Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

[snepp]

Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

If you love your car, you don't go around turning on another vehicle's ignition.

*insert snarky remark about headlights here*

[Sting]

Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

best. thread. ever.

[Hova57]

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i get the part about seeing your wife or girlfriend doing that most guys would go medievil on someone's arse.

but how does it get that far that you actually "plug in plug in"

[JohnnytheSkin]

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If you truly care about your wife (significant other), then flirting is too much. Just a slippery slope you don't wanna get started on.

Ditto again. Once you start to intentionally flirt, you've gone too far.

If she's interested because you're a nice guy, being friendly, helped her out or something...and you continue after you pick up on that, it's too much. You don't have to change your personality, you just need to re-evaluate the situation.

[Cebby]

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Mouth, genitals, butt, and chest

If any part of your body touches any of those or any part of a female touches those parts on you (aside from the chest), it's cheating to me. Obviously this excludes emergency mouth to mouth or if someone gets shot in the *** or something, but for the most part it's clear.

[Scottdau]

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If you truly care about your wife (significant other), then flirting is too much. Just a slippery slope you don't wanna get started on.

Yep, and I am sure some will disagree but even having a good friend that is a girl and you are married is not a wise move in my opinion.

[19]

Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

Mouth, genitals, butt, and chest

If any part of your body touches any of those or any part of a female touches those parts on you (aside from the chest), it's cheating to me. Obviously this excludes emergency mouth to mouth or if someone gets shot in the *** or something, but for the most part it's clear.

This has PSA written all over it with Tiger Woods as the narrator.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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Hell Tiger, Mj and Kobe can be the narrator for this thread. But anyway elaborate on seeing her tits. Do you mean just in she had on a low cut blouse on and you seen the top half ?? Or did she literally whip them out for ya ? Or pulled her top open for you could purposely look down in there ?

Besides that flirting is flirting. Dont matter if you say it in person, on the cell phone texting, on yahoo messenger, aol messenger, skype, myspace, face book, etc. All women will and most men will still considered it flirting if they catch their other half posting kissy faces on other people home pages.

Also keep in mind, if your mind goes there, eventually your body will follow. And since you already thinking about banging her, eventually it will lead to it. Just thinking about it is a sign your not happy and satisfied in your relationship.

[DustinT]

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Seeing breasts is well past the line.

The way I look at it is if I start thinking that I'm doing something remotely wrong, I probably am. You can still be friends with another woman witho crossing the line, its not hard.

[Maxattax3]

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its not hard.

thats what she said.

[Scottdau]

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The more I think about it? I think you cross the line if you have sex with them more than twice. If you have sex with them that 3rd time, now you are cheating on your wife. Just like baseball 3 strikes and your out buddy.

[Jonesey]

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The easiest thing for me is to see if she wants to go home to my wife. If so, I'll just have a sandwich and a beer while I relax.

[servom999]

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The more I think about it? I think you cross the line if you have sex with them more than twice. If you have sex with them that 3rd time, now you are cheating on your wife. Just like baseball 3 strikes and your out buddy.

What? So, if my wife catches me with another woman, I can just tell her we only had sex once or twice and it's all good? Am I reading this right?

[mgoblue]

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What? So, if my wife catches me with another woman, I can just tell her we only had sex once or twice and it's all good? Am I reading this right?

Try that and see what your wife says!*

*don't do this, mgoblue, OS, and everyone else here is not responsible for the imminent collapse of your marriage

[bgeno]

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What? So, if my wife catches me with another woman, I can just tell her we only had sex once or twice and it's all good? Am I reading this right?

*whoosh*

That was the sound of his post going right over your head.