Females In Relationships That Wear Skimpy Clothing

[DC]

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Wow, I rarely ever disagree with you, but this I disagree with completely.

I agree that a relationship is about compromise, but telling someone they should change their style for you? I think that's pushing it too far. Why would you date someone that dressed a way you didn't like expecting them to change? I think that's just asking for a troubled relationship.

That is what compromise is to put it in a nice way. Think about it.

[JBH3]

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She wore the skimpy clothing to reel you in didn't she?

You liked it then, but now you don't like it?

Seems like all the flack you give females for being indecisive is in vain when you can't decide whether you like the way she dresses or you don't like the way she dresses.

"I liked it when you looked slutty when we met, but not so much anymore babe", "Do you think you could be less slutty?"

Seems like this either:

(A) An issue of insecure men who don't want the attention drawn to them by their woman.
(B) An issue of insecure men who don't trust their woman.
(C) A petty issue that are usually generated by females.
(D) A result of passive-agressive behavior, which is typically perpetrated by women, and sissy-men.
(E) A&B
(F) C&D
(G) If you're really screwed up -- All of the Above.

[KG]

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Women dont dress for men, women dress for other women. If you and the same guy have the same suit on, your not going to care. If women have the same dress on, expect teeth sucking and one going home to change.

Women dress for other women to compete for a man's attention.

[GSW]

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i dont think checking your woman so shes not flaunting her T&A to every other man has anythign to do with being insecure as a man.

Its about her respect to the man.

I personally dont date girls who dress like street whores...
And i definitely wouldnt want my "girl" dressing like that...if its anyone im coo with intially she would know never to disrespect me like that to begin with though

[muggins]

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That is what compromise is to put it in a nice way. Think about it.

No it isn't. Compromise is coming to a joint solution. If your "female" told you you can't wear jerseys anymore anytime, would that be compromise?

I was talking to a girl one time who wouldn't date dudes who wore jerseys (and I don't even go to clubs... I'm talking like on gameday or just around the house or out to Walmart, not at a formal dinner). I gave up on that one.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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DC, future, , KG, THM, and GSW spittin' that true knowledge in here. Imma try what future said out the next time I go out to the club lol.

But ill just say what one of my homeboys told me a while back:

"If the ***** wants to dress like a $100 ho, then that's exactly what imma treat her *** like. A ho".

So if my woman were to come out dressed like that(wouldn't be my girl anyway if I knew this was how she dressed from the start)but I definitely let her know to get her *** back upstairs and change clothes because she wouldn't come out the house with me looking like that.

[DC]

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Like I said man. The word compromise is a nice way of saying, "Change your ways since _____ reason/person doesn't like it."

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Basically.

[muggins]

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Have you guys ever been in a real relationship?

[DC]

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Women dont dress for men, women dress for other women. If you and the same guy have the same suit on, your not going to care. If women have the same dress on, expect teeth sucking and one going home to change.

Funny. I don't know if they will change but yea they will be pissed. But I blame that on women not having anything tangible to compete in. Yea they can try and out dress or out-beauty other women but unlike men women don't have much to compete against each other in.

So they do these things

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Have you guys ever been in a real relationship?

Yup. Next question.

[muggins]

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Yup. Next question.

And you really think that is what compromise is?

[muggins]

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Funny. I don't know if they will change but yea they will be pissed. But I blame that on women not having anything tangible to compete in. Yea they can try and out dress or out-beauty other women but unlike men women don't have much to compete against each other in.

So they do these things

Not like having children, or being successful at work, or being successful in academics, or playing sports, or numerous other activities?

I swear, reading some of these off-topic threads at OS make me (normally an anti-politically correct person) feel like a paragon of liberalness.

[Jackdog]

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She wore the skimpy clothing to reel you in didn't she?

You liked it then, but now you don't like it?

Seems like all the flack you give females for being indecisive is in vain when you can't decide whether you like the way she dresses or you don't like the way she dresses.

"I liked it when you looked slutty when we met, but not so much anymore babe", "Do you think you could be less slutty?"

Seems like this either:

(A) An issue of insecure men who don't want the attention drawn to them by their woman.
(B) An issue of insecure men who don't trust their woman.
(C) A petty issue that are usually generated by females.
(D) A result of passive-agressive behavior, which is typically perpetrated by women, and sissy-men.
(E) A&B
(F) C&D
(G) If you're really screwed up -- All of the Above.

Not like having children, or being successful at work, or being successful in academics, or playing sports, or numerous other activities?

I swear, reading some of these off-topic threads at OS make me (normally an anti-politically correct person) feel like a paragon of liberalness.

QFT. Good posts fellas.

[GAMEC0CK2002]

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Don't expect a tiger to change it's stripes. If that how she's been, just because you enter the picture doesn't mean that will change. You know what you are getting yourself into.