Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

[stewaat]

Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

You can control yourself, but it's human nature to want to f every hot thing moving.

At least that's my human nature!

[Koolie G]

Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

This isn't at all the case. Just because you're venting to a female does not mean you're cheating on your wife. I have problems with my fiancee and have talked about it to some female acquaintances. Hardly what I call cheating.

I agree.
I'm not saying that is cheating, I'm saying that can put you in a dangerous situation. If you start talking to that person about your very personal feelings, and they are listening to you and sympathizing with you, then you start to become emotionally involved with that person on a level that can lead to problems. You don't conciously realize it, but you will start running to that person with your troubles and then one thing lead to another and you'd rather be spending time with them than your significant other. This is maybe a little extreme example, but... I'm not saying there is anything wrong with talking to another female about your problems, but there is a great potential for things to go south if you are not very careful.

I also agree that it is human nature to want to get on hot chicks. I know I do. Luckily I have the ability to think and control my physical urges. That's why I don't go around punching every person in the face that doesn't agree with me. The consequences of my actions would be much worse than the reward. Plus I would be hurting another person unnecessarily, which I'd rather not do.

[Hova57]

Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

so it seems that many of us on here has some type of control to themselves. if that's the case why do men get labeled and animals. many of you said you look but don't touch , how and where does that start.

for me i rather window shop, than to actually slip something on or in . i told my wife about this thread i started with this topic. she didn't seem to mind i even showed her my answers. i can say that from the very beginning of my relationship i've always told her that i love boobs and i like to look at women boobs. its a running joke whene we are out and bout. but its known and never has been a problem for us.

[stewaat]

Re: Where do you draw the line when it comes to flirting and having an affair?

Well your wife isn't as insecure as most women.

Honestly I believe your wife is 10x more faithful just based on that fact.

The jealous females are the ones that will do you dirty. They get jealous because they know how they would act in that situation.

Just my opinion