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    Proctor, MN. Go Rails!
    • May 2008
    • 4102

    #181
    Re: Wife left me for another man

    Gary....

    I know we're complete strangers to one another. But I just wanted to chime in with the so many others, that really feel for your situation.

    It's pretty heartwarming to see all the members of OS that have posted their heartfelt support for you and your girls. I'm glad your reaching out to others Gary. I think thats very important to aid in the healing process.

    God bless you and your family Gary. Better days are ahead.
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    • longshadow11
      Pro
      • Mar 2004
      • 901

      #182
      Re: Wife left me for another man

      I GOT CUSTODY!!!

      It is temporary, but my lawyer said the parent who gets temporary almost always retains custody once the divorce is final. She gave in immediately. The only thing she wanted to fight about was money. I made her pay me child support before she left the courthouse.

      She willingly gave up custody of her two daughters for this man. Wow. What a mom. My lawyer said if she ever decides to try for custody, this will kill her in court. She gave them up without a fight. She now has to pay their health insurance and child support. The child support is 25% of her paycheck. HA! She's also stuck with a minivan which she has to make monthly payments on. She drives around in that gas guzzler by herself now. That makes me giggle.

      She will get the girls every 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekend plus see them on Thursdays. She can't take them to her house if her lover is there, so he has to stay in a motel when my kids stay with her. The same goes for when his kids come over.

      I definitely needed a good lawyer and mine is awesome.

      This whole situation is still horrible, but at least some justice has been served. My teenage daughter is going to counseling, and the counselor emphasized to me that my wife has really done a terrible thing to my daughter's emotional development. For that alone, I despise my wife. She is truly a vile creature to turn her back on her children.

      Thanks to all who have supported and prayed for my family. God is good and took care of us.

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      • cubsfan203
        All Star
        • Jun 2004
        • 6689

        #183
        Re: Wife left me for another man



        Congrats!! That's great news and you certainly needed some! Now hopefully you'll be able to sleep a little easier. Be sure and keep us posted.
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        • stewaat

          #184
          Re: Wife left me for another man

          Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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          • SportsTop
            The Few. The Proud.
            • Jul 2003
            • 6716

            #185
            Re: Wife left me for another man

            Gary,

            Congratulations! That's great to hear and I'm sure everyone that's following this thread will let out a big sigh of relief for you.

            You sound like a really stand up guy and a good man. You definitely deserved for the outcome to go the way it did today.

            It's amazing that she so easily gave up custody of the kids. I don't know her but it does sound like she has some type of psychological issues.
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            • BrianFifaFan
              Semi-retired
              • Oct 2003
              • 4137

              #186
              Re: Wife left me for another man

              Originally posted by longshadow11
              I GOT CUSTODY!!!

              It is temporary, but my lawyer said the parent who gets temporary almost always retains custody once the divorce is final. She gave in immediately. The only thing she wanted to fight about was money. I made her pay me child support before she left the courthouse.

              She willingly gave up custody of her two daughters for this man. Wow. What a mom. My lawyer said if she ever decides to try for custody, this will kill her in court. She gave them up without a fight. She now has to pay their health insurance and child support. The child support is 25% of her paycheck. HA! She's also stuck with a minivan which she has to make monthly payments on. She drives around in that gas guzzler by herself now. That makes me giggle.

              She will get the girls every 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekend plus see them on Thursdays. She can't take them to her house if her lover is there, so he has to stay in a motel when my kids stay with her. The same goes for when his kids come over.

              I definitely needed a good lawyer and mine is awesome.

              This whole situation is still horrible, but at least some justice has been served. My teenage daughter is going to counseling, and the counselor emphasized to me that my wife has really done a terrible thing to my daughter's emotional development. For that alone, I despise my wife. She is truly a vile creature to turn her back on her children.

              Thanks to all who have supported and prayed for my family. God is good and took care of us.
              Awesome news! Keep your chin up and keep doing the right thing. It's gonna work out in the favor of you and your daughters.
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              • Phobia
                Hall Of Fame
                • Jan 2008
                • 11623

                #187
                Re: Wife left me for another man

                Congrats Gary

                It is one of those situations where it is a win but it is hard to enjoy it because the whole situation is not good. But at least you did what you had to do for your kids.

                I think the biggest shocker of this is that your ex-wife did not fight for custody of her kids. That in itself is a big red flag into the thought process of this women. You have to be a very VERY selfish person to just walk out your kids life and in a way treat them as if they don't matter so you can be with some man.

                Be glad you are away from that women. She sounds like she needs serious help.

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                • PVarck31
                  Moderator
                  • Jan 2003
                  • 16869

                  #188
                  Re: Wife left me for another man

                  WOW, so glad to hear this latest news Gary. She is getting what she deserves. Keep your head up bro, things are already looking better.

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                  • Skyboxer
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                    • Jul 2002
                    • 20302

                    #189
                    Re: Wife left me for another man

                    Congrats!!!
                    Best wishes for you and you daughters.
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                    • mgoblue
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                      • Jul 2002
                      • 25477

                      #190
                      Re: Wife left me for another man

                      Awesome, congrats! Obviously a horrible situation to be in, but must feel good to know you've got your girls and you've done the best you can.

                      Hopefully you can start moving forward from here...good luck!
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                      • TheShizNo1
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                        • Mar 2007
                        • 26341

                        #191
                        Re: Wife left me for another man

                        Yeah! Good ****in **** man! OS'ers edrinks on me!
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                        • jeremym480
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                          • Oct 2008
                          • 18198

                          #192
                          Re: Wife left me for another man

                          This is the best new's I've heard all day!! Congrats Gary, the worst part is OVER, keep doing thing's the right way and I'm sure thing's will only get better from here on out. Good luck and keep us posted.
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                          • Brandwin
                            Hall Of Fame
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 30621

                            #193
                            Re: Wife left me for another man

                            Great to hear. Glad your children are with the stable parent and not the nut your soon to be ex wife seems to be.

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                            • devilsjaw
                              MVP
                              • Mar 2003
                              • 3572

                              #194
                              Re: Wife left me for another man

                              Good for you man! Justice is served.

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                              • Money99
                                Hall Of Fame
                                • Sep 2002
                                • 12695

                                #195
                                Re: Wife left me for another man

                                Wow, that's gotta be bittersweet news longshadow.

                                On one hand, you get to keep the girls. That's great for you and the girls as you're obviously the better of the two caregivers.
                                On the other hand, it's a major emotional blow to your kids that Mommy didn't want them and gave them up so easily.

                                I feel terrible for your girls. They're definitely going to need counselling over this.
                                But if this woman was so eager to give her kids off, they're better off for it and one day they'll realize that.

                                God bless.

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