you know if he is still friends with her it wasnt a total lost. Good friends are hard to find.

Yeah man, you and Matt are both right. I won't even try to defend it. It was not one of my finer moments.

[matt8204]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

No if you go out with a person that many times, no way are you lacking in confidence. You would be too shy and turn her down if she asked you out or to go anywhere with her. He went out with her for DAYS.

So he didnt suffer from lack of confidence, he was just, like he said it, DENSE. But hey you know if he is still friends with her it wasnt a total lost. Good friends are hard to find.

True, but going out with someone and taking it to the next level (physically) are two different things. Sometimes a girl will give you a lot of chances to make a move before giving up. I know this kid who was seeing a girl for about two months before he even kissed her. She was just about ready to give up and stop seeing him when he finally got on the ball. They're still going out five years later.

[Lintyfresh85]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

First story... Did your friend hit it??

Second story... All I can say is Damn, you really dropped the ball on that one.... Well, actually maybe she did...

No, neither of us got with her. A couple of my other buddies did though.

Second one... I think I was kind of scared of her. She was assertive, sexy, smart etc. etc. I think she might have been too much woman for me to handle back then. If I had a do over... I'm doing everything in my power to get with her that night though. The fun that would have been!

[BigTigLSU]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

Funny I just had this conversation about this the other day with a few of my co workers....

I have never been intimitaded by women but I was never the shoot first kinda guy... so I might converse with a female and not push up on her unless I felt she was intrested, but in my younger days my female comphrehension skills were lacking... Back at LSU I had a few times where I straight played myself out of getting some. I had this real fine female in one of my classes she was kinda quiet but we would kinda talk before and after class nothing major just your normal small talk... So she missed a day of class and that Friday she came back she asked if she could get my notes... I was like sure but my hand writing might be hard to read... so she says why dont you come over and we can study and go over anything she missed. I was like cool... and for some reason it didnt seem strange she was inviting my over to her house to study instead a library or student union or a coffe shop etc... So she picks me up I get to her crib we start studying and she starts telling me how she broke with her boyfriend and she has been single for almost a year... still hasnt hit me yet... Then she tells me how her roommate had already left for the weekend and she is going to lonely by herself... still hasnt hit me yet... We go over a few things but being that she only missed day of class there wasnt much to cover so she is like how I am such a nice guy and how she is grateful for me helping her out... My dumb *** still is oblivious that she is coming on to me. So I guess she figured she would try one last clue... she tells me her internet isn't working on her pc and asked if I could fix it but she says her roomates works but she doesnt like using her roomates pc I ask her why and she tells me couldnt download porn on her roommates stuff and then it hit me... The broad is freak needless to say I almost f'd that up...

Those were the days... lmao

[Po Pimp]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

Funny I just had this conversation about this the other day with a few of my co workers....

I have never been intimitaded by women but I was never the shoot first kinda guy... so I might converse with a female and not push up on her unless I felt she was intrested, but in my younger days my female comphrehension skills were lacking... Back at LSU I had a few times where I straight played myself out of getting some. I had this real fine female in one of my classes she was kinda quiet but we would kinda talk before and after class nothing major just your normal small talk... So she missed a day of class and that Friday she came back she asked if she could get my notes... I was like sure but my hand writing might be hard to read... so she says why dont you come over and we can study and go over anything she missed. I was like cool... and for some reason it didnt seem strange she was inviting my over to her house to study instead a library or student union or a coffe shop etc... So she picks me up I get to her crib we start studying and she starts telling me how she broke with her boyfriend and she has been single for almost a year... still hasnt hit me yet... Then she tells me how her roommate had already left for the weekend and she is going to lonely by herself... still hasnt hit me yet... We go over a few things but being that she only missed day of class there wasnt much to cover so she is like how I am such a nice guy and how she is grateful for me helping her out... My dumb *** still is oblivious that she is coming on to me. So I guess she figured she would try one last clue... she tells me her internet isn't working on her pc and asked if I could fix it but she says her roomates works but she doesnt like using her roomates pc I ask her why and she tells me couldnt download porn on her roommates stuff and then it hit me... The broad is freak needless to say I almost f'd that up...

