Females In Relationships That Wear Skimpy Clothing

[JBH3]

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The point is compromise isn't just a one way street. You don't get married or "go steady" with a woman and suddenly tell her how to live. I certainly enjoyed my bachelorhood - I could do whatever I want, whenever I wanted.

I used to come home and just relax after work and play video games for 5 hours. I realize I can't do that anymore. My wife was a little upset at the beginning because I was gaming too much. If you talked to a lot of "females" they'd say "A grown man shouldn't play video games!"

I realized I was spending too much time playing video games, so I changed my ways a bit. If she had her way I wouldn't play video games at all. Instead I set up some guidelines.

I tell her if I plan on doing something (like last night I had planned a Forza race night with some buddies) or if I need to play my Madden online franchise game, etc. Obviously I can't just tell her everyday that I want to play Madden all night. We have responsibilities and she still wants me to hang out with her.

This ALL sounds very familiar. :wink:

Considering how many people seem to think you feel this way, maybe you need to choose your words a little more carefully. Whether you are meaning to imply it or not, it seems like many of us are getting that feeling. Could have something to do with the tone you've conveyed in your multitude of previous relationship threads.

[Trevytrev11]

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I think a lot of guys enjoy their woman keeping up with their skimpy dress after they become a couple. Definitely not everyone, but there are plenty of guys out there who encourage their woman to dress provacitvely so they can show her off and make themselves the envy of other men.

I'm sure it makes men feel good about themselves when they walk into a restaurant, a bar or a club with the hottest girl in the room...and typically to be the "hot" girl in the room, you are going to have to show some skin.

As long as you are confident about the fact that regardless of who is looking at her, at the end of the night, she's going home with you, who cares?

**Also know that you may get in a fight or two with some meat head who doesn't respect your marriage and thinks he can do and say what he wants to whoever he wants.

[J.R. Locke]

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Thread....

Anyway I never have a problem with girlfriends that wear whatever they wear. Never been that big of an issue. I can only think of one time when a girl I was dating wore something that made me cringe. But that was because she was meeting grandma.

To answer the original question I never had to say something about my women's dress.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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LOL amazing what occured in the other thread after my last post in there.

[DickDalewood]

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First of all, define "skimpy clothing"... because a lot of people perceive that differently.

Second, my gf wears short skirts and tanks, or short dresses to the bars with her friends all the time. And, while she's there, dudes offer to buy her drinks. We've been dating for two years, I trust her, and have never been given a reason no to, so why the hell should I care? She's sexy and likes to look it when she goes out AND, because drunk guys are morons, she gets to drink free all night.

I fail to see the issue.

[kehlis]

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First of all, define "skimpy clothing"... because a lot of people perceive that differently.

Second, my gf wear short skirts and tanks, or short dresses to the bars with her friends all the time. And, while she's there, dudes offer to buy her drinks. We've been dating for two years, I trust her, and have never been given a reason no to, so why the hell should I care? She's sexy and likes to look it when she goes out AND because drunk guys are morons, she gets to drink free all night.

I fail to see the issue.

LOL, exactly, my ex used to dress similar to how you are describing your GF to dress and when we would go to the bar, I would love it when guys would buy her drinks! Smaller tab for me at the end of the night.

Also, there was no trust issue so I could care less how she dressed even when I wasn't out with her.

[jmood88]

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First of all, define "skimpy clothing"... because a lot of people perceive that differently.

Second, my gf wears short skirts and tanks, or short dresses to the bars with her friends all the time. And, while she's there, dudes offer to buy her drinks. We've been dating for two years, I trust her, and have never been given a reason no to, so why the hell should I care? She's sexy and likes to look it when she goes out AND, because drunk guys are morons, she gets to drink free all night.

I fail to see the issue.

[DC]You are being blind, when your female goes out she shouldn't be wearing that type of nonsense. My question is what is her REASON for dressing like that? What is she trying to say with that outfit?[/DC]

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Me personally, skimpy clothing = TRYING to look like a ho.

[Trevytrev11]

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Me personally, skimpy clothing = TRYING to look like a ho.

Then it just becomes each person's definition of "skimpy", which definitely has a whole lot of grey area.

Regardless, pretty girls are going to attract more attention than ugly ones whether their in a sweater or a short skirt. Obviously the skimpier the outfit, the more the scale tips to one side.

[JBH3]

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Me personally, skimpy clothing = TRYING to look like a ho.

Who are you more inclined to "holla" at?

[elgreazy1]

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Personally, those kind of "girls" don't do much for me. Their psyches, egos and confidence are so completely flawed in that they feel they must feel the need to "show off" in order to have a sense of self-worth. And with that, they will always feel the need to show off even if they are completely happy with their man. It's much like guys who feel the need to be "ripped & stripped"; they are so insecure that they must feel the need to upstage others. In the end, that's a very self-destructive mindset to have.

I honestly feel when getting into a relationship with someone of this nature, you're only setting yourself up for disaster. You either must be a man who has absolutely zero insecurity, someone who simply doesn't care or someone who is not serious about the relationship (ie: purely physical).

To me a good woman is someone who can look nice in public and is an absolute errr, uh "beast" in private, and that's the way I carry myself. I am not insecure in anyway with who or what I am. I don't feel the need to upstage people or to call attention to myself but at the same time I do dress nice, take care of my body, etc but only to appease myself and to look nice for my lady. She does the same.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Great post, greezy.

And JBH, I wouldn't "holla" at any of those of pictures you posted. Hell, how do you even "holla" at a picture?

[JBH3]

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Great post, greezy.

And JBH, I wouldn't "holla" at any of those of pictures you posted. Hell, how do you even "holla" at a picture?

[~LiverpoolRed~]

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Personally, those kind of "girls" don't do much for me. Their psyches, egos and confidence are so completely flawed in that they feel they must feel the need to "show off" in order to have a sense of self-worth. And with that, they will always feel the need to show off even if they are completely happy with their man. It's much like guys who feel the need to be "ripped & stripped"; they are so insecure that they must feel the need to upstage others. In the end, that's a very self-destructive mindset to have.

I honestly feel when getting into a relationship with someone of this nature, you're only setting yourself up for disaster. You either must be a man who has absolutely zero insecurity, someone who simply doesn't care or someone who is not serious about the relationship (ie: purely physical).

To me a good woman is someone who can look nice in public and is an absolute errr, uh "beast" in private, and that's the way I carry myself. I am not insecure in anyway with who or what I am. I don't feel the need to upstage people or to call attention to myself but at the same time I do dress nice, take care of my body, etc but only to appease myself and to look nice for my lady. She does the same.

Great post!

[ProfessaPackMan]

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I try to be, JBH