Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

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  • Blzer
    Resident film pundit
    • Mar 2004
    • 42515

    #31
    Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

    Originally posted by eckoefx
    its not hard.
    Originally posted by Maxattax3
    thats what she said.
    Story of my life.
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    • servom999
      Rookie
      • Feb 2003
      • 190

      #32
      Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

      Originally posted by bgeno
      *whoosh*

      That was the sound of his post going right over your head.


      Yeah, that sure did go over my head. I apologize for my ignorance.

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      • bgeno
        MVP
        • Jun 2003
        • 4321

        #33
        Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

        Originally posted by servom999
        Yeah, that sure did go over my head. I apologize for my ignorance.
        haha... sarcasm is difficult to detend on message boards... I understand.
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        How many brothers does Sub-zero running around in his clothing? No one can seem to kill the right one.

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        • bluengold34_OS
          Content Creator
          • Nov 2004
          • 7346

          #34
          Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

          True story....

          My Wife found a text that her best friend sent me about the three of us getting "together"

          What my Wife didn't know is that her best friend also said that if my Wife wasn't interested, she would still be ok with just her and I. I never told my Wife about that, because I knew it would hurt her( they have been friends since 4th grade ).

          I never excepted another text from that person again, because it had gone way over the line, when she decided it would still be ok...even without my Wife.

          The only way I was able to save myself, is that her friend told my Wife that I was being truthful, and didn't lie. Her friend also that admitted that as soon as she brought up the point about not having my Wife involved, I never responded.

          So, I never really did anything wrong here....other than not tell my Wife about her "proposal", but that was only to save my Wifes feelings. If her frined would not have admitted what she did, and that I was being honest...It would have been me up **** creek.

          I have never cheated on my Wife, never flirt past the line...and never will. I can't imagine hurting my Wife so badly, just so I can have a little fun on the side.
          Last edited by bluengold34_OS; 12-16-2009, 05:20 PM.
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          • KG
            Welcome Back
            • Sep 2005
            • 17583

            #35
            Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

            She put you in a bad sitation man. Is your wife still cool with her?
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            • ryan36
              7 dirty words...
              • Feb 2003
              • 10139

              #36
              Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

              It was either in a book, or a story at church, but a pastor was doing some marriage counseling with a couple who had been married 15 or 20 years. The husband cheated, and one pastor said to another person at the church, "No sex is worth what this man's family is about to go through."

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              • bluengold34_OS
                Content Creator
                • Nov 2004
                • 7346

                #37
                Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

                Originally posted by kgx2thez
                She put you in a bad sitation man. Is your wife still cool with her?
                Not at all Kev....the mere mention of her name in the house, and divorce papers hit the table.
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                • mgoblue
                  Go Wings!
                  • Jul 2002
                  • 25477

                  #38
                  Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

                  Originally posted by bluengold34
                  True story....

                  My Wife found a text that her best friend sent me about the three of us getting "together"

                  What my Wife didn't know is that her best friend also said that if my Wife wasn't interested, she would still be ok with just her and I. I never told my Wife about that, because I knew it would hurt her( they have been friends since 4th grade ).

                  I never excepted another text from that person again, because it had gone way over the line, when she decided it would still be ok...even without my Wife.

                  The only way I was able to save myself, is that her friend told my Wife that I was being truthful, and didn't lie. Her friend also that admitted that as soon as she brought up the point about not having my Wife involved, I never responded.

                  So, I never really did anything wrong here....other than not tell my Wife about her "proposal", but that was only to save my Wifes feelings. If her frined would not have admitted what she did, and that I was being honest...It would have been me up **** creek.

                  I have never cheated on my Wife, never flirt past the line...and never will. I can't imagine hurting my Wife so badly, just so I can have a little fun on the side.
                  Why didn't you delete that text immediately after reading?
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                  • Scottdau
                    Banned
                    • Feb 2003
                    • 32580

                    #39
                    I agree. Having affairs effect more than just you. Great post pitching.

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                    • Scottdau
                      Banned
                      • Feb 2003
                      • 32580

                      #40
                      Hey if it is good enough for baseball it is good enough for me.

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                      • luv_mist
                        Older
                        • May 2004
                        • 9596

                        #41
                        Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

                        My question for a bunch of married guys and guys who are in marriage-like relationships. Is watching porn cheating then??

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                        • ryan36
                          7 dirty words...
                          • Feb 2003
                          • 10139

                          #42
                          Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

                          No, but it drastically lowers the intimacy level , and really bugs women (I feel) more than they let on. This is in general terms. My ex girlfriend's parents got divorced because of his porn addiction. He never "cheated" but the result is the same. She had such a moral objection to it, that she could never let her guard down to "be with him" , and then it drove him deeper into his pics 'n' vids,

                          ...thus the addiction cycle commenced, and the marriage ceased after 25 years

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                          • HungryBologna
                            MVP
                            • Nov 2003
                            • 3156

                            #43
                            Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

                            Penetration.

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                            • Scottdau
                              Banned
                              • Feb 2003
                              • 32580

                              #44
                              Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

                              Originally posted by luv_mist
                              My question for a bunch of married guys and guys who are in marriage-like relationships. Is watching porn cheating then??
                              If your wife trips about porn and you are sneaky about watching porn then I would say yes it is wrong. If she is cool well that is another story. My personal opinion is it is wrong even if she is cool with it, but if I explain my opinion why I would break the TOS.

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                              • servom999
                                Rookie
                                • Feb 2003
                                • 190

                                #45
                                Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

                                Originally posted by luv_mist
                                My question for a bunch of married guys and guys who are in marriage-like relationships. Is watching porn cheating then??



                                No. But then I haven't really looked at porn since I've been married (5 yrs)

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