Those were the days... lmao

Man! Good thing you redeemed yourself...I WISH a chick did make it THAT obvious to me and I didn't take advantage...LOL. I miss college...

[gopadres]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

Answer to OP: Nope. And now she's my wife.

[stewaat]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

My answer: nope.

I pick them up right away...unfortunately the girl was in college tonight and a little thick for my taste...real cute face though. Most guys would say I'm crazy but I'm shallow...

She was so obvious. Danced with her a couple songs then said I'm going to the bathroom...only to never return haha.

Some other dude with lower standards can have her.

[no juice]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

Funny I just had this conversation about this the other day with a few of my co workers....

I have never been intimitaded by women but I was never the shoot first kinda guy... so I might converse with a female and not push up on her unless I felt she was intrested, but in my younger days my female comphrehension skills were lacking... Back at LSU I had a few times where I straight played myself out of getting some. I had this real fine female in one of my classes she was kinda quiet but we would kinda talk before and after class nothing major just your normal small talk... So she missed a day of class and that Friday she came back she asked if she could get my notes... I was like sure but my hand writing might be hard to read... so she says why dont you come over and we can study and go over anything she missed. I was like cool... and for some reason it didnt seem strange she was inviting my over to her house to study instead a library or student union or a coffe shop etc... So she picks me up I get to her crib we start studying and she starts telling me how she broke with her boyfriend and she has been single for almost a year... still hasnt hit me yet... Then she tells me how her roommate had already left for the weekend and she is going to lonely by herself... still hasnt hit me yet... We go over a few things but being that she only missed day of class there wasnt much to cover so she is like how I am such a nice guy and how she is grateful for me helping her out... My dumb *** still is oblivious that she is coming on to me. So I guess she figured she would try one last clue... she tells me her internet isn't working on her pc and asked if I could fix it but she says her roomates works but she doesnt like using her roomates pc I ask her why and she tells me couldnt download porn on her roommates stuff and then it hit me... The broad is freak needless to say I almost f'd that up...

Those were the days... lmao

Way to recover

[no juice]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

I guess this falls into the category of being "slow" but you can decide. In college with one of my smoking buddies...a nice track chick from Liverpool, England with the accent and everything. Now we had our "missions" plenty of times so to me she was just another cool chick. Well we went to some frat pary and it was getting lame. We stayed a few doors down from each other so i didn't think much of it when she said let's go back to the room...as this was the normal phrase at the conclusion of our "event". well like normal she came in my room eating my munchies and what not, and im full of that **** so im ready to crash. lying on my back half dead to the world, she prepares to give out some neck. At that instance a pube gets caught in the zipper so i flenced...

Now let me take this time to say that most of the beds(mine included) were elevated to create extra space in the room

but anyways as i feel this, i flench a little and throw her off balance. tell me why this girl fell off the bed and hurt her knee, not being able to compete...

we both lost a little on that one

[Gibbz]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

I almost always catch the hints, but have had many occasions when I couldn't decide whether to act on it or not.


And I opened this topic hoping for some insight from TarheelMan.

[matt8204]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

My answer: nope.

I pick them up right away...unfortunately the girl was in college tonight and a little thick for my taste...real cute face though. Most guys would say I'm crazy but I'm shallow...

She was so obvious. Danced with her a couple songs then said I'm going to the bathroom...only to never return haha.

Some other dude with lower standards can have her.

Harsh, dude. HARSH.:wink:

Hey, I'm the same way. I'm really picky, what can I tell you? It's just my personality. I look at it this way; why should the other person have to settle for someone who isn't really into them? It's not fair to either party in the relationship. So I'm actually looking out for them too.

[Gotmadskillzson]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

My answer: nope.

I pick them up right away...unfortunately the girl was in college tonight and a little thick for my taste...real cute face though. Most guys would say I'm crazy but I'm shallow...

She was so obvious. Danced with her a couple songs then said I'm going to the bathroom...only to never return haha.

Some other dude with lower standards can have her.

Fat chicks need love too.

[Cyros]

Re: Has there ever been a time you were slow to catch a hint regarding a female?

I almost always catch the hints, but have had many occasions when I couldn't decide whether to act on it or not.


And I opened this topic hoping for some insight from TarheelMan.

That is exactly what this thread is missing!