Females In Relationships That Wear Skimpy Clothing

[SPTO]

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It sounds to me with the story of the girl in the pic that they might be one of those "alternative lifestyle" couples. Certainly that isn't the case all the time with a lady that wears skimpy clothing but it's certainly possible.

IMO it's natural for a guy to get at least a little hot under the collar if his lady is showing off for the world to see but that's why there's this little thing called "trust". I would trust her not to go beyond wearing skimpy clothes and I hope that trust wouldn't be misguided.

[ANDROMADA 1]

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Women dress how they want period.You can only make suggestions.Its far fetched to think you can impose your will on their clothing.Unless it is grossly inappropriate then don't waste your breathe.Leave that petty stuff alone and be glad she aint doing meth.:wink:

[the_future420]

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Gotta try that

I'm telling you it works. Only thing is you can't do it where a lot of people see. It'll make the girl think you're tryna make her look bad. But if you do it real sly, u got a chance later on.

[Brandwin]

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Speaking of that, man I went to the club Saturday. Seen this dude dance with a female. After the dance she fans herself as if she is hat. This man took her to the bar, bought her some water. THEN asked her 2 friends if they were thirsty. Bought them waters too.

The girls got the waters and walked down to the bottom floor. Dude just stood there trying to pretend he was cool with it.

Damn shame

ROFL!!!

Thats why u dont buy girls drinks in the club. It never leads to anything good. Let her get drunk on some other dudes dollar and then you finish the deal. One of my favorite things to do in the club is go by the bar and ask a girl who is standing there what she's drinking for the night. You can see their eyes light up because they just know I'm gonna offer to buy a drink. Thats when I say, "good choice" and go on and order myself one of whatever I'm drinking. The disgust and disappointment on their face after I order is priceless.:wink:

Oddly enough, I've pulled a few girls later on in the night after doing this to them. I actually think they get turned on by the fact I wouldn't buy them a drink

[frostbyte06]

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One of my favorite things to do in the club is go by the bar and ask a girl who is standing there what she's drinking for the night. You can see their eyes light up because they just know I'm gonna offer to buy a drink. Thats when I say, "good choice" and go on and order myself one of whatever I'm drinking. The disgust and disappointment on their face after I order is priceless.:wink:

One of my boys used to do this back in the college days, it was straight comedy. We would just sit back and watch it go down and bust out laughing, just watching the girl's body language.

[KG]

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Its all good. I had to ask though.

[BIG CAROLINA]

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I disagree with your first point.

If a woman dresses like THAT BEFORE a relationship, I don't see how it is FAIR that she dresses like that AFTER she gets into one. Aren't you supposed to change certain things when you get someone in your life?

That is what a relationship is about right?

Phil Jackson has a problem with the way RoN Artest acted like a fool BEFORE the Lakers. SO because he finally joined the Lakers mean's Phil shouldn't reprimand the troubled dude from Queensbridge?

I hear what you are saying, but certain things with some of us are not up for negotiation. I am sure that there are some things that your woman wants to change about you but you are not having it.

So what is that when you first meet her, her uniform(s) to pull dudes? A lot of women wear what they wear for attraction reasons. But from my experience they also wear what they wear because they like it.

I have seen cats go through that same thing. Thinking that they could make their girls stop wearing the things that made them attracted to them in the first place and it has not worked yet. That is usually their #1 reason for their fights.

[yankeesgiants]

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Women dont dress for men, women dress for other women. If you and the same guy have the same suit on, your not going to care. If women have the same dress on, expect teeth sucking and one going home to change.

[Qb]

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Leave that petty stuff alone and be glad she aint doing meth.:wink:

Finally some wise words and a solid measuring stick for all situations...

[no juice]

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well to each it's own. i don't like the slutty clothes, but ironically i've seen some clothes in my wife's closet and oh my. though i've never seen her in them, every girl's wants to have that ****um dress. like chappelle says "just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean that they are a certain way"

[DC]

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They just want to look cute

[GSW]

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attention whores get charged to the game DC.

Personally i wouldnt get into any serious relationship with a girl that dresses like that off jump, second i would not allow her to go out and disrespect me by dressing like that...i would check her...and if the actions kept on going then i go get another female.

and LOL @ the buying of girls drinks at the club...pure comedy.

[TarHeelMan]

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I'm proud to say I've never bought a chick a drink at the club. Too many thirsty dudes in the spot for you to join the masses.

I think it's just common sense for a chick to tone it down after she's committed herself to a relationship with a dude. My wife was never one to wear stuff like that, but if we're stepping out somewhere, she'll ask me what I think. If the chick doesn't tone it down when she's out with her dude, it sends two messages: 1) her dude is weak and can't check her, and 2) even though she's with him, she's advertising her goods for whoever is bold enough to spit some game and take her from him. Neither may be true, but please believe that's what is running through dudes' heads.

[~LiverpoolRed~]

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Women that wear that type of clothing I steer clear of. My wife doesn't dress like that and I'm glad that she doesn't.

It seems that this trend has picked up over the last 10-15 years. The girls at my high school back in the early 90's did not dress the way the young girls do today. Not even close.

[CMH]

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If a woman dresses like THAT BEFORE a relationship, I don't see how it is FAIR that she dresses like that AFTER she gets into one. Aren't you supposed to change certain things when you get someone in your life?

That is what a relationship is about right?

Wow, I rarely ever disagree with you, but this I disagree with completely.

I agree that a relationship is about compromise, but telling someone they should change their style for you? I think that's pushing it too far. Why would you date someone that dressed a way you didn't like expecting them to change? I think that's just asking for a troubled relationship.